Peach - sorry you did not get the results you wanted through in time

Widger, Peach and BK Love, thanks for the support. I've been thinking i may be already since sun, as been having the same sypts as last time, but more intence, got faint postivite today when returned from work (something told me to test, not sure why), but not getting excited yet

Good luck Cutelou

So, I'm organising the baby loss concert again this year. It will be in London on the 15th October again. Bernie Nolan has agreed to perform in principal, as long as she is available. I'm also going to approach Kym Marsh. If anyone else has any ideas for performers or hosts then let me know! I'll start a thread again in the MC section soon.

Love and to you all. xxx

Sending you lots of Cutelou

Peach - Sorry about the results!. Glad your arranging another concert and really hope to come this year, Kym Marsh is a really good idea I'm sure she'd commit, if I think of any more I'll let you know.

As me 2nd part of DH's sperm test came back as.......normal! My GP is away until 23rd so got an appointment with him then to discuss where to go from here. My friend has suggested to ask for a scan for polycystic ovaries so will try that. I have endometriosis and wondered whether that has worsened, but can only find out by laparoscopy which I don't want again. Feeling sorry for myself again today, the pg ladies at work had dwindled off on mat leave and I felt a little better with not seeing bumps everywhere and today found out a few more are pg! Why can't it be me?

Oh well sorry for ranting ladies, hugs to those who I have missed out xxx

baby-cakes. Must be so tough. If you had u/s during your pg and after mc they would have shown polycystic ovaries. I have polycystic ovaries and the sonographer always mention it. I know it's hard to understand what's going wrong when all the results come back normal, but we're I'm the best group statistically. I know it's little comfort, but hang in there lovely. xx

So I had my appointment with Mr Rai this morning. It was really interesting and informative. Something I didn't no was that there is know blood flow between the mother and baby before 8 weeks. Therefore the chances of miscarrying after you've passed 8 weeks drops massively to 2%. Before that 30 out of 100 conceptions end up with a full term baby.

He said that age can be a factor. Most failed pregnancies are due to bad genetics and as you get older that is the more likely reason for recurrent miscarriages. So for instance if you're 44 and have had 5 miscarriages it's probably due to age and bad genetics. If you're 25 and have 5 miscarriages its less likely that you would have that many due to bad genes at that age.

He also said that because I already have 1 auto immune disease (Graves') it is more likely that I may have another auto immune disease. The one that he's tested me for attacks the placenta. He's also tested me and OH for chromosomal problems and me for clotting issues etc. All at the very reasonable cost of £786!!! Anyway, I feel like things are moving in the right direction and I'm not far away from getting somem answers.

Hope you're all well.

Fingers crossed he helps you Peach sounds promising xx

Hey ladies. Just wanted to pop in quickly and say that i had my 38 week appointment yesterday.

At 37 week appointment i was 80 percent effaced. Then at my 38 week appointment (on wensday) i was 80 percent effaced and 1cm dilated. So hopefully not to much longer now. Also if i try to feel his head, i only have to reach 2 inchs up and BAM there it is.

Sending lots of and love to all you angel ladies

OMG Tink check you out 1wk 5days left new mummy before you know it hope your ready xxxx

So ready! haha my aunt has said she thinks im going to go into labor this saturday! fingers crossed that shes right lol

OOooo good luck hun xxxx