Ttc after d&c

jayjay_26 · Jan 18th, 2012, 17:54 PM

I had a d&c 6 days ago, I only had spotting for 2 days after it and nothing since, my doctor has told me we can start trying again straight away just wondering if it's safe to start having sex again as I forgot to ask the doc at my check up appointment yesterday, and if anyone has got pregnant straight away after a d&c

threemakefive · Jan 18th, 2012, 17:57 PM

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Originally Posted by jayjay_26

I had a d&c 6 days ago, I only had spotting for 2 days after it and nothing since, my doctor has told me we can start trying again straight away just wondering if it's safe to start having sex again as I forgot to ask the doc at my check up appointment yesterday, and if anyone has got pregnant straight away after a d&c

Sorry for your loss, Depends on the dr, mine told me to wait a week before bd'ing.... also, LOTS have gotten bfp's recently on here right after mc, some even before their first period after the loss, so it is very possible

Future Mama · Jan 18th, 2012, 18:00 PM

I had a d&c on dec 23 and was told to wait a week before having sex. I've been trying right away also but haven't ovulated yet.

Aunie · Jan 18th, 2012, 18:03 PM

My doc said to wait two weeks, with me the spotting stopped and started a bunch of times and i'm not sure if i O'd before i got af. I got pregnant again my first cycle after my d&c using opks and so far so good! good luck hun and sorry for your loss xx

sunshinegirl3 · Jan 18th, 2012, 18:23 PM

Hi all,

Firstly I'm sorry for your loss and know what u are going through! I had 2mmc during 2011 with 2 d&c's. We went private 2nd time and were told not to have sex for a week or until bleeding had stopped to reduce the risk of infection.

We were also told not to start trying again until atleast 3 periods!! I don't want to wait another month though - what does anyone think?!

We are desperate to start trying again but am sooo scared!!

Sunshinegirl x

Almost3 · Jan 18th, 2012, 19:00 PM

A part of me wants to try and give my husband that experience and blessing but another part of me is extremely scared and does not know if I should because i don't know if my body can even carry a baby to term now. I don't want to be selfish and tell him no not anymore but I don't want to disappoint him again either.

Bentlee · Jan 18th, 2012, 20:06 PM

I misscarried at 9 weeks on Dec 21st and had d&c as well. I had a check up at the dc-office one week later and was good to go. I only had light bleedings for two or three days though. Doctors told me to wait 1-3 cycles, but we started ttc right away and I should have gotten my period yesterday. I have cramps and it feels like the

has already gotten me, but not so far, so I really hope I'm pregnant again

FX for all you ladies here, that we've all get our

soon and have healthy nine months!!!

Lukas · Jan 19th, 2012, 19:35 PM

Hi,
I am new to this site, I am so sorry for everyones loss. I had a D&C on the 9/01 this was my first pregnacy i was 10 weeks along when we found out the baby had died at 8 weeks.. i really want to start trying straight away but i am scared..
After my D&C i bleed for 2 days then stopped.. then yesterday i started to bleed again and now nothing.. has anyone had anything like this?? and do you think it is safe to start trying again. x

jayjay_26 · Jan 19th, 2012, 20:13 PM

Lukas I had d&c on 13/01 and only had bleeding for 2 days after it, then nothing then I spotted again 19/01 and then nothing again today, I was told I could start trying again as soon as the bleeding stopped but was advised it would be better to wait until at least one cycle I asked if that was for medical reasons and she said no it was only for dating the pregnancy, I rang my doctor yesterday as I was confused about the bleeding coming back and she said its normal to spot on and off for 2 weeks after and that if the bleeding gets anything more than a period to go back and see her, hope this helped and I'm so sorry for your loss

Lukas · Jan 19th, 2012, 20:24 PM

Hi JayJay, thank you that has helped.. I really hope my body bounces back to before the D&C my husband and I were lucky to fall in the first month. I think we will start ttc again in the next or so.. but it will just be by chance as i have no idea when i will be ovulating. Its nice to know there are people out there who know how you feel.. this is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through.

Jan 18th, 2012, 17:54 PM	#1
jayjay_26 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 31	Ttc after d&c I had a d&c 6 days ago, I only had spotting for 2 days after it and nothing since, my doctor has told me we can start trying again straight away just wondering if it's safe to start having sex again as I forgot to ask the doc at my check up appointment yesterday, and if anyone has got pregnant straight away after a d&c

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Jan 18th, 2012, 18:00 PM	#3
Future Mama Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 679	I had a d&c on dec 23 and was told to wait a week before having sex. I've been trying right away also but haven't ovulated yet.

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Jan 18th, 2012, 18:03 PM	#4
Aunie Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: arizona Posts: 305	My doc said to wait two weeks, with me the spotting stopped and started a bunch of times and i'm not sure if i O'd before i got af. I got pregnant again my first cycle after my d&c using opks and so far so good! good luck hun and sorry for your loss xx

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Jan 18th, 2012, 18:23 PM	#5
sunshinegirl3 Trying to conceive (TTC) New BnB member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 3	Hi all, Firstly I'm sorry for your loss and know what u are going through! I had 2mmc during 2011 with 2 d&c's. We went private 2nd time and were told not to have sex for a week or until bleeding had stopped to reduce the risk of infection. We were also told not to start trying again until atleast 3 periods!! I don't want to wait another month though - what does anyone think?! We are desperate to start trying again but am sooo scared!! Sunshinegirl x

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Jan 18th, 2012, 19:00 PM	#6
Almost3 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 13	I'm not sure if I should A part of me wants to try and give my husband that experience and blessing but another part of me is extremely scared and does not know if I should because i don't know if my body can even carry a baby to term now. I don't want to be selfish and tell him no not anymore but I don't want to disappoint him again either.

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Jan 18th, 2012, 20:06 PM	#7
Bentlee Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 235	I misscarried at 9 weeks on Dec 21st and had d&c as well. I had a check up at the dc-office one week later and was good to go. I only had light bleedings for two or three days though. Doctors told me to wait 1-3 cycles, but we started ttc right away and I should have gotten my period yesterday. I have cramps and it feels like the has already gotten me, but not so far, so I really hope I'm pregnant again FX for all you ladies here, that we've all get our soon and have healthy nine months!!!

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Jan 19th, 2012, 19:35 PM	#8
Lukas Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 14	Hi, I am new to this site, I am so sorry for everyones loss. I had a D&C on the 9/01 this was my first pregnacy i was 10 weeks along when we found out the baby had died at 8 weeks.. i really want to start trying straight away but i am scared.. After my D&C i bleed for 2 days then stopped.. then yesterday i started to bleed again and now nothing.. has anyone had anything like this?? and do you think it is safe to start trying again. x

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Jan 19th, 2012, 20:13 PM	#9
jayjay_26 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 31	Lukas I had d&c on 13/01 and only had bleeding for 2 days after it, then nothing then I spotted again 19/01 and then nothing again today, I was told I could start trying again as soon as the bleeding stopped but was advised it would be better to wait until at least one cycle I asked if that was for medical reasons and she said no it was only for dating the pregnancy, I rang my doctor yesterday as I was confused about the bleeding coming back and she said its normal to spot on and off for 2 weeks after and that if the bleeding gets anything more than a period to go back and see her, hope this helped and I'm so sorry for your loss

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Jan 19th, 2012, 20:24 PM	#10
Lukas Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 14	Hi JayJay, thank you that has helped.. I really hope my body bounces back to before the D&C my husband and I were lucky to fall in the first month. I think we will start ttc again in the next or so.. but it will just be by chance as i have no idea when i will be ovulating. Its nice to know there are people out there who know how you feel.. this is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through.

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