Good uck with your appointment hun!

xxx

Good Luck, hope your docs do something for you

x

Well been to doctors - still no sign of af.
I'd wrote down the lengths of my period over the past few months, looked something like 32, 40, 34, 45, 42, 34 etc
he said that that was my cycle and it would probably mean my window of ovulation is even more difficult to pin point, i mentioned OPKs but he wasn't keen he said they can give false positives, and also coz my window is so varied he said i'd spend a foruntune trying to find it as it would be didfferent every month. Basically said have regular sex (doh!) but he agreed that this cycle was rather long so has booked me in for a blood test to test my hormone levels and check for diabetes etc and a general screen.
And also said to get some boots tests and see how they come out.
So told me things i knew already but at least he has booked me for a blood test.
Am a bit loathed to buy more tests and for them to be neg again, the longer it goes on the more i keep thinking ''ooh i might be' but i think in my heart i know i'm not preg i dont feel preg or like af is coming. I'm trying not to think about it but it keeps creeping in to my head... probably doesn't help i had my preg SIL this weekend and her hubby staying over the weekend.

We had a laugh though - had it drilled in to my head how easily i could get preg if i had unprotected sex... mmm 13m of unprotected sex and still no pregancy! lol

Bloody typical - af arrived today! going to doctors tomorrow, going to feel like a right dipstick.
Oh well back to the drawing board - hope i dont get 70 day cycles too often!
might try the opks this month!

aw hun, sorry AF got you I hope your next cycle is shorter

Sorry forgot to post how the doctors went.

All is fine with my blood tests the doc was really good and went through all the results one by one. He suggest that my hubby could have a sperm count but at this point in time it really wasn't worth it. He said the next thing would be to offer me a progesterone 21 day test - but he said it would have extremely hard to do with me and would probably give me the wrong results, it has to be done 7 days before my period is due to see if i ovulate, but coz i am soo irregular it wouldnt be worth it.
So Fair enough.
He sais the very next thing would be drugs to make me ovulate, i said that is not a route i want to go down i have only just got my migraines sorted after 10 yrs, any hormone/chemicals that i take could trigger them back to 4 a week, after all i have Ewan and if that is all i have naturally then so be it, i wouldn't go down ivf as there are people more needy than me. I would be gutted if i dont have any more but at least i have Ewan and he will be spoilt rotten lol! so i am hoping that i will concieve in the next yr otherwise i think we will stop as i dont want a huge age gap.

Aww hun

Glad to see that you are thinking positive about it all. Good luck

Thanks, no point getting depressed it won't do me any good! lol

Thought i should update! had a BFn this am and feeling crampy so probably AF in couple of hours! Anyway i have decided i am not using any more OPKs, or charting, we are just going to keep on going, not really trying but not preventing but still hoping!! Still BD every couple of days or so but trying not to worry or stress about it.
I'd love another but fact is i have a lovely son, and if thats all i am blessed with then so be it. Will spoil him rotten !! lol!

Sorry you got a BFN hun .. keeping everything crossed for you for next month.

Good to see that you are not letting it get you down too much