Impatient

ljane74 · Jan 18th, 2012, 12:40 PM

Aaargh I'm so impatient. I had ERPC December 13th after missed miscarriage mid November and got -ve PG test 20th Dec.
We have BD'd every day (only had 1 day bleeding from op so safe enough) since Christmas as we wanted to start TTC as soon as possible and me being the impatient so and so that i am was hoping that doing a PG test this morning that it would come back +ve. But no its -ve.
I had seemed to be getting various PG symptoms the same as I had on my pregnancy last time - flare up of acne, funny feeling stomach, headaches, shattered. But looks like that's just my hormones flying around.
I just want things to start kicking in, wanting AF to arrive (unless by pure luck I do catch the egg!). I don't want to become obsessed by it as I know it doesn't help if trying too hard and I know I will depress myself if i keep testing and getting -ve's back.
Oh well, here's to trying and fingers crossed.
Hugs to everyone. And thank you for listening to my rant

x

KRosJ · Jan 19th, 2012, 17:33 PM

I know how you feel!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my bean last month, and after hearing that you're extra fertile after a loss, I was really excited. However, AF showed up yesterday and I am so frustrated.

I'm definitely impatient to get my BFP. I can hardly stand waiting, especially with all the pregnancies and babies around me!

I'm crossing my fingers for you; hope you get your BFP!!!

ljane74 · Jan 19th, 2012, 19:04 PM

Thank you

Bit of a bad day today. After bad day finding -ve test yesterday, went in work today and a girl who's not been in office since I'd been back after few weeks off going through mc was in and she's the number of weeks pg that I should have been if I'd not mc'd. I'd been ok since going back work after new year keeping emotions in check. But bam today seeing her in the office it hit me again like a train and I was in tears half the morning. Managed pull myself together to do the afternoon.

Anyway hugs to u after your loss and everything crossed for you

KRosJ · Jan 20th, 2012, 10:18 AM

Ugh, I'm so sorry. That's the worst. I keep getting really emotional every time I see a post on Facebook of someone's baby or an announcement of pregnancy. Two of my co-workers just had babies, and it's all anyone is talking about. It's really hard.

I promised myself I wouldn't become obsessed with TTC either, but I feel like I'm heading down that path. I'm thinking of every possible thing I can do this cycle to get my BFP.

Have you got your period yet? How late are you?

For us and everyone here:

!!!

ljane74 · Jan 20th, 2012, 15:00 PM

I don't know if I'm late or not to be honest as I don't know if my system has got back to normal after the mc. There's been no sign of my period. My system didn't kick in to actually pass the miscarriage which is why i had an erpc. And then I didn't really have any bleeding from it apart from that day and a bit the day after. But I suppose after the erpc my hcg levels dropped quickly for me to get -ve pg test. I thought I had ovulation pains about 3 weeks ago and this week my stomach is achey so it made me think maybe my period might be around the corner but again I don't know if I'm reading things into every little ache and pain. I think its just going to be a waiting game until I either get my period or a +ve

and maybe a fortune in pg tests and a few up and down weeks/months. Here's hoping for good things for myself, you and everyone on here

Jan 18th, 2012, 12:40 PM	#1
ljane74 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 33	Impatient Aaargh I'm so impatient. I had ERPC December 13th after missed miscarriage mid November and got -ve PG test 20th Dec. We have BD'd every day (only had 1 day bleeding from op so safe enough) since Christmas as we wanted to start TTC as soon as possible and me being the impatient so and so that i am was hoping that doing a PG test this morning that it would come back +ve. But no its -ve. I had seemed to be getting various PG symptoms the same as I had on my pregnancy last time - flare up of acne, funny feeling stomach, headaches, shattered. But looks like that's just my hormones flying around. I just want things to start kicking in, wanting AF to arrive (unless by pure luck I do catch the egg!). I don't want to become obsessed by it as I know it doesn't help if trying too hard and I know I will depress myself if i keep testing and getting -ve's back. Oh well, here's to trying and fingers crossed. Hugs to everyone. And thank you for listening to my rant x

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Jan 19th, 2012, 17:33 PM	#2
KRosJ Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 71	I know how you feel! I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my bean last month, and after hearing that you're extra fertile after a loss, I was really excited. However, AF showed up yesterday and I am so frustrated. I'm definitely impatient to get my BFP. I can hardly stand waiting, especially with all the pregnancies and babies around me! I'm crossing my fingers for you; hope you get your BFP!!!

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Jan 19th, 2012, 19:04 PM	#3
ljane74 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 33	Thank you Bit of a bad day today. After bad day finding -ve test yesterday, went in work today and a girl who's not been in office since I'd been back after few weeks off going through mc was in and she's the number of weeks pg that I should have been if I'd not mc'd. I'd been ok since going back work after new year keeping emotions in check. But bam today seeing her in the office it hit me again like a train and I was in tears half the morning. Managed pull myself together to do the afternoon. Anyway hugs to u after your loss and everything crossed for you

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Jan 20th, 2012, 10:18 AM	#4
KRosJ Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 71	Ugh, I'm so sorry. That's the worst. I keep getting really emotional every time I see a post on Facebook of someone's baby or an announcement of pregnancy. Two of my co-workers just had babies, and it's all anyone is talking about. It's really hard. I promised myself I wouldn't become obsessed with TTC either, but I feel like I'm heading down that path. I'm thinking of every possible thing I can do this cycle to get my BFP. Have you got your period yet? How late are you? For us and everyone here: !!!

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Jan 20th, 2012, 15:00 PM	#5
ljane74 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 33	I don't know if I'm late or not to be honest as I don't know if my system has got back to normal after the mc. There's been no sign of my period. My system didn't kick in to actually pass the miscarriage which is why i had an erpc. And then I didn't really have any bleeding from it apart from that day and a bit the day after. But I suppose after the erpc my hcg levels dropped quickly for me to get -ve pg test. I thought I had ovulation pains about 3 weeks ago and this week my stomach is achey so it made me think maybe my period might be around the corner but again I don't know if I'm reading things into every little ache and pain. I think its just going to be a waiting game until I either get my period or a +ve and maybe a fortune in pg tests and a few up and down weeks/months. Here's hoping for good things for myself, you and everyone on here

Status: Offline

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