Hi,

Im new to all of this, and wondering if anybody can give me any guidance. Me and my OH have just started TTC, My last period was 2nd november, and my cycle is usually between 29-31days. Usually (before ttc) i had a rough idea when i was Ovulating due to slight cramps around 16days after period, etc...
However since my last period on 2nd november, I have not had my that was due around 30th nov - 6th december.
We started ttc on the 6th december. I know its very unlikely to concieve so close to a due period. However I have still not seen any sign of and my next is due in 2 days (28th-31st dec).
Over the past two weeks, I have felt slightly different, and my boobs feel fuller and have seen blue prominant lines over them, which iv never experianced before. I have felt sickly for the past week, and had sporadic headaches, bit of blood when brushing teeth, and hormonal, crying at the tv.

I know that its unlikely that i could have conceived on the 6th december because thats the day that the was due, but surely if i hadnt the should have shown her face by now, and why do i feel so different and crappy. I know it is possible for people to miss their periods, but iv not experianced this. My next is due in 2 days, I have bought 2 clearblue hpt, and wondering when the best time to test is??

I tested a week ago, which would have been 2 week after unprotected and that showed .
If i test tommorow morning, 22days after this should show a clear result shouldnt it?

Sorry if iv confused everyone, its a bit baffling because the first time i could have conceived was 6th december, we have been trying ttc since then, so possible after this time, but surely i wouldnt feel like this so quickly

Thanks in advance

when did u and oh bd and when did u ovulate? is af due or late?

Me and Oh started to BD on the 6th december (day my af was due) however no af appeared.. It has been 21days since af due and bd (as this was the same day) and my next af is due in 2 days. We have been trying within this timescale.

here's a thought; i heard that it is possible to ov without getting the because i thought it happened to me before. i did research on it and several places say it's possible. maybe you should consider that a possibility and do some research on it to see if any of your symptoms sound like it
good luck on a

i would wait untill after ur next af is due as if u was due on the 6th u would of od befor then but u can not o with out having af unless u r preg. have u just come off the pill or any sort of birth controll? as this can throw ur af and o off for a few months
good luck

Thanks for you reply's.

I just tested this morning and saw bfn ..

Iv not been on any birthing control, It's really strange, I woke up at 3am this morning,and just made it to the bathroom before being sick, and it was yellow/orange. It was horrible. I thought this may have been a sign, but with a bfn it musnt have been.

Its so bafflng, with the way iv been feeling. I just wish the would turn up, then least i can get back on track, and know where im at.

My next af is due 28th-31'st Jan, so will wait till after this and still no af, I shall re-test and visit the docs.

Thanks everybody for replying