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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 16:49 PM   #1
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can't cope any more :'(


hi girls had a nightmare of a day today went to the doctors because i had bad pains ive been in agony and twinges in my lower back and right hand side of my belly, they said i was having an eptopic pregnancy i burst into tears and they sent me straight to the hospital to be scanned, 3 hours of waiting in the waiting room listening to 3 drunks who was with his pregnant gf saying not to worry they dont really like kids anyway...

They told me that they dont do scans in the night time but they could examine me but not really tell me much, after a pregnancy test they told me i wasn't pregnant so its a minininini chance of an eptopic so i was allowed to go home, i just can cope with these heartache anymore its really getting to me and im starting to think maybe now with me being so emotionally depressed i should give in for a while i just dont know what to do i feel so loney


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 16:59 PM   #2
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i am sorry sweetie... i do have to said...i was "forced" to take a ttc break last month to make sure i wasn't pregnant when they remove my polyp...but it did me good to relax a little and to not have to think of when AF coming or opk etc...

take a little break maybe ...?


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:02 PM   #3
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yeah im thinking of taking a break its just getting me really depressed and i cant deal with it, its not fair at all xxx


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:04 PM   #4
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I'm so sorry you have to go through this.


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:05 PM   #5
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I am so sorry
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:05 PM   #6
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Im so sorry to hear that, that is truely awful. You feel lonely, but all the lovely woman on here will pull you through, they give brilliant advice and support. you have to keep trying, dont ever give up. To be in a waiting room and hear that... its devastating that people like that can get pregnant by 'accident' when we who put all the effort in for months, some - years feel like we are taking 2 steps forward and 1,000,000 back. Im sending you millions of dont ever give up. xxxxxxx


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:08 PM   #7
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Wish I could say more to help...a break might make you feel better. I am so sorry about your pain too...


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:09 PM   #8
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thanks everyone!1 yeah it does i was sat there thinking they are all drunk sounding and smelling like the live at a bar in the pub and im here not drinking not smoking looking after myself and i still feel punished xxxx


 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:11 PM   #9
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I'm so sorry to hear what a hard time you are having.

I'm not sure what to say, other than with all the support you give others, I'm sure there will be so many people on this site (and I'm sure in your life) who will really want to help you get through this.

I really hope you are feeling better soon.




 
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Old Jan 14th, 2009, 17:12 PM   #10
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Originally Posted by Lol78 View Post
I'm so sorry to hear what a hard time you are having.

I'm not sure what to say, other than with all the support you give others, I'm sure there will be so many people on this site (and I'm sure in your life) who will really want to help you get through this.

I really hope you are feeling better soon.


Thanks hunni xxxxxx


 
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