Me and DP had an argument

Waiting4Bump · Dec 21st, 2008, 07:28 AM

I told him that I really didn't feel pregnant today, and that it's not looking likely that I'll get my

this month. I seriously feel fine. Although I did sleep 9 hours again, which isn't like me!

He had a real go at me, saying I shouldn't say that, and I should think positive. Huh, well he should try feeling positive when he feels fine. I had more symptoms last month and got

so why should I get a

this month?

So now, we aren't talking to each other

and I feel like rubbish. We were meant to be going to the cinema tonight, to see that 4 Christmasses, but I doubt it very much now. He is being so stupid. He is convinced I am pregnant, even kissing my tummy and rubbing it all day yesterday. I hate myself for letting him get him hopes up!

Laura xx

emie · Dec 21st, 2008, 07:35 AM

Oh hun I am sorry but ttc does sometimes brings alot of stress with it,`dont forget you can get a

with no symptoms at all.dont hate yourself it will happen hes just excited, your time will come.Have you been ttc for very long?

brokenbits · Dec 21st, 2008, 07:42 AM

When are you testing?! I think the kissing and rubbing of belly is a little OTT and alot for someone to handle when you are so unsure if there's a baby in there or not. Maybe ask him to be a little more tactful?

Waiting4Bump · Dec 21st, 2008, 07:47 AM

It's only our 2nd month trying, and I know that it can take much longer, and we would be so lucky if it happened now, but that's why I am trying not to get my hopes up.

I know it brings a lot of stress. Gosh, I've never felt so stressed as I do sometimes, but I have to admit, I have relaxed a lot lately, and taking a bit of a que sara sara attitude!

I am going to test tomorrow. Yes, his actions were OTT, but at the time I had sickness, sore boobs, sore tummy, backache, and headache, and we were pretty convinced it had happened - and that was only yesterday. Oh, how times change!

emie · Dec 21st, 2008, 08:44 AM

Good luck testing tomorrow hun..

sammii:) · Dec 21st, 2008, 09:10 AM

Aw hun! Sounds crappy!

TTC certainly puts stress on everyone

I had a day where my symptoms just went really quick, but now they're back again. Just a quick story - my best friend had her baby 31st of Oct, and the ONLY symptoms she had was sore boobs and a missed period. Her boobs hurt about 2 or 3 months into the pregnancy. That was it! She didnt have any food cravings, any diversion to food, any cramping, any sickness...nothing at all! So there is hope! Always hope!

Keep us updated yeah? Good luck with testing, I shall be testing soon too! Hope we get our BFPs

Dec 21st, 2008, 07:28 AM	#1
Waiting4Bump Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: North West Posts: 4,473	Me and DP had an argument I told him that I really didn't feel pregnant today, and that it's not looking likely that I'll get my this month. I seriously feel fine. Although I did sleep 9 hours again, which isn't like me! He had a real go at me, saying I shouldn't say that, and I should think positive. Huh, well he should try feeling positive when he feels fine. I had more symptoms last month and got so why should I get a this month? So now, we aren't talking to each other and I feel like rubbish. We were meant to be going to the cinema tonight, to see that 4 Christmasses, but I doubt it very much now. He is being so stupid. He is convinced I am pregnant, even kissing my tummy and rubbing it all day yesterday. I hate myself for letting him get him hopes up! Laura xx

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Dec 21st, 2008, 07:35 AM	#2
emie Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: nottinghamshire Posts: 3,638	Oh hun I am sorry but ttc does sometimes brings alot of stress with it,`dont forget you can get a with no symptoms at all.dont hate yourself it will happen hes just excited, your time will come.Have you been ttc for very long?

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Dec 21st, 2008, 07:42 AM	#3
brokenbits Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Somerset Posts: 419	When are you testing?! I think the kissing and rubbing of belly is a little OTT and alot for someone to handle when you are so unsure if there's a baby in there or not. Maybe ask him to be a little more tactful?

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Dec 21st, 2008, 07:47 AM	#4
Waiting4Bump Pregnant (Expecting) Inactive Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: North West Posts: 4,473	It's only our 2nd month trying, and I know that it can take much longer, and we would be so lucky if it happened now, but that's why I am trying not to get my hopes up. I know it brings a lot of stress. Gosh, I've never felt so stressed as I do sometimes, but I have to admit, I have relaxed a lot lately, and taking a bit of a que sara sara attitude! I am going to test tomorrow. Yes, his actions were OTT, but at the time I had sickness, sore boobs, sore tummy, backache, and headache, and we were pretty convinced it had happened - and that was only yesterday. Oh, how times change!

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Dec 21st, 2008, 08:44 AM	#5
emie Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: nottinghamshire Posts: 3,638	Good luck testing tomorrow hun..

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Dec 21st, 2008, 09:10 AM	#6
sammii:) Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Hertfordshire, UK Posts: 173	Aw hun! Sounds crappy! TTC certainly puts stress on everyone I had a day where my symptoms just went really quick, but now they're back again. Just a quick story - my best friend had her baby 31st of Oct, and the ONLY symptoms she had was sore boobs and a missed period. Her boobs hurt about 2 or 3 months into the pregnancy. That was it! She didnt have any food cravings, any diversion to food, any cramping, any sickness...nothing at all! So there is hope! Always hope! Keep us updated yeah? Good luck with testing, I shall be testing soon too! Hope we get our BFPs

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