I don't know if this really counts as TTC, because if I am PG, it will be a very big surprise. :

I don't exactly know how to calculate my cycle or anything.. I really could use some advice and/or help with this. Here's my basic story.

AF was already late by two or three days when we BD'd. It showed up a few days later, no problem-o. However.. even though it's only been about three weeks, my boobs are killing me, I'm moody and sick and I have this weird CM.

I'm so confused and scared because the boy.. who will hereafter be referred to as Jerky McJerkerson, doesn't care what happens and I don't know what to do.

When is the earliest possible time I can check.. and how do I figure out my cycle? HELP!

start counting your cycle from the first day of your last period (even if it was late)....How long are your cycles normally...they should be in a similar range. It is possible that you could have conceived before you last bd'd after your period. I would definitely try calculating your current cycle and and see what cd you are on. If AF seems to be due again and isn't here, TEST!!! Three weeks since you last bd'd...that would be around 21 days....roughly, just from what you posted. So if you have an average 28 cycle then you should be expecting AF soon. My advice is to test very soon and retest again if AF doesn't come Best of luck...sorry that guy is being a jerk-off! Maybe he will come around.

Well it was due on the 4th and we BD'd on the 6th and AF reared her ugly head on the 8th. We haven't had sex since then but I've been having a really terrible month with lots of symptoms..any idea if its possible that we conceived?

December 26

Jerky McJerkerson and I planned to take a test and he decided he would rather spend time with his new girlfriend. Wow.

CM all day with a bad stomachache/weird pressure. I'm so confused and I cant talk to anyone. I really really need help.

Ok, if I am reading this correctly, AF came on Dec 8th? If that's the case then you are on cycle day 20. Too early to test if you did become pg this cycle.

What was your last AF like? Any differences from normal?

It seems unlikely to me that you are pg (simply due to timing and the information here), but it's not impossible. The best way to know is to take a test.

The last one was a lot lighter and lasted only about two days.. weird from my usual 4 day AF.

Blah. What day of the cycle can I test? like..28?

Did you have unprotected sex before your last AF? Other than that one time?

If AF is different (ie very light, shorter, etc) it could have been implantation spotting at the same time as you expected your period. That does happen.

You usually want to test anywhere from 10dpo and beyond (10dpo is still early), or after AF is due (depending on how much will power you have...) and if you're only on CD20, you're probably too early to get an accurate response if you are pg, though it's not impossible. That being said, if you got pg last cycle, then you should get a positive if you tested.

If you're really worried about it, and it's possible you get pg last cycle by having unprotected sex other than on the 6th, then test or go see your doctor and explain what happened. If the 6th was the only time, then I think it's just that AF is acting a little weird.

What's dpo? Like if I'm CD20, how many days is that past ovulation?

I feel like such a big moron..haha

I usually punch in my AF day and use this calculator/calendar to sort of give me an idea of when O is going to happen. http://www.ovulation-calendar.net/ not sure if it'll be of any help to you, but you can get a rough estimate of your DPO based on your last AF.

Stress could also make you "feel" symptoms. I don't know if pregnancy has just been on your mind and you're worrying about it, reading up on it, and making yourself believe you have symptoms (this happens, it's even happened to me!) Of course an easy way to find out would just be to pick up some cheapo HPT's and test! Good luck to you, hun.

Sweeeeeet! That makes me feel so much better. ^__________^ YAY!