Thanks to you all. I am sat here nearly crying reading all those wishes.
Tishimouse - I did have a play with my FF chart as I was unwell with a mega high temp over Christmas (so was very naughty and deleted them.) It now shows I ov-ed on cd16, which is probably normal for me, with a 12 day luteal phase.
Anyway, as my ticker hopefully shows I am on cd29, 13 dpo. I did test this morning as FF advised me to do and it was ....

. I could understand it if I had a temp drop, but NO they went UP.
I have left it until now to update this in case

came and got me, but no sign yet, so I am gonna have to keep my fingers crossed until Saturday when I test again.
Thanks again everyone