OMG so far so good. AHHHHHHHH - I wanna scream, the waiting game is terrible and i am trying not to get excited because i am going to be so gutted if shows up.

OH should be landing now so going to start preparing dinner. I made hin a trifle (a boxed one that he bought for me to make! I know how to make a nicer one but if it's boxed he wants). Have also bought him steak but he has to cook that as he like it rare and i'm a veg so can't do it as feel too squeemish at mo.

Now if my temp takes a dip in the morning is it worth me wasting a test?

keep positive Tansey!!!
she will not show!!!!

Fingers and everything else crossed for you babe!!

And as i cannot wait to test... i say i'd rather just know myself...
here's some for good measure!!!

and GOOD LUCK!!

I want you to get that desperately!!!

When you gonna Tansey??? At least if i cant test maybe i can live vicariously through you, lol!!

So excited for you Tansey, hope this is it!!! Good luck tomorrow!

sorry to butt in with an opposing view omi, but I'm a POAS avoider! Tansey, if it was me, I'd just wait and see if the temp drops a day or two in a row and/or drops below the coverline. If temps drop but are still above the coverline, it's possible they will still go back up. I've been TTC for six months now and I've only used two HPT so far. Both were to figure out what was happening w/ my body when it was very ambiguous. The first was in January, just before I began TTC... I hadn't had AF for around 40 days so I thought perhaps I was already P... . Then, just this last cycle, I had constant pulling sensations in the abs, then my temps took a dive. I really wanted to check if, perhaps, I'd experienced a very early chemical P so I did the test... obviously, . Anyway... as you can see, I'm very miserly with my tests! Hee hee... I'll be here to help you be patient if you decide to wait to test!

[quote=CloudyDay;502623]sorry to butt in with an opposing view omi, but I'm a POAS avoider! Tansey, if it was me, I'd just wait and see if the temp drops a day or two in a row and/or drops below the coverline. If temps drop but are still above the coverline, it's possible they will still go back up. [quote=CloudyDay;502623]

No probs..im not a crazy poas'er myself (no offence ladies) but if you feel something strange and i mean out of the ordinary, you're bored, have big stash of cheap tests - and do not fall apart at the negative results- i do not see the harm in testing.

Having said that Tansey is being very reasonable..i have every faith in you babe..however, i still wanna know, when you gonna test???? lol!!

, Omi xxx for Tansey ordered!!!

You are gonna be testing at 6am tomorrow morning hun! It's physically impossible to sleep late when you really think this is it! It was me two weeks ago, and Jolyn last Sunday, please let it be you this week!!!!

which was expected and i really shouldn't have wasted a test because before i went to bed i checked CP (I know i shouldn't poke around) and i noticed that the CM had a very slight off colour which means that spotting is on the way!
Although my temp is up a bit (which made me still test) i went to bed really late and OH is back so this may have affected it? Feel terrible now i'm up, boobs are tender and it is aching down there.

i'm ok but i'd almost convinced myself that this was it and that the slight ache was like the stretching pains i had last time before MC.

I would have waited but just couldn't resist knowing in case i was pg on Father's Day, in fact i almost didn't but internet tests are so cheap!

Morning Tansey,

Don't feel bad, there really is no need although I understand why you do. At least you didn't get a false positive or any indication of a chemical pregnancy. You know the way they advise not to test early in case of this and we have both read so many heart breaking stories about this happening to others. So, that's one good thing.

Another good thing is that your temperature has gone up and not down and has put your mind at ease about your thermometer working OK. As I said before I've seen quite a few charts on FF with a few sets of straight temps in the middle, both for ovulatory and pregnancy ones (another good thing).

Finally and best of all you are only 11DPO so a few more days yet before you know for sure.

As for spotting, well you could still spot before getting a BFP, especially as it's normal for you. I would play that one by ear and see what happens, but whatever you do, don't waste a good worry on something that hasn't happened. You'll spoil your Sunday.

Today is Fathers Day according to Hallmark. In my opinion there are 365 days to choose from to present your man with a BFP test stick and declare that particular day as his Fathers Day.

Wishing a lovely Sunday to a special person ... you.