Feeling bitter

moomoo · Jan 20th, 2009, 16:36 PM

I cant help it

Girl i sit next to at work is preg, two of my collegues oh's are expecting (one of which due 3 days after what my due date would have been) Another girl at my work who had an abortion 9 months ago is preg again, a 17 year old girl i know who got pg on a one night stand, another 3 friends pregnant at pretty much exactly what i would have been. And i'm not meant to feel bitter!

and another friend has just announced a pregnancy too,

when will it be my turn

Please add another to this list!!! My old work mate is expecting too!!

kat08 · Jan 20th, 2009, 16:48 PM

You are allowed to be bitter moomoo - I am feeling like that at the minute too and I haven't been pregnant and been through what you have

Mrs Doddy · Jan 20th, 2009, 17:15 PM

its crap isn't it - I know how you feel

Waiting4Bump · Jan 20th, 2009, 17:17 PM

I know exactly how you feel hun

How come it happens for everyone else, or so it seems, but not for us?

xx

bellazucca · Jan 20th, 2009, 17:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mrs Doddy

its crap isn't it - I know how you feel

it is crap. just try and keep your chin up. it will be your time before long...hangin there.

Jem88 · Jan 20th, 2009, 17:21 PM

i kno how you feel moomoo & its perfectly normal. i felt exactly how you feel until a month ago. my cousin got preg the same time as me & she gave birth 3 week ago 2 her babygirl. & i felt really bitter & jealous for months but its been 7 months now since our m/c and weve been trying since it happend & were still not preg again :'( ive accepted it now, its taken a while but i just try and think positive & that at least we kno we can actually get pregnant and it will happen again :-) might take a while but like my other half said 2 me the other night, it'll make the next 1 even more special :-)

Sprat · Jan 20th, 2009, 17:59 PM

I think we are all a little bitter! lol! Life can be very cruel! I have 2 pregnant sisters - both have got pg first time since I have been ttc.
I don't know how we get through it all sometimes but we are strong women and we will get our

soon! And it will be extra special because we have had to wait.

cutie4evr01 · Jan 20th, 2009, 19:40 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss moomoo. It hurts so much to hear of new people getting pregnant, especially those who haven't been trying as long, or even trying at all! I know I can't say anything to make the hurt go away, but know that we are here for you and we really do understand how you feel. Keep the faith, and it will be your turn soon!

vickielm · Jan 21st, 2009, 04:27 AM

You are fine to be hurting. I am also after my MMC with twins in Dec. I had a D+C on 12th Jan, got a sick note from the hospital for two weeks. Thought i was ready to go back to work at the begining of this week - until i found out the young girl who sits on my desk is pregnant and is 6 weeks as i would have been when i had mmc.

I could not stop crying and could not face going back to work just yet. It may seem selfish but i have explained to her its nothing personal and that i am happy for her but it is just really hard at the moment.

Lets hope for them BFP's soon girlies.

Vik
x

brokenbits · Jan 21st, 2009, 04:33 AM

I found out my sister was pregnant via FACEBOOK of all places, and have since been bitter about it as she is with a horrible, manipulative greasy man who doesn't deserve children. It's funny how those who can provide a happy stable life for a child have a real hard time conceiving yet those who are incapable of looking after themselves manage it at the drop of a hat.

I'm friends with you on FB moomoo, I've just worked out who you are when I went into your profile...I'll let you see if you can work out who I am...I'm a born n bred Chardite if that helps!!!

Jan 20th, 2009, 16:36 PM	#1
moomoo Other BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Somerset - Oooh arrrr! Posts: 5,776	Feeling bitter I cant help it Girl i sit next to at work is preg, two of my collegues oh's are expecting (one of which due 3 days after what my due date would have been) Another girl at my work who had an abortion 9 months ago is preg again, a 17 year old girl i know who got pg on a one night stand, another 3 friends pregnant at pretty much exactly what i would have been. And i'm not meant to feel bitter! and another friend has just announced a pregnancy too, when will it be my turn Please add another to this list!!! My old work mate is expecting too!!

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Jan 20th, 2009, 16:48 PM	#2
kat08 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 343	You are allowed to be bitter moomoo - I am feeling like that at the minute too and I haven't been pregnant and been through what you have

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Jan 20th, 2009, 17:15 PM	#3
Mrs Doddy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Uk Posts: 10,035	its crap isn't it - I know how you feel

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Jan 20th, 2009, 17:17 PM	#4
Waiting4Bump Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: North West Posts: 4,473	I know exactly how you feel hun How come it happens for everyone else, or so it seems, but not for us? xx

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Jan 20th, 2009, 17:21 PM	#6
Jem88 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Cumbria, UK Posts: 2,475	i kno how you feel moomoo & its perfectly normal. i felt exactly how you feel until a month ago. my cousin got preg the same time as me & she gave birth 3 week ago 2 her babygirl. & i felt really bitter & jealous for months but its been 7 months now since our m/c and weve been trying since it happend & were still not preg again :'( ive accepted it now, its taken a while but i just try and think positive & that at least we kno we can actually get pregnant and it will happen again :-) might take a while but like my other half said 2 me the other night, it'll make the next 1 even more special :-)

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Jan 20th, 2009, 17:59 PM	#7
Sprat Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Surrey Posts: 432	I think we are all a little bitter! lol! Life can be very cruel! I have 2 pregnant sisters - both have got pg first time since I have been ttc. I don't know how we get through it all sometimes but we are strong women and we will get our soon! And it will be extra special because we have had to wait.

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Jan 20th, 2009, 19:40 PM	#8
cutie4evr01 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: USA Posts: 2,238	I'm so sorry for your loss moomoo. It hurts so much to hear of new people getting pregnant, especially those who haven't been trying as long, or even trying at all! I know I can't say anything to make the hurt go away, but know that we are here for you and we really do understand how you feel. Keep the faith, and it will be your turn soon!

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Jan 21st, 2009, 04:27 AM	#9
vickielm Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Darwen Posts: 488	You are fine to be hurting. I am also after my MMC with twins in Dec. I had a D+C on 12th Jan, got a sick note from the hospital for two weeks. Thought i was ready to go back to work at the begining of this week - until i found out the young girl who sits on my desk is pregnant and is 6 weeks as i would have been when i had mmc. I could not stop crying and could not face going back to work just yet. It may seem selfish but i have explained to her its nothing personal and that i am happy for her but it is just really hard at the moment. Lets hope for them BFP's soon girlies. Vik x

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Jan 21st, 2009, 04:33 AM	#10
brokenbits Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Somerset Posts: 419	I found out my sister was pregnant via FACEBOOK of all places, and have since been bitter about it as she is with a horrible, manipulative greasy man who doesn't deserve children. It's funny how those who can provide a happy stable life for a child have a real hard time conceiving yet those who are incapable of looking after themselves manage it at the drop of a hat. I'm friends with you on FB moomoo, I've just worked out who you are when I went into your profile...I'll let you see if you can work out who I am...I'm a born n bred Chardite if that helps!!!

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