So, here goes... I'm really not sure if i'm doing this right - all these billion types of "Threads"... I'm a tad confuseled...
Well, anyway, we are in our 4th month of TTC and I lose my mind every TWW!!! I thought I'd start a TTC journal so at least I have somewhere to go besides googling "Pregnancy Symptoms" for 14 days straight this time!
I'm CD 7 today. Usually I have VERY regular 27 or 28 day cycles - I can practically predict the TIME for G-d's sake! But last month (when I was REALLY hopeful b/c it was the holidays and we had 2 weeks off to stay home and BD), well... ! AF came at CD 24!?!?!? Helloooooo???? 4 days early?!?! That hasn't happened in I-dunno-when!
But I'm more hopeful this month. I sent DH a giant mail telling him I felt alone in this whole process b/c everytime I want to BD now he thinks its only 'cause I want to get a BFP... Well, its true, but it doesn't mean I enjoy it any less!?!? He's been very supportive ever since. He really is lovely
I guess that's it for the opening post. I have a movie date with a friend tonight, but I'm hoping we can BD afterward, although DH is sick at the minute... We'll see...
Back to work, heh, my productivity has seriously declined with this TTC business!
Aw welcome to B&B honey.
Best of luck in your TTC journey, Trust me, you're not the only one who googles "early pregnancy symptoms" lol...I do it ALLL the time
.. and I lose my mind every TWW!!! I thought I'd start a TTC journal so at least I have somewhere to go besides googling "Pregnancy Symptoms" for 14 days straight this time!
That really made me giggle. I know exactly how you feel, I intend to start a journal soon because I drive myself insane each month while TTC and imagine all sorts of symptoms. I'm a reasonably sain (sp?) person but making babies just drives me nuts.
Ah good, another crazy chick to share the 2 week loopy wait with. I think this forum is a must for anyone and helps you not to have to bounce things off husband/partner all the time.
I must be insane because I can't wait for my next 2WW. I think I enjoy the fact that I've tried my best at something after all the calculations and research and can't wait for good news. Of course, the bad news is the hard part and I was so disappointed when my temps. went down at the end of my last cycle. Am I the only one who feels this way?
Last edited by Tishimouse : 15-01-2008 at 19:44 PM.
Hi Tishimouse - YES! I know what you mean! I lose my mind every TWW, but I'm dying to be on the next one already and we haven't even BD'd yet!!!! I convince myself EVERY month that I will not obsess, I will not read anything into every little twinge or cramp or boob tingle - and I get as far as about 8dpo (if that!) and start doin' it all over again!??!?! yeesh... I've already laid into my DH 'cause we didn't BD last night - poor soul he's got a sinus cold, just lifting his head hurt... I'm a real sometimes... But we're on a mission here!!!!! *sigh*
Right, work... maybe it'll take my mind off... Later, ladies!
Awww good luck for this round Wendy and I hope your DH is feeling better soon!! I know exactly what you mean, I was just saying to someone else yesterday about googling - I am constantly on google typing pregnancy symptoms etc., it's like an addiction! I have noticed that this B&B forum is a great help, since I joined, I don't seem to have been googling as much - maybe only 20 times per day instead of 50 (I have just been bugging all the lovely ladies in here instead hehehe). All the best!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK I'm frustrated as H'LL!!!!!!!!!! (and hung over from 3 glasses of red wine... I can't hold my booze anymore )
AGAIN no Bding last night, DH was healthy enough to go to his stupid handball practice but then too tired to tend to me/us afterward?!?!?! AAAAAAAAAARGGH! I'm CD9 and we haven't done jack all yet!?!?!?!
breeeeeeeeath... hopefully maybe tonight and then its the weekend, we're usually more "active" then... and I'm not showing any signs of O'ing, so maybe my cycle is back to the normal 28 days again - meaning I should O on CD13, 14 or 15 (yeah, i'm pretty textbook!) - which works out well 'cause that's next Tuesday one of the ONLY days during the week that we are home together!
sorry to vent on you ladies - but i woulda ripped into DH again and I don't think that creates a very positive atmosphere for baby-making...
Don't worry about exploding here, that's the good part about forums. Others feel exactly the same way from time to time and as you say, it's better than venting on your husband. If you argue, that would be a disaster.
I'm on CD5 and both my husband and myself work different shifts, which makes timing difficult. To make thinks a bit complicated this month, I am working a set of night shifts, just at the crucial time; but DH bless him was telling me last night not to stress, that we will manage it somehow. (He messed it up a bit last month, so I think he feels more responsible this time).
Hope you get your quality time together.
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