Hiya Girls, thx Tishimouse!
Nothin' to report AGAIN - meaning no BDing last night. I'm swallowing my AGAIN today - maybe its my fault that i don't wait up for him, but, i mean, he could WAKE ME UP, no???? aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh! Stupid stupid handball practice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tonight he's going to a hockey game and I'm going to a movie - who wants to BET he gets home at like 2am when i'm already in bed?!?!? grrrrrrrrroooooooooooooowl!!!!
*sigh* This is ridiculous this month. Since when does social activity get in the way of BDing?!?!?!
Although, as i say, I'm showing absolutely NO sign of being even remotely fertile yet... still pretty dry down there (sorry if TMI! ) - but I'm pretty sporty too, I run NEARLY every lunch hour, or at least 3-4x/week... Does anyone know for sure if that can affect CM/fertility? I'm not over training or anything, but I keep reading how much CM everyone ELSE seems to have and it seems i've to search for mine... heh... TMI again, eh?!
Alright, that's it for now. goin' to eat me a lovely spicy curry with a girlfriend and watch P.S. I love you - surely a movie! We are on a long ski weekend this weekend, during which I hope we'll FINALLY get to "IT" so I'll see you girls on Tuesday - my O day! Have a GREAT weekend, to those whose fertile time it is, like me - LET'S GET IT ON!!!
xox
I'm selfishly assuming someone is goin' to read this... so here I am again! and THRILLED to announce that we finally got around to bd'ing. Sat morning before we left, and then yesterday too... teehee! I'm hoping for tonight again as I don't seem to have o'd yet :P I hope this isn't going to be another kooky month!
Was pretty great going away with another couple who are also ttc, for nearly 3 YEARS!!!?! i had no idea... Her DH also seems to have had anti-bd-itis at the crucial moment for the longest time, we vented together while the boys talked 'shop'...
Well, anyhoo, I'm CD14 (I think - my AF was so light last month i'm not sure if I should count the 1st day as spotting or the real thing, grrr) and so NEARLY officially on the TWW again... nearly... I'm going to attempt to keep bd'ing til CD17 just in case...
ok, back to work which is seriously stressing me today!
Awww good luck for this round. I think you are doing right by keep bd'ing
My OH seems to have anti-bd-itis also this month, mind you, I am the same... I have been so tired this month that it is a bit of an effort. I bought some sexy underwear last week just to tempt him a little more, I wore it once and it worked... but now I can't even be bothered to wear it I think it was all the fatty foods and sweets at Xmas draining my energy for this month.
Thanks ChelleBelle! I've tried the sexy undies bit - to no avail; he's not a lingerie man, apparently. I'm trying a new technique tonight: massage! I've bought manly smelling oil and everything... but we're goin' out to a hockey game (AGAIN), I just hope we dont' get home too late and he decides he's too tired... I'll throw a for sure! 'specially since I won't see him seriously for the rest of the week - soccer, handball, girls night/guys night, handball... UGH. Although I should technically be on the TWW by then, assuming I O! I'm one of them girls with little/no EWCM (sorry, TMI) and temps all over the place (my own fault, i'm not very consistent with that part)...
I'm not overly hopeful this month... but TRYING to be positive...
Well I hope the massage worked! I am staying positive for you! And... I am sure you will O, I guess if you don't have too much EWCM, it's not as easy to tell if you have or not, and if you have EWCM, it can make you more hopeful as you relate it to O. Last month, I had EWCM 3 times - once a week, so I don't go off that anymore I am terrible with the temping too, I gave up last month as mine were all over the place, but I kept forgetting etc.
Like I said to my friend yesterday, once the miracle happens, I will look back on this start of the journey and laugh as it will be nothing in comparison to what I have got at the end of it. Me and my OH will have probably gone by then and be unfit to take care of a baby
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh! as they say in Swiss German "kopfried stutz" I'm soooooooooooooooooooo frustrated!!!!!!!!!!!
STILL no bd-ing! HOW can this be!?!?!? If i've to push this little face thing again... Oh what the h'll
... *sigh*... As predicted, DH too "tired" (read - just not interested) to do anything last night... On the up side, I don't THINK I've O'd yet. either that, or I did so so early on that I missed it anyway. CM getting wetter tho', maybe it'll be a CD16 month... we'll see... I'm gonna do my best to jump him before we go our separate ways to sports practices tonight - and if THAT doesn't work, well, when he gets home. We're gonna bd tonight if it kills me.
So, back to work - this TTCing is gonna get me on the "naughty list" at the office...
You need to tell him how good a sport BD is and how many calories it burns off. It's just so good for you, releasing good endorphins and better than a weights session at the gym, lie lie lie lie.
I agree with Tishimouse, and I think you should resort to drastic measures if that doesn't work... tie him to the bed and don't let him off until he gives you what you want.
Tying him to the bed - THAT's an idea!!! THANKS girls, I needed that! Wasn't even gonna come on here today, I'm so depressed. Once again, nowt. Given my resolve NOT to pressure him, I didn't say anything when I got home, just sat on the couch together watching - what else - handball... and then suddenly, 5 mins before we've to leave he says he woulda been up for it!!?!? Ok, I think, when we get home then! FAB!
But no. Too tired from practice. I didn't even throw a - I just cried myself to sleep last night. Have totally given up on this month. I'm CD15 and think I must've o'd early anyway.
He sent me a mail this morning and said he was sorry, he knows he has to work on this "issue" and promised it would get better... It was sweet, but I'm so discouraged I can't even believe him.
Gonna log off now 'cause I don't want to sit in our big open space office sniffling in front of the comp screen.
On the bd'g front maybe if you act like your not bothered by it and couldnt care less if you BD then he might come a running .... the whole reverse phsycology thingy.
Good luck though for this month!!
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AGAIN today - maybe its my fault that i don't wait up for him, but, i mean, he could WAKE ME UP, no???? aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh! Stupid stupid handball practice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tonight he's going to a hockey game and I'm going to a movie - who wants to BET he gets home at like 2am when i'm already in bed?!?!? grrrrrrrrroooooooooooooowl!!!! 
) - but I'm pretty sporty too, I run NEARLY every lunch hour, or at least 3-4x/week... Does anyone know for sure if that can affect CM/fertility? I'm not over training or anything, but I keep reading how much CM everyone ELSE seems to have and it seems i've to search for mine... heh... TMI again, eh?! 
movie! We are on a long ski weekend this weekend, during which I hope we'll FINALLY get to "IT" 
so here I am again! and THRILLED to announce that we finally got around to bd'ing. Sat morning before we left, and then yesterday too... teehee! I'm hoping for tonight again as I don't seem to have o'd yet :P I hope this isn't going to be another kooky month! 
to all! 
I think it was all the fatty foods and sweets at Xmas draining my energy for this month. 
but we're goin' out to a hockey game (AGAIN), I just hope we dont' get home too late and he decides he's too tired... I'll throw a 
by then and be unfit to take care of a baby 
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