I am so annoyed ... But do I have the right????

allyk · Feb 1st, 2012, 04:55 AM

This is cycle num2 (which I know is nothing compared to some of you ) but I decided to use opk but not tell my oh (he thinks you just have lots of sex n end up with baby!!!) anyway we dtd sat, sun & Monday, all with neg opk, then yesterday I got positive opk and tried to get oh in mood but it just wasn't happening!!! (I think he wore himself out!!!!)

I am so angry that the one day I ovulate & he can't dtd!!!! I know it's not his fault and I'm just being selfish but I so badly want to have baby #2.

I feel bad as I know it's not his fault but arrrggggghhh I'm just frustrated, my pnly hope is that our weekend of dtd may have worked fingers crossed please...

lady_p · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:05 AM

I think that sperm can survive inside of you for a few days after dtd so you still may well be in with a chance. Understand what you mean though you just want the best chance to conceive.

kassiaethne · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:09 AM

Lol ive practically raped my hubby to be sure we did it while i was ovulating. We both had drank water from tap in mexico and were alternating the bathroom... But i did end up preggo

Basically went, get with the program babe... Cuz i want meh baby....

Biscuitbaby · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:26 AM

My sister and her oh were arguing so she told him 'to shut up and just get on with it'

I dont think men understand all the planning and stuff we put into this!!

allyk · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Biscuitbaby

My sister and her oh were arguing so she told him 'to shut up and just get on with it'

I dont think men understand all the planning and stuff we put into this!!

i'm certain they dont, believe it or not he already has 3 children!!! (2 from previous relationship and our dd) He just thinks he has 'good swimmers'!!!!!

I did talk to him about opk, charting etc but he said it just makes it too chemically for him!!!! So thought i do it without him knowing!!!

I did tell him this morning that my 'dates' matched (easies way to explain to men i think!!) and that was why i was bit off with him late last night but he said well weve got another chance this month right?!?!? (Where do men get these ideas from???? did they ever have sex education at school!?!?!??!!

)

Fingers crossed dtd this weekend may still leave us with chance...

Biscuitbaby · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:45 AM

my oh just thinks he has too look at me and I'll be pregnant no matter what time of the month or CD I'm on! and if I explained it to him, he wouldnt listen!

I use simple terms for my dh to!

'I think the dates are round now'

But I think if I said to him 'YOU MUST PERFORM TO NIGHT (and make it good

)' he'd complety clam up! I dont tell him about opks or hpt - besides he'd have a fit if he knew how much I spent on them all!!

allyk · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Biscuitbaby

my oh just thinks he has too look at me and I'll be pregnant no matter what time of the month or CD I'm on! and if I explained it to him, he wouldnt listen!

I use simple terms for my dh to!

'I think the dates are round now'

But I think if I said to him 'YOU MUST PERFORM TO NIGHT (and make it good

)' he'd complety clam up! I dont tell him about opks or hpt - besides he'd have a fit if he knew how much I spent on them all!!

HAHA

i do feel really bad about saying to him this morning my dates matched but i agree if i had said to him last night we must DTD now this minute, he'd of prob ran a mile!!!!!

i have attempted to explain it to my oh but i kinda gave up halfway though and just told him not to worry and that if i got preg, i'd get preg!! that way he doesnt ask any questions!!!

I think he actually just wants to be told yes im pregnant or no im not!!! Men are such simple characters!!!

Biscuitbaby · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:52 AM

I'm keeping my FX for you!!

sarahuk · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:57 AM

Just incase you didnt know...the opk doesnt mean your egg is relased right that second

You have up to 36 hours from the opk before the egg is released, and that egg can live for 24 hours. So...if you

the day after your positive, youre still in

GL!

Biscuitbaby · Feb 1st, 2012, 05:58 AM

Feb 1st, 2012, 04:55 AM	#1
allyk Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: essex Posts: 1,513	I am so annoyed ... But do I have the right???? This is cycle num2 (which I know is nothing compared to some of you ) but I decided to use opk but not tell my oh (he thinks you just have lots of sex n end up with baby!!!) anyway we dtd sat, sun & Monday, all with neg opk, then yesterday I got positive opk and tried to get oh in mood but it just wasn't happening!!! (I think he wore himself out!!!!) I am so angry that the one day I ovulate & he can't dtd!!!! I know it's not his fault and I'm just being selfish but I so badly want to have baby #2. I feel bad as I know it's not his fault but arrrggggghhh I'm just frustrated, my pnly hope is that our weekend of dtd may have worked fingers crossed please...

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Feb 1st, 2012, 05:09 AM	#3
kassiaethne Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Brazil Posts: 143	Lol ive practically raped my hubby to be sure we did it while i was ovulating. We both had drank water from tap in mexico and were alternating the bathroom... But i did end up preggo Basically went, get with the program babe... Cuz i want meh baby....

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Feb 1st, 2012, 05:26 AM	#4
Biscuitbaby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: UK Posts: 565	My sister and her oh were arguing so she told him 'to shut up and just get on with it' I dont think men understand all the planning and stuff we put into this!!

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Biscuitbaby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: UK Posts: 565	my oh just thinks he has too look at me and I'll be pregnant no matter what time of the month or CD I'm on! and if I explained it to him, he wouldnt listen! I use simple terms for my dh to! 'I think the dates are round now' But I think if I said to him 'YOU MUST PERFORM TO NIGHT (and make it good)' he'd complety clam up! I dont tell him about opks or hpt - besides he'd have a fit if he knew how much I spent on them all!!

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Biscuitbaby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: UK Posts: 565	I'm keeping my FX for you!!

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lady_p Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 141	I think that sperm can survive inside of you for a few days after dtd so you still may well be in with a chance. Understand what you mean though you just want the best chance to conceive.

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sarahuk Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: South Yorkshire, UK. Posts: 2,909	Just incase you didnt know...the opk doesnt mean your egg is relased right that second You have up to 36 hours from the opk before the egg is released, and that egg can live for 24 hours. So...if you the day after your positive, youre still in GL!

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