Well i'm still here!!
Day 41 of another long cycle hubby bought me a test as i had been feeling really tired and crappy, but it was a BFN this am.

I asked hubby if he wanted to stop trying for another, but he said 'hey, its fun trying and it doesnt matter if we dont have another, lets just carry on as we are'

So we arent preventing, but quietly trying not usin OPKs or charting, (to difficult as Ewan still wakes during the night so i end up with inaccurate results)

Still here!! another long cycle day 43...

Hubby has bought a vaginal speculum so he can see what my cervix is doing Very weird with your hubby and torch down there

And he has bought some pre-seed lubricant apparently sperm friendly.

So obviously he hasnt ruled out the TTC.

I am trying to lose a bit of weight and to be more active.

So we will see what this year brings.

Best of luck!!!

now on day 76!! how stupid is this.

It must be doing your head in!
-Your blood tests all came back normal, so I wonder why your cycles are so long? - Did you have regular AFs before Ewan?

Doctors appointment booked for Monday. No sign of AF yet.
Hubby looked with speculum last night and cervix was very low and very open, and looked a bit sore which worried me a bit.
Hubby went to doctors as he has a chest infection at the moment and mentioned my length of cycle at the moment and he said for me to come and see him again.
Knowing my luck af will arrive at the weekend!

Well af arrived this am!! please that it arrived anyway i think.
I'll keep the doctors appointment and see what he says.
considering going on the pill or some form of contraception to see if i can regulate cycles.

Well in a way it's good AF is here, at least you can start fresh...Best of luck sweetie

Well i went to the doctors and he is looking in to the possiblilty of Early Menopause..! both my mum abd her mum had hysterectomies in their 30s so we can't go by their menopause.
I did mention PCOS but he wasnt convinced and said people were usually very hairy and fat.
So I have had more blood taken, doc says he thinks it will be normal which is good in a way but still provides no answers.
This month we are trying Ovulation sticks, and also Pre-Seed too.
So we will see what length cycle this month brings!
I am also using Flower remedies to see if they help at all.

Well! we think we have found the reason for not concieving..... I have a brain tumour. (a prolactinoma - a non maligant tumour)

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