quail, been trying for a year, but been pregnant twice since then but lost both pregnancies around 12 weeks. The M/Cs are a new experience too- I never had them with my last batch of babies! (sorry!) they have attributed them to my age! So I'm scared about m/c too IF I get preg again. I'm not enjoying this trying at all! Its so stressful, I think I really took my fertility for granted in the past!

xxx

Hi All,

Moonmamma and Quail,

I am not testing til i am at least due on, as the chemical pregnancy thing is too dissapointing and i am sure i have had it in the past just been late and not tested then had a really bad af.
I have a friend who is 38 and after 2 had a real struggle to conceive, and had a few false poss, and complications than needed her to see a specialist who has just said 'age'
I had a mc with my very first (I was 20) and then carried on to have the others.
My youngest daughter is my first with my hubby and I was told it is like having your first because it is your first with that genetic make up, and although my pregnancy was pretty much the same, if not sicker than the others, my others were all overdue, but my waters broke a day b4 due date with her.

Moonmamma,
That is awful mc at 12 weeks just when you are thinking you are in the clear, It is a really stressful 9 months, i worry from start to finish and that worry just gets worse to the end of the 9 months!
Hope its all ok for you this time,

Quail,
I can see from the ages of your children that you have not had a problem conceiving, I never have either, I know very little about charting or any of that i have been lucky enough that its just happened.
I have had implantation bleed in the past but it is just a tiny amount.

Well i am pretty sure i am ov'ing today, ewcm would suggest. So as we bd last night and have been bd'ing every few nights til then i think that is enough and there should be something waiting to catch the egg! Then the horrible waiting time starts!! (may just try and get a few more bd in over weekend just to make sure!!!)

Time to go, spuds to peel for tea!

Take care all, hope everyone ok

thinkpink

Thanks thinkpink I just hope there is a next time- I think AF is going to get me tomorrow- I've got all the signs so it'll be back to square again! . I totally agree about the early testing- its really shocked me just from 'lurking' on bnb threads how many girls get + followed very shortly by -. It must be so soul destroying!

xxx

ps has any one got any good news?!

hay guys posted on main site to but im havign this brown old blood like discharge spotting like before you get your period i started a little before ovulation but its got a little heaver after its day 4po and stll spotting any ideas? im going of angus catus to just in case its that..............i have myappointment with FS 9 july so will ask then as well. a little scared thou
ness

Nessie,
Can't be much help sorry, just wanted to reply you! could be angus cactus? Could just be an odd month?
I had spotting all through the month a few months ago for no reason and the next month it stopped?
Hope you find out soon,
Take care

thinkpink xx

Hi ladies, im new to this site,i am 31 partner 35 i am a mum of 3, i have been with my partner 9yrs and we want to try for baby we are starting this mth, i caught easy with my last 3, but different partner this time,he cant have kids so going to ai, so i am now learning about charting bbt etc, gosh was so naive this is all new to me! So i am hoping that i am ovulating on July 3rd so ai then and fingers crossed,Cervix changes throughout mth too!!!we want to try for boy, not desperatly but would like to sway the odds a little if we can, so i heard you have to ia on the day of ovulating for boy, anyone tried and it worked or is it just plain codswallop!?

hi babyonemoretime!

No idea if it works or not- but good luck!

xxx

Nessie that sounds a bit odd- glad your getting it checked out anyway. Mid cycle spotting is usually hormonal isnt it? I dont know anything about agnus castus i'm afraid xxx

I'm still waiting for AF- she's dragging her heels- She's almost here but not quite! just on about 4th day of spotting and Just wish she'd bloody hurry up! Anyone got any news? xxx

Hi All,

Hi moommamma, no exiting news here, just waiting really, in 2ww now!

Welcome baby1moretime, Yes I hear it is possible to encourage certain sex babies, and I have used this method in the past to conceive girls, by bd'ing b4 ov and its worked both times, now it could be coincidence but i had 2 boys first so who knows!!
Good luck with ttc, It must be very different for you, a whole new ball game!!


Time for bed, I am tired!!

Take care all

thinkpink xx

I have been here for a while but this section is fairly new. I am 37 and my dh is 32. We have been together 9 years. I have 3 children from a previous marriage (dd 20, dd 18, ds 16) and he has none but has raised mine as if they were his own. I had a tubal reversal in April 2007. I have had 3 mc's since then. I am currently on my 4th round of Clomid. I do ovulate on my own, but giving my age, I may need that little boost to help produce some strong ones! I go to my fertility specialist on the 23rd to discuss the option of iui. Good luck ladies and I hope we all get our sticky very soon! to all!

hi all really boring here cd5 o, seems ages away i dont o, till cd19 might start bd around cd10 any news from anyone?.xx