Need to let off steam about my idiot of a doctor! - Page 2

Jem88 · Mar 16th, 2010, 11:24 AM

At the mo nope, but its only been 4 months since my 2nd mc(chemical) but i'm positive it'll happen in the next 6 - 12 months.. i hope lol.

zoe87 · Mar 16th, 2010, 14:24 PM

Aw sorry to hear chick, i can imagine your in the same boat as me, anxious and worried at the thought of getting pregnant again ater 2 m/c's. Im wishing you a sticky bean really really soon.

Speaking of sticky beans im on cd 49 and expecting another 60 day cycle i was cooking tea tonight and this awful dizzy spell came over me thought i was going to faint , ive never felt like that before...still not getting my hopes up tho lol

danielle1987 · Mar 16th, 2010, 15:17 PM

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Hi, we've been ttc for nearly the same amount of time, if you count it from your 1st mc which i think most people and doc's do? which is 1 year 7 months, i know we count it from our 1st mc and out GP did, and she referred us to a fertility specialist because we've been ttc for over a year, we're young aswell, 22 and 24 so really age has nothing to do with it, i'd try and see a diff doc and ask to be referred because of your long 60 day cycles, is there a woman doc you could see, maybe she'll be more understanding? plus i think you said in a diff topic that you've had tests done and there fine, but your OH hasn't? it'll be good for him to have a fertility
test done aswell so then you kno if he have a problem.

me and other half are the same age and have gone through similar. we been trying for over two years, had a miscarriage a year ago, and still nothing... going into hospital on the 25th of march for the last of the tests, everything else so far come back clear... this one testing my womb and fallopian tubes to make sure no blockages, but the doctors even at the fertility clinic says "oh your young and you have been pregnant so it will happen again... its so hard

Hope we all get our much longed for bfp

zoe87 · Mar 16th, 2010, 16:07 PM

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me and other half are the same age and have gone through similar. we been trying for over two years, had a miscarriage a year ago, and still nothing... going into hospital on the 25th of march for the last of the tests, everything else so far come back clear... this one testing my womb and fallopian tubes to make sure no blockages, but the doctors even at the fertility clinic says "oh your young and you have been pregnant so it will happen again... its so hard

Hope we all get our much longed for bfp[/QUOTE]

Hi if you dont mind me asking how did you go about gettin referred for tests?

danielle1987 · Mar 16th, 2010, 17:22 PM

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me and other half are the same age and have gone through similar. we been trying for over two years, had a miscarriage a year ago, and still nothing... going into hospital on the 25th of march for the last of the tests, everything else so far come back clear... this one testing my womb and fallopian tubes to make sure no blockages, but the doctors even at the fertility clinic says "oh your young and you have been pregnant so it will happen again... its so hard

Hope we all get our much longed for bfp

Hi if you dont mind me asking how did you go about gettin referred for tests?[/QUOTE]

we had been trying for 18 months when we went to the dr, i stated off with LOADS of blood work, and oh got a sperm sample done, then once they come back clear, the doctor referred us to the fertility clinic as as far as the doctor could tell we were healthy enough with the results that a baby should have happened, I waited 4 months for the appointment and had the 1st one in December, all the results we discussed and they asked me a load of questions, and then it was decided they would do these tests, so thats me just gt the appointment through. I didnt think we would get referred because i ave been pregnant before x

zoe87 · Mar 16th, 2010, 17:51 PM

I can imagine your pleased you are getting things seen to especially ttc for that long. Its driving me mad. my doctor just shrugged it off and said its perfectly normal for women to have irregular periods and not to concieve. He didnt even mention anything about me or my OH having any testing done. Drives me mad as i dont know how to approach it next.

danielle1987 · Mar 17th, 2010, 03:44 AM

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I can imagine your pleased you are getting things seen to especially ttc for that long. Its driving me mad. my doctor just shrugged it off and said its perfectly normal for women to have irregular periods and not to concieve. He didnt even mention anything about me or my OH having any testing done. Drives me mad as i dont know how to approach it next.

my periods were always so regular before the miscarriage, since march i have had a few months when they are the same day every month and now i get spotting like 5 days before my period is due etc, dr says my hormones have just went haywire they say.... Yeah ly glad to be getting tests done but with everything so far coming back normal feel like im no further forward, surely if me an oh are perfectly fine then it should have happened by now
. you should push to get referred. Im in scotland so i dont know if its diffferent depending on where you live? xx

zoe87 · Mar 17th, 2010, 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by zoe87

I can imagine your pleased you are getting things seen to especially ttc for that long. Its driving me mad. my doctor just shrugged it off and said its perfectly normal for women to have irregular periods and not to concieve. He didnt even mention anything about me or my OH having any testing done. Drives me mad as i dont know how to approach it next.

my periods were always so regular before the miscarriage, since march i have had a few months when they are the same day every month and now i get spotting like 5 days before my period is due etc, dr says my hormones have just went haywire they say.... Yeah ly glad to be getting tests done but with everything so far coming back normal feel like im no further forward, surely if me an oh are perfectly fine then it should have happened by now
. you should push to get referred. Im in scotland so i dont know if its diffferent depending on where you live? xx

My periods used to be so regular too, now i dont even get warning when its coming, no pain, spotting etc,! I wish u success very soon and would be nice to hear how you get on.
Im in england, thinking about getting a second opinion.

Mar 16th, 2010, 11:24 AM	#11
Jem88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cumbria, UK Posts: 2,475	At the mo nope, but its only been 4 months since my 2nd mc(chemical) but i'm positive it'll happen in the next 6 - 12 months.. i hope lol.

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Mar 16th, 2010, 14:24 PM	#12
zoe87 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Co Durham, England Posts: 1,810	Aw sorry to hear chick, i can imagine your in the same boat as me, anxious and worried at the thought of getting pregnant again ater 2 m/c's. Im wishing you a sticky bean really really soon. Speaking of sticky beans im on cd 49 and expecting another 60 day cycle i was cooking tea tonight and this awful dizzy spell came over me thought i was going to faint , ive never felt like that before...still not getting my hopes up tho lol

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Mar 16th, 2010, 16:07 PM	#14
zoe87 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Co Durham, England Posts: 1,810	QUOTE] me and other half are the same age and have gone through similar. we been trying for over two years, had a miscarriage a year ago, and still nothing... going into hospital on the 25th of march for the last of the tests, everything else so far come back clear... this one testing my womb and fallopian tubes to make sure no blockages, but the doctors even at the fertility clinic says "oh your young and you have been pregnant so it will happen again... its so hard Hope we all get our much longed for bfp[/QUOTE] Hi if you dont mind me asking how did you go about gettin referred for tests?

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Mar 16th, 2010, 17:51 PM	#16
zoe87 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Co Durham, England Posts: 1,810	I can imagine your pleased you are getting things seen to especially ttc for that long. Its driving me mad. my doctor just shrugged it off and said its perfectly normal for women to have irregular periods and not to concieve. He didnt even mention anything about me or my OH having any testing done. Drives me mad as i dont know how to approach it next.

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