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Old Oct 31st, 2008, 20:25 PM   #1
dizzy65
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this sucks


So when i was in high school this girl i new ended up getting pregnant the last year i was there she is a yr younger than i and she just had her baby about a week and a half ago it is so unfair that ppl like her get a child with out even having to try and it was her first time and she didnt m/c I am happy for her yes but i am sad because it feels as if my day will never come

just recently my friend got pregnant and she is aborting it because she doesnt want the baby. Why do people keep getting pregnant that dont even want the childern it is so SO unfair i mean really i have been trying and everytime it seems i get pregnant something bad happens and i loose my baby this is just so upsetting

Another girl in my grad class "accidently" got pregnant and had her baby during the summer it i no i am happy for her but at the beginning she didnt even want the child this is so harsh why do ppl keep getting the gift that i want so so badly. and i have been trying i hate it..

And like on my facebook there is like 6 or 7 ppl that are pregnant or are dads or what ever all by accidents and stuff that wernt planned.. WHY not me (sorry bout the rant)


 
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Old Oct 31st, 2008, 20:51 PM   #2
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Old Oct 31st, 2008, 21:24 PM   #3
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I know its hard, when I was working at a preschool EVERYONE around me like 9 people got pregnant and it sucked... and one even got pregnant while on birth control and didn't want it at all.. made me so sad and yearn for one more!


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Old Oct 31st, 2008, 23:59 PM   #4
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Dude, I just read an old thread that was resurrected and I realized two of our lovely members here got BFP's last cycle or so* - one who it looks like hit a home run on her first try. It's hard when jealousy (much like ) rears her ugly head, but what can you do? Unfortunately this isn't a test where if you study hard enough, you get an A**. And you know, I'm sitting there right beside you understanding exactly how you feel.

*Well they where TTC in September and have changed their profiles to expecting.
** Because seriously, there a quite a few of us here who deserve genius babies.


 
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Old Nov 1st, 2008, 03:36 AM   #5
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So when i was in high school this girl i new ended up getting pregnant the last year i was there she is a yr younger than i and she just had her baby about a week and a half ago it is so unfair that ppl like her get a child with out even having to try and it was her first time and she didnt m/c I am happy for her yes but i am sad because it feels as if my day will never come

just recently my friend got pregnant and she is aborting it because she doesnt want the baby. Why do people keep getting pregnant that dont even want the childern it is so SO unfair i mean really i have been trying and everytime it seems i get pregnant something bad happens and i loose my baby this is just so upsetting

Another girl in my grad class "accidently" got pregnant and had her baby during the summer it i no i am happy for her but at the beginning she didnt even want the child this is so harsh why do ppl keep getting the gift that i want so so badly. and i have been trying i hate it..

And like on my facebook there is like 6 or 7 ppl that are pregnant or are dads or what ever all by accidents and stuff that wernt planned.. WHY not me (sorry bout the rant)

your day will come xx dont give up xx


 
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Old Nov 1st, 2008, 16:33 PM   #6
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thanks its just hard some times when it seems like every one around me is getting pregnant and it seems like ill never get a baby


 
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Old Nov 1st, 2008, 17:08 PM   #7
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aw babe dont feel so down about it, your time will come whenever its right ..
its going to happen and the longer you wait the more amazing it'll be when it your baby gets here


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Old Nov 2nd, 2008, 21:08 PM   #8
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aw babe dont feel so down about it, your time will come whenever its right ..
its going to happen and the longer you wait the more amazing it'll be when it your baby gets here

yeah u are right, because having to work for it and really wanting it.. Not like some of the girls at my school who got accidently pregnant and didnt even want their child.. thanks


 
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