carmen

Hi Omi,

Good to see you doing alright, you know sometimes, i think you can t beat the good whole OPK, because you just see the line well sometimes its mission to actually work out if its a line ... lol! But basically it is mostly clear. The things with the little monitors they can pack in .... grrr!

But it sounds like you in with a brill chance this month, loads of bding and more to come ... i hope you get your this month , i m missing everyone from the ttc jounals .... come on join me this month.

But i must say that the month i got my bfp , my opks ran out and i just made sure i bd loads and laid there for 30 minutes after Like you said we just have to go with our bodies .

akamummy

Hi Omi
Thanks for the comment in my journal! I would just love a MS sheild! ms is driving me nuts!
anyway enough about me...I thought that I would pop in to say hi! Hope the furbabies are doing well! As for OH well, hope he is giving you his essence! ( ) thats what a girlfriends hubby called it when they were ttc....so funny!

How is the egg white going? Have you tried it yet? I have passed that knowledge on to another couple, who are friends of mine who are ttc without success! Im hoping this will be your month!

Please take care of yourself and

Will pop in again....soon....got to go throw up!

Omi

Thanks Carmen... im trying the best i can and im staying hopeful!! I SHALL join you sooner than later, dammit

Oh, Akamummy..oh, dear..the ms... poooooey!! I shall send some more anti ms vibes your way tonight!!

Wish me luck by the way..yesterday was a dud, lol! OH came home said he was shattered and fell asleep on sofa. I left him alone- i dont know about the rest of you but 'do not touch the sleeping man- fury!!! So, due to positive opk again today and copious amounts of ewcm (sorry!) i have primed him for tonight.. unfortunately he's knackered again and has a dreadful week coming up at work..fingers crossed. I told him, and he knows anyway.. lets make a baby!!!! (its an order but i have to go gentle otherwise no go i think..poor bunny and poor me !!!! Lol!!)

Eggwhite has been great but have run out of it tonight- corner shop had run out of eggs-booo! so will have to go commando so to speak

Anyway, wish me luck ill get some bd done tonight and then on 2ww.. I have and will pray i catch this month, please, please, please, please,please etc etc...

, Omi xxx

Nic

Well you are offline so I presume Operation Commando is going well!! I certainly hope so

akamummy

I aggree...I hope that operation comando is going well! swim swim!!!!

Kiss the furbabies for me and give them an extra special cuddle! Coz if things dont go well this month lots of cuddles by the furbabies always help!

Well, take care and keep us posted!

Omi

I give up. No bd either saturday OR sunday = knackered , falling asleep. The last think he told me was 'you probably hate me', to which i answered 'of course i dont'. And i dont.

But im fed up doing EVERYTHING. I havent told him yet as he's taken work home (its that time of year- he's marking) but when he finishes i shall tell him that im stopping everything! If he wants a baby its up to him cause my way aint working and i cannot do it on my own..so its his turn to put in some effort.

I love him and he loves me..its not bad, dont get me wrong. But whats the point of me eating pills and whatnot, peeing on things left right and centre, doing calculations AND being the OV sexpest. I quit!!!

Its up to him from now on. I dont know how he's gonna take it but seeing as we're not the yelling type of couple (we never fight- we have disagreements..yeah, we hate confrontation, lol!) i suspect he'll take it on the cheek, agree he's not been the best and that he'll do better- blahdablahdah!! I shall gently remind him thats been said before, many times before, and so i quit! 'Do with it what you like'.

I want him to ask me when to bd, find out the dates etc etc. For once i dont wanna be the sex pest when ov comes around.

So there. No more cbfm, opk's, dates of ov, pills etc. Nothing. Zip.Zippo! (ok, i'll still the prenatals- well, spina bifida is no joke, eh?)

Wish me luck, ladies..i'll need it now more than ever!

, Omi xxx

tansey

Good for you hun! Men should defo be doing their part. You still could have done enough this month anyway and then neither of you will have to do anything next month!
Wishing you luck + aren't you in the 2ww now? Yay xxxxxxxxxxx

Omi

Yea, im in the 2ww..2ww for af more like..

What really plays on my mind is that last time i 'gave up, i got pg...hmmmm, better not. I shall play things cool and close to me heart and what ever happens, happens..out of my hands..

By the way, does anyone think having a bath saturday eve could have washed away the spermies of friday night? They're my only hope (obe one kanobe..lol!! Sorry. star wars) Fingers crossed...!

Thanks Tan, , Omi xxx

carmen

i don t think the swimmies got washed away , but i must admit i heard something about not having
baths on the ovulation period so the month , i got my bfp i stuck to showers.

Have you spoke to OH yet? I understand your fustration and i was really lucky cos my oh work is not demanding so he was as enthusiastic as ever. But i understand your oh haveing ademanding job, maybe when you talk to him, you just have to say, that for one week of the month or 5 days, to plan nothing.

But come on hopfully you don t have to have another month trying cos maybe you got it.

i hope it soooooooo much for you. so good luck on your tww. let june be your month .

Tishimouse

Omi honey,

I could have written the above ... the exact same words. I decided last week that I don't want to temp or using my CBFM next month for the exact same reasons. My husband is so oblivious to where I am in my cycle and never asks about it. He doesn't even know I am due to test in 6 days and would be really annoyed if he knew that I was still spending my time on Baby and Bump. He believes it stresses me out and that I spend too much time thinking about TTC and timing everything. The sad thing is, this year is really my last chance to conceive I think because I was 46 in May and honestly feel that I don't have much time. So you are not alone in the frustration department, that's for sure.

You know, I wish you more luck than you have ever had and for this to be your month. Sending you some and