Over 30 and TTC - Page 5

Angel_dust · Dec 3rd, 2009, 22:26 PM

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Originally Posted by bear jr

me - 34 and hubby 35 - Day21 progesterone this month - 51. but af today

i'm with lisa and mrsjo!

just realised how obsessed i am! doc told me and hubby just to relax and go for it......hubby just came into my office to find me with 4 tests (they were on sale!) and a new themo stuffed into my mouth...seeing if it worked!!!! he looked at me and said "so we're not relaxing are we?!"

the obseessing has to stop for me!

good luck to all! x

I can see that being me very soon....I just had to stop myself from buying a thermometer from ebay, I feel like i have to use the opks this month just to prove to myself that i have ov...but i know damn well that if i get a thermometer im just going to obsess too far!

I actually had a good chat today with a neighbour who said that she was ttc for over a year (aged 31)and was using opks, temping and charting and she went through to getting an appointment with the doctor to carry out some tests. While waiting for the test results she decided to forget about ttc as it obviously wasnt happening. She got her very unexpected BFP the folowing month!

So I'm going to try very hard to chill this month and eat well and think positive, i think i'll give the agnus castus a miss. Have thought about it and i dont know enough about it to trust it completely. My cycles are getting better and dont wanna mess em up...besides, I feel like im rattling already with the amount of vits im taking!

shaerichelle · Dec 4th, 2009, 11:13 AM

I am 31, TTC #2. I have a 7 yr old son and DH has two grils 12 and 10. This will be our first baby together. We are on our 3rd month of trying. I have been extermely tired like I was when I was preg with my son early on. Currently 4 dpo.

Wishing everyone

Angel_dust · Dec 4th, 2009, 23:11 PM

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Originally Posted by shaerichelle

I am 31, TTC #2. I have a 7 yr old son and DH has two grils 12 and 10. This will be our first baby together. We are on our 3rd month of trying. I have been extermely tired like I was when I was preg with my son early on. Currently 4 dpo.

Wishing everyone

Ooh, that sounds like a good sign already!

Fingers crossed for your BFP very soon then!

Me and my OH are ttc our first baby together too. I already have two, he has one, all girls. My mother in law said the other day 'when are we going to get a grandson?'...like im not under enough pressure already, lol.

shaerichelle · Dec 4th, 2009, 23:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Angel_dust

Ooh, that sounds like a good sign already!

Fingers crossed for your BFP very soon then!

Me and my OH are ttc our first baby together too. I already have two, he has one, all girls. My mother in law said the other day 'when are we going to get a grandson?'...like im not under enough pressure already, lol.

I sure hope so. I am still so tired all week long! You sound like you have a family like me! It sometimes feels like chaos transfering the kids to the other parent. I have not met my MIL, they live in India. I guess we are going there in Feb. I hope I am pregnant by then! My ex MIL Is real bad she always made me feel under pressure!

ablacketer · Dec 5th, 2009, 09:12 AM

my exmil was a real witch! I feel you guys.

fifi-folle · Dec 5th, 2009, 17:53 PM

Hi girls
Back again. Now over 30 and ttc. Bean didn't stick. M/c started last night. Had to go out with friends for my birthday lunch today, mostly friends with little ones

But rather than let that get me down I just thought that we would be the ones with a baby some day. Not easy, especially when last night, as I was curled up in the foetal position in agony, my SIL announces she is expecting number 2. Feel so guilty, but I really felt angry at her good news, she's not to know that I was miscarrying/having a chemical or whatever. Still dreading seeing them. Have asked DH to let his family know what happened because it is going to be difficult hearing all about their pregnancy. But then again I don't think it's fair of me to expect them not to go on about it. They didn't even know we are trying. I am happy for them, just not at the moment. Do you understand or do I sound like a horrible person?

shaerichelle · Dec 5th, 2009, 18:04 PM

I am sorry fifi-folle about your m/c. I have never had one, but totally understand how you feel. With my son my sister announced two weeks later she was pregnant. I know it hurts a lot right now and its not fair. Take time to relax. Thing good thoughts.

When I told my doc I hate having fibro. She said only the strong people are able to deal with it. So I guess only the strong people have to deal with pain.

fifi-folle · Dec 5th, 2009, 18:15 PM

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Originally Posted by shaerichelle

I am sorry fifi-folle about your m/c. I have never had one, but totally understand how you feel. With my son my sister announced two weeks later she was pregnant. I know it hurts a lot right now and its not fair. Take time to relax. Thing good thoughts.

When I told my doc I hate having fibro. She said only the strong people are able to deal with it. So I guess only the strong people have to deal with pain.

thank you honey. Fibro is a nasty one. My poison is endo but quite a few of the girls on endo forum have fibro too. Your doc's comment is like one my Mum makes basically saying that God doesn't give you more crap than you can deal with. Pah. You just have to deal with it. There's nothing else for it. I mean I have been in constant pain for over a year now, then this and of course earlier in the week I was told I would be withdrawn from my uni course due to my continuing absence. Sorry I am having a lousy time of it and letting it get to me. Naughty Fiona. Must be positive!
DH has cancelled his golf tomorrow because he doesn't want to leave me so it's Christmas shopping to keep me busy!

Britt11 · Dec 5th, 2009, 21:26 PM

I am so sorry for your loss Fiffi-folle, that is absolutely horrible. I read your original post and was so happy for you and thought great we have our first BFP on this new thread. I think you are very human and normal and it would be strange if you didnt feel that way. I cant believe you managed to go out for lunch, tha must have been torture for you hon. We are here for you via email if you want to write or express yourself. I think you need to focus on yourself, lots of TLC and dont worry what anyone else thinks. If you dont feel up to meeting friends/family then dont, simple as that. Hoping you get a early New Years BFP!
xx

Angel_dust · Dec 5th, 2009, 22:04 PM

Fifi, I'm so sorry for your loss..

I've never had a mc so i cannot even imagine how you are feeling..but i did help support my best friend through one. Its a horrible horrible thing to go through.

I hope your feeling better soon and if you need a break and dont see family for a while then just do whatever feels best for you. I'm sure everyone will understand.x

Dec 4th, 2009, 11:13 AM	#42
shaerichelle Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Maine Posts: 7,427	I am 31, TTC #2. I have a 7 yr old son and DH has two grils 12 and 10. This will be our first baby together. We are on our 3rd month of trying. I have been extermely tired like I was when I was preg with my son early on. Currently 4 dpo. Wishing everyone

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ablacketer Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Cape May New Jersey Posts: 1,929	my exmil was a real witch! I feel you guys.

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Dec 5th, 2009, 17:53 PM	#46
fifi-folle Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Fife, Scotland Posts: 1,927	Hi girls Back again. Now over 30 and ttc. Bean didn't stick. M/c started last night. Had to go out with friends for my birthday lunch today, mostly friends with little ones But rather than let that get me down I just thought that we would be the ones with a baby some day. Not easy, especially when last night, as I was curled up in the foetal position in agony, my SIL announces she is expecting number 2. Feel so guilty, but I really felt angry at her good news, she's not to know that I was miscarrying/having a chemical or whatever. Still dreading seeing them. Have asked DH to let his family know what happened because it is going to be difficult hearing all about their pregnancy. But then again I don't think it's fair of me to expect them not to go on about it. They didn't even know we are trying. I am happy for them, just not at the moment. Do you understand or do I sound like a horrible person?

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Dec 5th, 2009, 18:04 PM	#47
shaerichelle Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Maine Posts: 7,427	I am sorry fifi-folle about your m/c. I have never had one, but totally understand how you feel. With my son my sister announced two weeks later she was pregnant. I know it hurts a lot right now and its not fair. Take time to relax. Thing good thoughts. When I told my doc I hate having fibro. She said only the strong people are able to deal with it. So I guess only the strong people have to deal with pain.

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Dec 5th, 2009, 21:26 PM	#49
Britt11 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 2,783	I am so sorry for your loss Fiffi-folle, that is absolutely horrible. I read your original post and was so happy for you and thought great we have our first BFP on this new thread. I think you are very human and normal and it would be strange if you didnt feel that way. I cant believe you managed to go out for lunch, tha must have been torture for you hon. We are here for you via email if you want to write or express yourself. I think you need to focus on yourself, lots of TLC and dont worry what anyone else thinks. If you dont feel up to meeting friends/family then dont, simple as that. Hoping you get a early New Years BFP! xx

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Dec 5th, 2009, 22:04 PM	#50
Angel_dust Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Isle Of Wight Posts: 1,204	Fifi, I'm so sorry for your loss.. I've never had a mc so i cannot even imagine how you are feeling..but i did help support my best friend through one. Its a horrible horrible thing to go through. I hope your feeling better soon and if you need a break and dont see family for a while then just do whatever feels best for you. I'm sure everyone will understand.x

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