Is this the luckiest thread on BnB?

Originally Posted by mrskcbrown

Thanks for the warm welcome ladies!

Question: When you get those nagging "O" pains (if you get them) does that mean you are Oing or are about to O? I get them every month and I have this same question every month. DH and I BD on friday and saturday, but last night he couldnt perform. This happens sometimes as he has erectile issues but Im wondering if me telling him that I have those "O" pains subconsciously bothered him?

Also I know semen lasts 2-3 days in fertile cm, but why do I feel like if i dont do it right on O day that I wont get BFP? Anyone get BFP just doing it once or twice around O?

Thanks ladies and sorry for all the questions!

Hi Mrs Brown!!!!
For me, the O pains came before O happened, but I never really knew I was OV-ing until I started charting temps...I realised I was almost 4 days out!!! No wonder I never got pregnant!!!
Men can be very sensitive when we put pressure on them...I know that my OH backed off when I told him we "should try for a baby"....we got pregnant after I let the subject drop and he relaxed so much that the week we conceived we had more sex than we had had in ages!!! true!!!

I only BD 3 days before OV day and also actually on OV day and according to Fertility Friend we conceived during the BD 3 days before OV!!!!!!!

I hope that helps!!!! Lots of dust xxxxx

Originally Posted by cdj1

Hi Mrs Brown!!!!
For me, the O pains came before O happened, but I never really knew I was OV-ing until I started charting temps...I realised I was almost 4 days out!!! No wonder I never got pregnant!!!
Men can be very sensitive when we put pressure on them...I know that my OH backed off when I told him we "should try for a baby"....we got pregnant after I let the subject drop and he relaxed so much that the week we conceived we had more sex than we had had in ages!!! true!!!

I only BD 3 days before OV day and also actually on OV day and according to Fertility Friend we conceived during the BD 3 days before OV!!!!!!!

I hope that helps!!!! Lots of dust xxxxx

Thank you so much for responding!

I got the O pains on sunday, and I BD on thursday, friday and today. Of course we may BD again more on tomorrow. Im trying to keep it to once a day or every other day to keep DH's semen in good shape. Hoping I get a Valentine's BFP! Thanks for the dust!

Hello ladies

Just thought I would pop on here are see how you all are doing

Good luck to all the new ladies and hello dan-o nice to see you here!

Hope this thread turns out to be extra lucky for you all xxxx

No one really responds on this forum huh? Been quiet a few days! I guess there is nothing to discuss when you've already gotten your BFP! Good luck yall!

I was waiting for AF to finish, felt a bit depressed about it all this month, been TTC tooooo long!!

Anyway it's CD5 now, & I'm no longer all doom & gloom..... so I'll come out of hiding LOL!!!

Hope you caught your egg this month mrsbrown, when will you test?

Originally Posted by _Hope_

hello dan-o

Hi hope, good to see you again! I can't believe you are 14 week already! Wow!

I'm so jealous of your twin bump, I would LOVE twins!!!!

Send me some twin BFP dust!!!! In fact, just send me some BFP dust!!

Hi Dan-o, it's my pleasure!





There you go hun

Hi Dan-O! I dont test until Feb 17. So I still have plenty time to obsess. Although my PMA is not real high for some reason. Once youve been doing this for so long, I get to the point and I know its bad, but I just say I dont care. Even though I do...I know its crazy. Anywho that is where I am at!

hi sorry not been on much was hoping and praying that i got my last month but not to be as the got me on saturday was disapointed as i really thought i was in with a chance as we :bd: at the right time i thought but not, not started taking my temps since cd1 (saturday) so hopefully i might see the temp rise in the ov days, but with this af it was really short only 2 1/2days so i thought cud i still be but did a test last nite which come out neg so it must be that my cycles have gone back to normal now since coming off the depo in june, when i younger before i had my dd and ds i had 28 day cycles and was only on for about 3/4 days so im hoping they are, and then can now really figure out when im ov sorry about the rant
donna

Originally Posted by dottiemad79

hi sorry not been on much was hoping and praying that i got my last month but not to be as the got me on saturday was disapointed as i really thought i was in with a chance as we :bd: at the right time i thought but not, not started taking my temps since cd1 (saturday) so hopefully i might see the temp rise in the ov days, but with this af it was really short only 2 1/2days so i thought cud i still be but did a test last nite which come out neg so it must be that my cycles have gone back to normal now since coming off the depo in june, when i younger before i had my dd and ds i had 28 day cycles and was only on for about 3/4 days so im hoping they are, and then can now really figure out when im ov sorry about the rant
donna

Hi dottiemad! Im so sorry the got you. It seems when we think we are doing it all right for some reason we arent. I hope that your cycles are getting regular and that you get the BFP soon. I hear DEPO is the worst?? Ive never been on it but ive heard stories here on BNB. GL to you!