Aww hun sorry your having a crappy time at home with OH

Totally agree with Chelle, he has to realise he's got to put some effort in too and its not all one way.

Sit him down and refuse to feed him unless he talks about it lol

Good luck. I'm sure you will work it out

Wendy you much be ready to wring his neck!
Does he have a low sex drive to start with? Thats just gonna make things harder for you.
Men - They just dont seem to get it do they!? My OH thought it would 'just happen'.... The first month we were TTC I made the mistake of telling him what was going on in terms of the schedule/signs etc and it got me nowhere. He wouldnt give it up, infact at times I honestly thought he was doing it on purpose! Anyway month 2 came and I didnt say a word. I let him think that it was 'just happening' and used the help of some fancy undies and we had a much better and more sucessful month.
Good luck sweetie. Rant here anytime - thats why we're here.

Oh honey
You must be going out of your mind.
You know, many DH and OH often find the whole TTC journey a little too much. I think sometimes we can put pressure on them without even realsing it. I've had a couple of cycles where DH is reading to go any night of the week except the nights i'm O'ing, and all of a sudden he is too tired/exhausted or whatever....drives you completely insane!
Have a talk to him like you said, it's good you got out some of your feelings, at least he knows that everything is not ok, and he needs to take some action to discuss it with you

Goooood morning!!! Thank you for your posts everybody, you are all truly awesome. Its a terrible thing to say, really, but I am relieved that I'm not the only one who has trouble w/ the DH... It sure feels like it sometimes, reading some of the other threads/journals... The day MY dh says "swim spermies swim" I will pass out!!!!

But, GUESS WHAT?!?!? We Bd'd last night!!?!? Wonders will NEVER cease! We had a mini talk before my soccer game (typical, I tell you - when I have the least amount time, suddenly its convenient for him to talk. When we're alone all evening in front of the tv, he "needs" to watch sth or other w/ no interruptions)... anyway, no whingeing today, I feel better (man, I must come across as a complete maniac or sth - I only feel good after sex!! But I hope everyone knows what I mean... )

Anyway, HE brought it up; said he knows we need to bd more but for some reason he's having a hard time of it... He loves me, he very much wants kids but his sex drive is at an all time low and he's not sure why... I think he was basically asking for my patience, which I do owe him. He is my husband, after all... And then, lo and behold, we get home at the same time, watch some tv and go to bed. He cuddles me and I truly wasnt' expecting anything and then pooof! HE started it! yaahooooooooo! Couldn't use the preseed tho', was terrified of getting up and losing the moment... ah well...

What's worrying me now is Oing!!?!? Where the h'll is it?!?!? CD 17 and my temp at 36.14 again w/very little CM?!!? don't tell me after all this stressing its gonna be a month without O?!?! *sigh* Where would I be w/out worrying?? I'm not officially in the TWW yet, but getting close... hopefully today or tomorrow... otherwise my LP is too short and I get to stress even MORE!!!
Right, back to work! to all!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and to me too if I may! I'm all teary b/c I can't believe I actually have a (slim) chance again this month! I was so sure it was all over!!! yea!!!
x

Hey, im so glad it all worked out fine, hope you do get your BFP this month, i think every single lady on here deserves to have her little gift from above.
Im on CD16 today and also no O, been testing since CD12 and nothing. Maby we just haven't noticed it.

Good luck, will be right behind you in the TWW

Thanks Jacky!! Really bizarre, this Oing thing... Are you temping too?? What do yours look like? Maybe we'll O late... I have cramps, sort of, but it could be due to soccer - trainings have been pretty hard lately and my body is rebelling! I'm all soft and rolly polly after the holidays...
Hey, I got your pm but I'm at work and we have a popup block and I cant read it!??!?! sorry!!! and to you too!!!

No , no temping for me, it's to hot here in South Africa at the moment,we have like 30-35 degrees every day, so i permanantly have been getting hotflushes from last week.

Got an OPK, but the stuppid thing keeps giving me a big fat ZERO, and no smiley face.

Me and DH have just been Bding every night and hoping for the best, thats all we can do.
But my CM is very white and inbetween runny and sticky, it confuses the living *&^% out of me this CM story, when i was small i always told my gran im meltingLOL....

And now i disect it every single day, so when i had it i hated it, now i want it , this sucks!!!!!!!!

Have a fab day, we will just play Where's Oing"where wally" LOL......

for the

I was temping the first month when we started Clomid, and my temps were all over the place and I didn't think I oed - but my dr. told me that my 21 day blood test showed that I did... so I gave up with the temping and tried to go off my body.

If you're getting cramps... that sounds like a good sign?! Lots of to you, and I am so glad you and your DH sorted things out. Come onnnn

Aww glad everything is ok hunni!!

Good luck this month!!