LynnieH

I had mine removed in the March and got pregnant in the April! Fertility defo returns straight away.

vicky

i told my mum i'm ttc in september so its up to you hun, my mum nearly fainted, but yay laura

Dippy Yvanne

lol i cudnae tell my mum i was ttc, i swear she thinks im a virgin


best of luck hun!!!

Lauz_1601

PMSL how on earth did you concieve your kids then hehe

Lynnie thats good news then, I'll be so chuffed if I fall pg straight away, although it would be a shock coz i wont expect it lol.

Vicky you mum nearly fainted hehe bless her, I think my mum will too, Im sure she'd love another grandchild but she will think of the practicalities, like we will need to move to a bigger house and how will I cope in my job my back worsens when pg ad I am a waitress in a very busy restaurant, but if we all think like that we'd never have kids, just have to go for it.

as for my job, does anyone know what the rules are, will they have to give me lighter duties, and less tables to look after, so im not rushing around like a blue arsed fly like I usually am ?

Hels

Great new Lauz! Hope it happens fast for you.

I have dropped hints to my Mum, and OH tells her if he had his way he'd have a football team, so I guess she is expecting another grandchild sometime.

You would need to have a risk assessment at work.

Lauz_1601

would I request a risk assesment ? jumping the gun a bit here, but just want to know what will happen coz its a very physical job, we dont get a break in 6or 7 hours, so I think that would be top on my list

Hels

i dont think your jumping the gun, Lauz. Just planning ahead!

Id do a bit of research, so when time comes your prepared, and you know your rights. You shouldnt have to ask for a risk assessment, but make sure they do one.

There are a couple of sites that are really beneficial, and I contacted them a few times through out my pregnancy (My company were pratts) But for the life of me I can not think of the names, they were initials, Help me out!!!

Caroline

ahem i think tahts illegal, i'm certan u can't work anymore than 5 hours without a break could even be 4.

I think with regards to risks at woork the HSE are best people to help.

Lauz_1601

People tell me that all the time, thing is on a busy night when we have 6 tables to look after we cant just abandon them, annoying thing ppl who smoke go for a fag break at the end of the night and the non-smokers are left to clean up the mess grrrr, whereas if we stand and have a drink for 2 minutes, we get moaned at

vicky

you would get a risk assement they have to its the law, and they should be giving you a break every hour for at least 10 mins