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Jaimie2Eyes · Mar 8th, 2010, 16:54 PM

Wow xshell - that is quite a struggle you've been through since coming off the depo provera! I'm so sorry for your loss. Loads of baby dust and miracles to all us 30 somethings!

Dalilah · Mar 8th, 2010, 21:37 PM

hi There!
well i am 31 almost 32 , My husband is 37 almost 38 so ....
we are trying for our first , i really can"t wait anymore
i am going through mixed feelings , i almost regret being a little selfish not wating to try earlier because of job or economic reasons coz my Husband and i are married since 2002
it is weird
anyway i am new to this forum and i really hope finding a buddy or buddiesi to TTC with

any advice ?

Jaimie2Eyes · Mar 9th, 2010, 11:32 AM

Welcome Dalilah! I hear what you are saying, seems a shame to have waited so long only to realize it doesn't always happen right away. BUT _ we were doing what seemed like the right thing at the time, and we just gotta open the door on this conception journey and see what happens : )

Some people buddy up with folks that have similar cycles. I would try posting a request in the buddy section of TTC and see who answers : )

Dalilah · Mar 9th, 2010, 12:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaimie2Eyes

Welcome Dalilah! I hear what you are saying, seems a shame to have waited so long only to realize it doesn't always happen right away. BUT _ we were doing what seemed like the right thing at the time, and we just gotta open the door on this conception journey and see what happens : )

Some people buddy up with folks that have similar cycles. I would try posting a request in the buddy section of TTC and see who answers : )

thank you i would do that

HappyJacky · Mar 12th, 2010, 11:31 AM

Hi

I'm Jacky and am TTC after

on my 1st BFP in December. I'm 42 and BF is 40.

I was married before and tried for 10 years with 2 rounds of ICSI (low sperm count for him (probably the bottle of Vodka a day I discovered he was drinking)! - me OK thankfully).

Now been with my lovely BF for 3 years and TTC all over again. When I got the BFP we'd been trying for about 7 months. And now a further 2/3 months since MMC.

I don't get a chance to get on the boards too often, so I think I need to find one and stick with it, as I can't keep up otherwise. I'm hoping it will be you, if you'll have me!

I hope I can get to know a few of you, and share hopes, dreams and 'fingers crossed' lots of

Jx

MEJOY · Mar 18th, 2010, 11:38 AM

Hi Everyone...I am new to this thread.

I am 33 and my husband is 39. We are trying for our first child together, he has a 17 year old daughter that I have helped raise since she was 7 and I adopted her.

I had a mc at 8 weeks in October

(only the sac developed), but that came with the good news that I could get pregnant

We weren't sure if I could bc I have endometriosis and had my right ovary removed a few years ago. My doctors were VERY positive after my mc that we'd get prego again soon. Well....it's been 5 months, I know that isn't long but it doesn't feel very soon like the docs said.

I try and stay positive and keep praying

for a sticky bean!

"Never think that God's delays are God's denials. Hold on; hold fast; hold out. Patience is genius." That's my moto and I keep it posted at my desk at work.

Good luck and lost of baby dust to everyone

Thanks for letting me stop by and share my story!

crystal443 · Mar 19th, 2010, 01:03 AM

Hiya Ladies,

I am 35 and DH is 36, we have been TTC for baby #3 since Jan/2010. We have a DD 13 and a DS 12, I was told in my early twenties to have them quickly or I wouldn't be able to(kidney issues) so I did that. Instead of things getting worse for me as I got older they actually got better so I went back to the doc and he said yep no worries go for it!!

I have regular cycles but have not taken BC since I was 18, both kids were concieved from taking Clomid and I'm on my second round this cycle at 100mg. I'm just very glad we get to at least try and have a baby because I think we'll be so much more relaxed this time around and really enjoy it. The two kids by the way are very excited that there might be a new little member of the family soon. I wish everyone a

and hopefully this is a lucky thread. I look forward to chatting with you all as I go through this journey.

paziya73 · Mar 19th, 2010, 15:24 PM

Hi everyone! I'm hoping u all can help me! I am 36 and OH is 32. I have a 12yr old and a 11yr old. He doesn't have any! Had a miscarriage AUG09 and decided to start TTC 3 months ago. I had a 25 day cycle and started taking b6. That increased my cycle to 28. So now I am on CD12. We are BD every 24 hours so hopefully it will work! And I will fall pg!!!

crystal443 · Mar 22nd, 2010, 00:11 AM

Hi Paziya73,

Your situations sounds pretty similair to mine as far as family dynamics. Do your kids know you're trying for another? We've just told ours after they came across my prenatal vitamins. I didn't want to tell them until we actually had something to tell them but they were very excited and happy. We have a 12 year old son and 13 year old daughter and I just didn't think we'd be wanting more but I just think we'll really anjoy it this time around with a new little one. I hope we have some good luck this month!!

BABY TALES · Mar 22nd, 2010, 05:56 AM

Hi. Im Michelle,Im 35 and my husband (38),and I have been ttc for 3 months.I was on the bcp for about 18 yrs before coming off it in January. Since then my periods have been very scanty,although my last cycle was 29 days,which I suppose was encouraging! I got a faint positive on Thursday,followed by bfn on Fri & Sat followed by AF on Sun!! I was so disapointed! Iam just hoping now that my periods will start 'properly' next month.

Mar 8th, 2010, 16:54 PM	#1701
Jaimie2Eyes Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Tucson, Arizona Posts: 2,159	Wow xshell - that is quite a struggle you've been through since coming off the depo provera! I'm so sorry for your loss. Loads of baby dust and miracles to all us 30 somethings!

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Mar 8th, 2010, 21:37 PM	#1702
Dalilah Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Warwick,RI Posts: 53	hi There! well i am 31 almost 32 , My husband is 37 almost 38 so .... we are trying for our first , i really can"t wait anymore i am going through mixed feelings , i almost regret being a little selfish not wating to try earlier because of job or economic reasons coz my Husband and i are married since 2002 it is weird anyway i am new to this forum and i really hope finding a buddy or buddiesi to TTC with any advice ?

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Mar 9th, 2010, 11:32 AM	#1703
Jaimie2Eyes Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Tucson, Arizona Posts: 2,159	Welcome Dalilah! I hear what you are saying, seems a shame to have waited so long only to realize it doesn't always happen right away. BUT _ we were doing what seemed like the right thing at the time, and we just gotta open the door on this conception journey and see what happens : ) Some people buddy up with folks that have similar cycles. I would try posting a request in the buddy section of TTC and see who answers : )

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Mar 12th, 2010, 11:31 AM	#1705
HappyJacky Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 28	Can I join in please? Hi I'm Jacky and am TTC after on my 1st BFP in December. I'm 42 and BF is 40. I was married before and tried for 10 years with 2 rounds of ICSI (low sperm count for him (probably the bottle of Vodka a day I discovered he was drinking)! - me OK thankfully). Now been with my lovely BF for 3 years and TTC all over again. When I got the BFP we'd been trying for about 7 months. And now a further 2/3 months since MMC. I don't get a chance to get on the boards too often, so I think I need to find one and stick with it, as I can't keep up otherwise. I'm hoping it will be you, if you'll have me! I hope I can get to know a few of you, and share hopes, dreams and 'fingers crossed' lots of Jx

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Mar 18th, 2010, 11:38 AM	#1706
MEJOY Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Tennessee Posts: 301	Hi Everyone...I am new to this thread. I am 33 and my husband is 39. We are trying for our first child together, he has a 17 year old daughter that I have helped raise since she was 7 and I adopted her. I had a mc at 8 weeks in October (only the sac developed), but that came with the good news that I could get pregnant We weren't sure if I could bc I have endometriosis and had my right ovary removed a few years ago. My doctors were VERY positive after my mc that we'd get prego again soon. Well....it's been 5 months, I know that isn't long but it doesn't feel very soon like the docs said. I try and stay positive and keep praying for a sticky bean! "Never think that God's delays are God's denials. Hold on; hold fast; hold out. Patience is genius." That's my moto and I keep it posted at my desk at work. Good luck and lost of baby dust to everyone Thanks for letting me stop by and share my story!

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Mar 19th, 2010, 01:03 AM	#1707
crystal443 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 2,252	Hiya Ladies, I am 35 and DH is 36, we have been TTC for baby #3 since Jan/2010. We have a DD 13 and a DS 12, I was told in my early twenties to have them quickly or I wouldn't be able to(kidney issues) so I did that. Instead of things getting worse for me as I got older they actually got better so I went back to the doc and he said yep no worries go for it!! I have regular cycles but have not taken BC since I was 18, both kids were concieved from taking Clomid and I'm on my second round this cycle at 100mg. I'm just very glad we get to at least try and have a baby because I think we'll be so much more relaxed this time around and really enjoy it. The two kids by the way are very excited that there might be a new little member of the family soon. I wish everyone a and hopefully this is a lucky thread. I look forward to chatting with you all as I go through this journey.

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Mar 19th, 2010, 15:24 PM	#1708
paziya73 Trying to conceive (TTC) New BnB member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 2	im a newbie and i need helppppp Hi everyone! I'm hoping u all can help me! I am 36 and OH is 32. I have a 12yr old and a 11yr old. He doesn't have any! Had a miscarriage AUG09 and decided to start TTC 3 months ago. I had a 25 day cycle and started taking b6. That increased my cycle to 28. So now I am on CD12. We are BD every 24 hours so hopefully it will work! And I will fall pg!!!

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Mar 22nd, 2010, 00:11 AM	#1709
crystal443 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Melbourne, Australia Posts: 2,252	Hi Paziya73, Your situations sounds pretty similair to mine as far as family dynamics. Do your kids know you're trying for another? We've just told ours after they came across my prenatal vitamins. I didn't want to tell them until we actually had something to tell them but they were very excited and happy. We have a 12 year old son and 13 year old daughter and I just didn't think we'd be wanting more but I just think we'll really anjoy it this time around with a new little one. I hope we have some good luck this month!!

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Mar 22nd, 2010, 05:56 AM	#1710
BABY TALES Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: South Yorkshire Posts: 206	Hi. Im Michelle,Im 35 and my husband (38),and I have been ttc for 3 months.I was on the bcp for about 18 yrs before coming off it in January. Since then my periods have been very scanty,although my last cycle was 29 days,which I suppose was encouraging! I got a faint positive on Thursday,followed by bfn on Fri & Sat followed by AF on Sun!! I was so disapointed! Iam just hoping now that my periods will start 'properly' next month.

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