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Old Feb 2nd, 2010, 09:29 AM   #541
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Thanks for the warm welcome ladies!

Question: When you get those nagging "O" pains (if you get them) does that mean you are Oing or are about to O? I get them every month and I have this same question every month. DH and I BD on friday and saturday, but last night he couldnt perform. This happens sometimes as he has erectile issues but Im wondering if me telling him that I have those "O" pains subconsciously bothered him?

Also I know semen lasts 2-3 days in fertile cm, but why do I feel like if i dont do it right on O day that I wont get BFP? Anyone get BFP just doing it once or twice around O?

Thanks ladies and sorry for all the questions!
Hi Mrs Brown!!!!
For me, the O pains came before O happened, but I never really knew I was OV-ing until I started charting temps...I realised I was almost 4 days out!!! No wonder I never got pregnant!!!
Men can be very sensitive when we put pressure on them...I know that my OH backed off when I told him we "should try for a baby"....we got pregnant after I let the subject drop and he relaxed so much that the week we conceived we had more sex than we had had in ages!!! true!!!

I only BD 3 days before OV day and also actually on OV day and according to Fertility Friend we conceived during the BD 3 days before OV!!!!!!!

I hope that helps!!!! Lots of dust xxxxx


 
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Old Feb 2nd, 2010, 15:12 PM   #542
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Thanks for the warm welcome ladies!

Question: When you get those nagging "O" pains (if you get them) does that mean you are Oing or are about to O? I get them every month and I have this same question every month. DH and I BD on friday and saturday, but last night he couldnt perform. This happens sometimes as he has erectile issues but Im wondering if me telling him that I have those "O" pains subconsciously bothered him?

Also I know semen lasts 2-3 days in fertile cm, but why do I feel like if i dont do it right on O day that I wont get BFP? Anyone get BFP just doing it once or twice around O?

Thanks ladies and sorry for all the questions!
Hi Mrs Brown!!!!
For me, the O pains came before O happened, but I never really knew I was OV-ing until I started charting temps...I realised I was almost 4 days out!!! No wonder I never got pregnant!!!
Men can be very sensitive when we put pressure on them...I know that my OH backed off when I told him we "should try for a baby"....we got pregnant after I let the subject drop and he relaxed so much that the week we conceived we had more sex than we had had in ages!!! true!!!

I only BD 3 days before OV day and also actually on OV day and according to Fertility Friend we conceived during the BD 3 days before OV!!!!!!!

I hope that helps!!!! Lots of dust xxxxx
Thank you so much for responding!

I got the O pains on sunday, and I BD on thursday, friday and today. Of course we may BD again more on tomorrow. Im trying to keep it to once a day or every other day to keep DH's semen in good shape. Hoping I get a Valentine's BFP! Thanks for the dust!


 
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Old Feb 5th, 2010, 10:21 AM   #543
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Hello ladies

Just thought I would pop on here are see how you all are doing

Good luck to all the new ladies and hello dan-o nice to see you here!

Hope this thread turns out to be extra lucky for you all xxxx


 
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Old Feb 5th, 2010, 13:34 PM   #544
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No one really responds on this forum huh? Been quiet a few days! I guess there is nothing to discuss when you've already gotten your BFP! Good luck yall!


 
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Old Feb 6th, 2010, 06:05 AM   #545
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I was waiting for AF to finish, felt a bit depressed about it all this month, been TTC tooooo long!!

Anyway it's CD5 now, & I'm no longer all doom & gloom..... so I'll come out of hiding LOL!!!

Hope you caught your egg this month mrsbrown, when will you test?


 
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Old Feb 6th, 2010, 06:08 AM   #546
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hello dan-o
Hi hope, good to see you again! I can't believe you are 14 week already! Wow!

I'm so jealous of your twin bump, I would LOVE twins!!!!

Send me some twin BFP dust!!!! In fact, just send me some BFP dust!!


 
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Old Feb 7th, 2010, 16:26 PM   #547
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Hi Dan-o, it's my pleasure!





There you go hun


 
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Old Feb 7th, 2010, 22:48 PM   #548
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Hi Dan-O! I dont test until Feb 17. So I still have plenty time to obsess. Although my PMA is not real high for some reason. Once youve been doing this for so long, I get to the point and I know its bad, but I just say I dont care. Even though I do...I know its crazy. Anywho that is where I am at!


 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 15:40 PM   #549
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hi sorry not been on much was hoping and praying that i got my last month but not to be as the got me on saturday was disapointed as i really thought i was in with a chance as we :bd: at the right time i thought but not, not started taking my temps since cd1 (saturday) so hopefully i might see the temp rise in the ov days, but with this af it was really short only 2 1/2days so i thought cud i still be but did a test last nite which come out neg so it must be that my cycles have gone back to normal now since coming off the depo in june, when i younger before i had my dd and ds i had 28 day cycles and was only on for about 3/4 days so im hoping they are, and then can now really figure out when im ov sorry about the rant
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 20:47 PM   #550
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hi sorry not been on much was hoping and praying that i got my last month but not to be as the got me on saturday was disapointed as i really thought i was in with a chance as we :bd: at the right time i thought but not, not started taking my temps since cd1 (saturday) so hopefully i might see the temp rise in the ov days, but with this af it was really short only 2 1/2days so i thought cud i still be but did a test last nite which come out neg so it must be that my cycles have gone back to normal now since coming off the depo in june, when i younger before i had my dd and ds i had 28 day cycles and was only on for about 3/4 days so im hoping they are, and then can now really figure out when im ov sorry about the rant
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Hi dottiemad! Im so sorry the got you. It seems when we think we are doing it all right for some reason we arent. I hope that your cycles are getting regular and that you get the BFP soon. I hear DEPO is the worst?? Ive never been on it but ive heard stories here on BNB. GL to you!


 
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