I got a BFN about an hour ago and the witch was due today!So now I am doing the maybe I tested to early mind games!!I have felt different this month!I also have a Haloween Ball tommorow night and dont want to drink till the witch has arrived or I get a BFP!Then I think I cant put my life on hold waiting for the BFP,when evil witch will probably show on Monday!!I wish it had been a BFP as I met my OH on haloween (spookily I was actually dressed up as a Baby)!!!
I hope we both wait a few days and get a BFP,that would be a great trick or treat!Trick cause we keep getting BFN and treat if we get a BFP!!

i think u shud defo start charting on fertilityfriends...id never been late b4,and once i was 9days late !! after getting neg tested and convinced i was pg i was gutted2say the least when af showed 9days late i started charting after this and now everyother mth i O later cd20 instead of cd15 and this makes cycle longer !!!
hope this isnt the case with u tho n do hope u get ur bfp asap

I second honey08. I know understand that cycles, especially the follicular phase (before O), can be of vary lengths so I'm not REALLY late as my LP is always as expected. It helps me not to worry before I need to. Although now I just obsess over temps - I love how it works - one vice replaces another!!!! You never actually get rid of them, you jsut replace them with new and improved ones.

Serena has given me hope to!Have the sore boobs,cramping,feeling sick if I dont snack often etc!Probably making them all up in my head though!
was due today and I waited all day to test and I got a !!It sucks!!On a 31 day cycle,did OPK test from day 11 to day 21 and got negatives right through.Hoping i missed the surge but it dont make it easy to to count how many days I would be!Do you think I should wait a few days and test again?,if dosnt arrive!Mind you it is haloween will probs fly in on her broomstick tonight!Got a Haloween Ball tommorow night and wanted to know one way or another,coz if came I would have a great big glass of wine!But then I would rather have a than wine!!(oh how times have changed))

any news yet ? thinking about you, hope its a good sign for you xxxx

Any news yet.

Still no . I am almost positive that I am definitely not pregnant. I do not feel pregnant AT ALL, (which actually may mean nothing as I was SURE in previous months that I was when I obviously wasn't). I am just frustrated because I wish AF would hurry up and come already because this sucks. I have two friends who also had a month or two when their periods showed up randomly, didn't show up at all or came SUPER late and it was just a fluke thing. - That's what I kinda think is going on with me because even though I have not been charting, my period has never been late. It may fluxuate a few days or even show up early but never late. I am definitely going to the Doc next week if it's still not here because I still think it's weird that my nipples are so damn painful and that my lower back huts so badly! I keep seeing these dark lines around my areola that I still swear were not there before. who knows?

I really appreciate everyone's comments and you have all given me some really good advice that I am taking to heart. Like someone suggested earlier - I should probably start charting, but don't I need a special thermometer to do that? And it has to be at the same time everyday? I work a crazy work schedule and I am just very confused as to how I would chart everyday at the same time when I do not have a set schedule?

mrsmcnamara i know how u feel, i'm now 21 days late for my and i've never ever been late before, i've done about 15 hpt and they've all been went the doctors when i was 10 days late and he told me they don't normally do blood tests until u've missed 2 or 3 periods but if i'm still the same in 2 weeks go back, that 2 weeks is up on Tuesday so wondering what he'll say, i've really been up and down, from convinced that i must b pg to convinced that i'm not, i mean surely at this late a stage it would have shown up by now if i was actually . good luck 2 us both, keep in touch and let me know how things are going with you!! xx

wow why do they wait so long to do the blood test? that must so hard, not knowing!

i hope you both get your BFPs!

Yes, that is awful that they wait that long. I don't know if it is the same here in the US or not, but I think that is really ridiculous that they would tell you to wait until you've missed 2 or 3 periods????!!!that's crazy talk. I mean, come on, anytime you're sick or even for a full physical they check your blood like it's nothing so what's the big deal about just going ahead and checking it now? Especially after seeing how many women never got a +BFP through a urine sample and only got it through a blood test??! Like I said, I am going to the doc next week if it's still not here but I am like 99% positive that AF is coming. I will let you know if it comes!