tansey

Now feel a bit teary and down - this is so AF like! And to top things off OH been on phone to his brother and he asked if we were TTC and OH said 'sort of' - bloody furious as we agreed that we wouldn't say anything to anyone. Now his bro knows, he will tell wife and mum and Dad and sister etc. My mum doesn't even know. I just know next time we visit they will now ask 'any news' or something.

Lazy Leo

Aw Tansey, you must be fuming! It really pisses me off when they can't keep their mouths shut. And for him to do that when you are PMS'ing - that's a man with a deathwish!!!

tansey

CD25/11DPO
Slept terrible which is an AF sign. Feel delicate? I'm very bloated with huge boobs, so basically feel like a small elephant! Also OH knows I am in a mood with him and is making me feel guilty by looking upset - or is tis my guilt at maybe an over-reaction?
Gotta go work now
Pray my day improves.

Alexandra

No no no lady, you know better than to fall for that ol' trick. "If she gets upset I'll look even more upset" is the oldest one in the Boys' Book! I don't even think they think of these devious maneuvers intentionally, they're not that.... well they don't it's instinctive. Don't cave in, he was wrong even if involuntarily and he needs to apologise so that you get over it. Well if he chose to do that with chocolates and flowers or a night out who are you to stand in the way of his apology strategy?!?!

And you don't know those are AF symptoms, don't be silly, it would be too early anyhow, right?

wishing4ababy

really hoping it isn't AF sign hun - i have ordered you a so if steals it before it gets to you I will not be happy!
Good luck - hope OH apologises to you. my oh did exactly the same thing and announced it to some of our friends! i was so angry, and it took him a whole week to realise why i was so p@ssed off with him.

Franjipan

Tansey,im sorry the news has been leaked. What a nightmare?? I have to admit all our families knew about us ttc mostly because I kept opening my big fat gob and telling people, my fault. At the time it sis pee me off because i felt pressure about it all etc but now they all know how long its taken and after numerous insensitive questions about it they finally realise how hard its been for us now so dont go on about it which is good. So dont worry sometimes by them knowing it might actually end up helping, you never know.

Really hope stinky keeps her distance from you. I got the big boobies too today and such a wierd dragging feeling down low but im keeping positive aint gonna get us!!! No way! Cant believe youve not tested yet you deserve a shiny gold star Tansey!!!

Well im keeping everything crossed for you today. At least you can use the situation with your OH to your advantage, bleed him dry now, tell him youll need a full body massage and something more exciting than Cocoa pops!!! (although i love em too) x

tansey

Thanks for all your lovely words girls -they mean a lot. Nearly finished work and will make up with OH when I get home. I'm going to whinge my heart out as I can feel the cramps a bit more now and my cm has yurned brown which comes before spotting. This happened last month so AF is on way. I am really, really, really upset!!!!!!

wishing4ababy

really hope it isn't . Got everything crossed for you hun.

Franjipan

Look I thought I made it very clear you were supposed to be making yourslef scarce around here, dont you know im Italian, I have mafia connections, you'd better look out missus!!!!

Im sooo sorry Tans, I really hope its not her, maybe your cm is blushing and thats why its brown?? (Im sorry just trying to cheer you up)

Go home make up with OH and get lots of hugs and cuddles and that will immediately make you feel a bit better. Damn you mother nature making my friends so unhappy!

Well you know where I am if you want to chat xxx

tansey

CD25/11DPO

Spotting and slight cramps. Going to be online tonight, then off to mum's for weekend with my false 'everythings great' with me face, then i'll decide Sunday evening what to do regarding TTC and forum. OH is away next OV date so what's the point. Can't help but think if i hadn't had MC i'd be 13weeks. I'm nearly 36 and have no kids. I did everything right this month, what else can I do??