genkigemini

Don't worry, honey. You'll get your BFP soon.

Did you and DH make up?

Samo

Yep DH and I made up last night. I kicked him out of bed made him go to the couch in the living room. I got scared though because there was bad storm outside and i called him back after 15 min. BUT I did have my dog sleep in the middle last night, but we were fine by morning! Thing i hate about arguing w/ him and such is i usually drop things and get over it in 10 min, but for him...he could be upset ALL day for stupid things! If only he could be like me a forgive and forget

NeyNey

And they say women hold grudges? I don't get that!

Men can be so picky sometimes, glad you guys made up though sweetie

TrixieLox

My dog sleeps between us even when we're not arguging, he's a spoilt little pup!!! Anyway, sorry to hear about the argument but pleased you've made up. As for chilling about things this month - well, that's what my mate did and she fell PG! I'm gonna do the same next month, just relax (I think - but then I say that then I always end up forcing myself on hubby!). Good luck anyway hon. x

SwissMiss

Glad you made up, Samo! If there's someone who knows about rows w/ the DH, its me! Dont' stress, like you said, its the beginning of the cycle. Are you not temping after all? Just asking 'cause I found it really helped me not to stress at the very beginning of the cycle, CD8 thru 12 when my temps stayed low... then you know you haven't O'd yet and still "have a chance"... anyhoo, THANK YOU for all your support, I'll be watching and praying and crossing everything that you'll be over in first tri sooooooon!!!

Samo

Thanks girls . Trixie, i love my dog sleeping with me hehe but DH is always like "NO DOG NO THAT'S MY SPOT" and stuff . He always puts the dog at the bottom of the bed...funny thought because when we wake in the morning, little Sammy dog is usually right back up between us he's a little sneak! I love him, he's a spoiled dog if i ever saw one!

03/06/08 - Wendy, i was going to temp...but then...i dunno...i seem to have lost interest to TTC . I am just so down and turned off to even try!!! I think i am just being pessimistic, i keep thinking 'why even bother? it wont happen anyways' and playing in my mind that all our family will ask us "when will we have a grandchild!" and it makes me feel miserable because no matter how hard i try, it's just not happening.

Tried to BD...but couldn't. I have a low sex drive, but the thought of babies and TTC always gave me the will to want it! But now...i just can't...there's no feeling, i can't get myself to "want it". Before we started TTC...we'd be lucky if i was interested ONCE a month Nothing seems to stimulate me right now. I haven't even been looking for signs or dates for Ovulation...how terrible am I! But looking that i am on CD10 now...it should happen within the next couple of days *yikes* with the way i am feeling now though, I'd have to force myself to do the deed.

blaaaaaaahhhhh darn you low sex drive. I have no libido!

SwissMiss

When you're closer to O, it should help a little, hun... but dont' put yourself under pressure! If you don't want it, you don't want it! Your LO should be conceived with good sex, not forced sex!!! One day you'll just feel randy, you'll get some good bd'ing in, and it'll happen for you, I know it! Take a break from it all if you need to, eh?

EllaCruz

I have a low sex drive as well. I know exactly how you feel. Sometimes, you just think, why bother? Its not going to happen anyway. Its like some deep rooted knowledge or something that this is just not going to work. People say to be positive but, how can a person do that when they are just not feeling it?

I seem to want it around O time. Even if it is just for that week, I feel like I am up for it. Afterwards? Cannot be bothered.

You are not alone.

genkigemini

Oh Hon...

Don't say it will never happen. That makes you sound like me.

If your sex drive is low, the others are right. Don't force yourself. (I go through this quite often as well.) Your time will come soon. I am confident for you. Don't give up.

Michy

Awwww honey