i think every other day is fine anyway, everyday you'll end up sore or bored!

Good luck..hope this is the month you get your BFP...I was ttc for 2 and a half yrs....last month I followed a friends advice......I bd every 3 days and aferwards I lay with 2 pillows under my bum for 30mins/ 1hr....I wasnt well so we only did it 3 times.......I got my BFP & am still in shock!! Keeping my finger crossed for your BFP....Elle xx

What CD did you do it? Were your cycles regular? And congrats!! I'll try your pillow method.

Hi....I used clearblue OPK...I had been using cheapie ones but thought I would try CB..My cycle is 35 days some months and 28 some others well the opk gave me a smilie face on day 28....the last 4 months I have been getting day 21 blood tests done & they all came back that I was not ovulating....ob becoz my cycle was 35 day instead of 28 those months...I will say that when my cycle was longer I would have (what I now know to be ovulation pains) I always thought my AF was on its way & I wouldnt feel like BD but last month although it was a bit painful I just bit my tongue & did it anyway!! Sorry I am rambling....good luck & have them pillows ready!!

Elles28 that actually makes sense. I always get AF like pains a week before I expect my period. But if my period is actually longer than 28 days like I expect then those could be O pains! I always thought it was too late to bd. I'm definetly going to pay attention and BD on those days too.

Note to self- We haven't found it so easy to BD every other day but we did BD two days in a row then skip two days and then BD last night. I'll have to remember to update my chart.

Best of luck this cycle hun!! I have everything crossed for you!

I hope & pray you get your BFP this time...lots of and for you....Elle xx

I started taking a multivitamin but got really bad headaches/migraines and now have decided to stop.

This month of TTC/Charting has been a tad different since I started charting from the very beginning. I haven't really been that good about laying off the caffiene and had some wine. They say not to hold off things when TTC so I'm not. Well the plan of BDing every other day has now apparently changed to BDing every three days. I'm not so happy about that but it's a busy month. So here is what we've done this month:

11/27 - AF Showed and was pretty vicious. Most painful AF I have ever had and she stayed around way too long.
CD5 - BD
CD6 - BD
CD10 - BD
CD11 - Noticed some CM but didn't have time to BD
CD13 - BD (had CM CD11-CD13 so hopefully this day wasn't too late if I did ovulate)

My chart is a 33 day cycle chart this month so it's saying I am most fertile CD16-CD19. I am really not sure what is correct since this is my second month TTC/Charting and I thought my cycle was 28 days.

So that plan is to BD as much as possible this coming week and pay attention to the signs.

So my stupid a$$ fertility friend chart deleted all my data or something. I guess my free trial ended grrr. So now I have to just go off my ticker for my projected O and AF days. Ahhhh. Ignore my rant, I have been moody all month.

On a semi good note I had stretchy clear CM today. Now I just have to convince DH to forget about the bad day he had and BD with me!