Omi

Oh, sweetie,

Dont despair..i know its difficult but even if the witch rears her ugly face there is another way to look at it..dont know if it helps , but i like to think about it as the longer i try the closer i am to getting that bfp, you know?

I am also totally sympathetic to the big gob slip up of your ttc status.. not fun, but you might be surprised although i can totally relate to the upset of having to put on the 'brave face', hun.

Aw, hun..you will feel better again and we're here to share everything with you..you'll get your bfp babe..you're little bean is out there waiting for you, dont you know?

Franjipan

Yeah I agree with Omi chick. Youre right Omi that is a good way to look at, every cycle we go must mean we are getting closer to it. My friend said to me the other month when she knoew I was down, just think if witch does show it could be the first day of being pregnant if you get bfp that cycle, which is true. I know you cant try this cycle coming if OH is away but it could apply to you for the following month.
Theres not a lot I can say really as if youre anything like me at times theres nowt that will cheer you up but we are all here for you babes and please stay positive, my nan was 42 when she had my auntie, age doesnt count I promise Tans, youre going to do it, we're all going to do it. Ive already decided if i dont get preg then im starting breeding boxer dogs instead to keep my Buster company!
Will you be able to go online at your mums? If not then catch up with you when you come back x

Alexandra

Dude what are you on about?!? What to do with the forum and TTC?!?! You were close and you'll be beyond close again. You know that lovely....

Anyhow, you'll feel better, we all do, this is the mandatory melt down, watch out for mine! Just know we love you and keep everything crossed for you, with all our hearts.

Tishimouse

Oh Tansey,

Nasty stupid witch. Please don't stay upset for too long. As for your family asking questions in the future. You get your answers ready and tell them flat out "lot's of time for children and we haven't fully decided yet". That will shut them up more than an awkward silence or wobbley chin.

I know how to make you feel better about your age. Just think of me ... I'm nearly 46 and no kids YET and also did everything right last month but no cigar. So, no matter how bad you feel, just think of me and say "ha ha ... at least I have an extra 10 years than Tishimouse!". You go ahead and say it, be my guest. Anything to make you feel all better.

Michy

Oh hun, I feel for you, but am sure you will get you soon xxxxx

Capuru

Hope you feel better. I know that can be a depressing sight when you're hoping for a bfp she'll be gone for 9months soon.

Franjipan

Morning Tansey, Im just checking in on you, cant remember when you said you were going away to your mums but I hope it takes your mind off this for a bit. I just wanted to you to know that we've all felt really down at some point about it, to be honest i think if im honest i feel down about it more than i ever feel positive. The time after christmas to the end of march was the worst for me and if you feel you cant talk on here as its too much of the wrong focus , everyone understnads but it may also help you to know that we are all going through the same thing off and on too. Talking to you is what makes me sane as its made me realise that I am justified in feeling how I do most of the time.
Hope you ok xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

wishing4ababy

sweetheart, please don't feel like you are on your own - we have all felt the same on here at some point - as everyone else has said.
You will get your BFp so soon - and you shouldn't feel down about your age. A very good friend of mine thuoght that they couldn't have children and she got pregnant at the age of 38. Age is nothing - it is the thought that you and your lovely OH will make fantastic parents. making something so special takes time my lovely. Chin up. HAve a nice relaxing week - we are all thinking about you.

tansey

YOU ARE ALL SO LOVELY!!! A MASSIVE THANK YOU

Just sneaking a quick minute at work. I won't be able to come back on until Sunday evening but I AM staying on here.
I was a mess yesterday and thought it was the end of the world! Apart from having two bad nights sleep wise and a bad day at work - the drop in hormones made me mega depressed - but after all your lovely words, a cry and a good nights sleep, I feel loads better!
I'm obviously still upset and dreading May as OH is away a lot but I'm just hoping the I OV on a day he is home.
Anyway, waiting for full flow (she's messing with me at the moment) then I can begin CD1 of my best cycle ever!!!!

Love you all xxx

Phexia

Good luck with the next cycle sweety