so broody - what would you do?

Vic · May 14th, 2007, 09:45 AM

I'm soooo broody again. I know I will be alot happier when I am pregnant again because I was when I fell pregnant before my M/C.

But we are going to greece in July for 3 weeks so I don't want to be pregnant for that. and now OH wants to try and go to LA in november to visit some friends. The thing is that is such a long way to go and I don't know if I would enjoy it if I was pregnant. I'm not sure whether to put it off until after that - but that feels like such a long way away

what would you do?

TTC now?
TTC after greece (Aug time)?
TTC after LA if we hafta go (Nov/Dec time)?

I want there to be under 3yrs age gap between Eva and the next baby.
xx

lollypop1 · May 14th, 2007, 10:03 AM

if it was me id try after greece (as i voted) so you can both enjoy a nice holiday together just the 2 of you with out all the stress of planning, charting, you can just relax, after that (or even during the hols) let nature take its course and hopefully you will be over 3 months by the november trip so its safe to go on a plane yey (as if anything goes that easy in real life but fingers crossed) XXX

stephlw25 · May 14th, 2007, 13:52 PM

I voted for after greece as if you catch right away your be in the 1st trimester in greece and likely to feel like poo and really tired !! then again you may feel fine, but enjoy your hols and have a drink or 2 without the worry id say ! good luck when you do want to ttc, im the same i cant think of the right time, at the mo the plan is to start soon but i keep changing my mind !!!! ha

Layla · May 14th, 2007, 14:21 PM

its a tough one, i was in the same situation, sort of,

I wanted to wait untill after the IOW fetival in June, but when i got pregnant i was over the moon and knew that i wouldnt mind giving up the drink for teh festival, the baby meant more to me.

Id play it by ear, what happens is meant to be

x

Vic · May 15th, 2007, 08:17 AM

Looks like everyone thinks the same. I will see what OH thinks about it. I feel like I will be alot happier when I'm pg again. I'm really looking forward to it x

Helen · May 15th, 2007, 09:54 AM

I voted...try now. There'll always be a good reason to put off TTC. If you want another baby, why wait!

Tezzy · May 15th, 2007, 11:22 AM

i agree with helen!

KX · May 15th, 2007, 15:52 PM

after Greece! a nice Spring 08 baby Vic!

Trinity · May 15th, 2007, 15:56 PM

I voted for after Greece .. i think you should have this holiday and really enjoy yourself and think about it after.

Vic · May 16th, 2007, 05:10 AM

I think that would probably be the most sensible option.

I can't help feeling like I wish I was pregnant now

I'm not dwelling on it but I'm gutted that I would have been about 3 1/2 months pg by now if it wasn't for the M/C.

xx

View Poll Results: When would you TTC?
Now	5	31.25%
After Greece (Jul/Aug time)	10	62.50%
After LA if we go (Nov/Dec time)	1	6.25%
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May 14th, 2007, 09:45 AM	#1
Vic Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 394	so broody - what would you do? I'm soooo broody again. I know I will be alot happier when I am pregnant again because I was when I fell pregnant before my M/C. But we are going to greece in July for 3 weeks so I don't want to be pregnant for that. and now OH wants to try and go to LA in november to visit some friends. The thing is that is such a long way to go and I don't know if I would enjoy it if I was pregnant. I'm not sure whether to put it off until after that - but that feels like such a long way away what would you do? TTC now? TTC after greece (Aug time)? TTC after LA if we hafta go (Nov/Dec time)? I want there to be under 3yrs age gap between Eva and the next baby. xx
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May 14th, 2007, 10:03 AM	#2
lollypop1 Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: South Wales Posts: 52	if it was me id try after greece (as i voted) so you can both enjoy a nice holiday together just the 2 of you with out all the stress of planning, charting, you can just relax, after that (or even during the hols) let nature take its course and hopefully you will be over 3 months by the november trip so its safe to go on a plane yey (as if anything goes that easy in real life but fingers crossed) XXX

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May 14th, 2007, 13:52 PM	#3
stephlw25 Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Cornwall Posts: 2,155	I voted for after greece as if you catch right away your be in the 1st trimester in greece and likely to feel like poo and really tired !! then again you may feel fine, but enjoy your hols and have a drink or 2 without the worry id say ! good luck when you do want to ttc, im the same i cant think of the right time, at the mo the plan is to start soon but i keep changing my mind !!!! ha

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May 14th, 2007, 14:21 PM	#4
Layla Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: South Wales Posts: 6,732	its a tough one, i was in the same situation, sort of, I wanted to wait untill after the IOW fetival in June, but when i got pregnant i was over the moon and knew that i wouldnt mind giving up the drink for teh festival, the baby meant more to me. Id play it by ear, what happens is meant to be x

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May 15th, 2007, 08:17 AM	#5
Vic Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 394	Looks like everyone thinks the same. I will see what OH thinks about it. I feel like I will be alot happier when I'm pg again. I'm really looking forward to it x
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May 15th, 2007, 09:54 AM	#6
Helen Other BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 3,833	I voted...try now. There'll always be a good reason to put off TTC. If you want another baby, why wait!
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May 15th, 2007, 11:22 AM	#7
Tezzy Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: North Wales Posts: 11,131	i agree with helen!

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May 15th, 2007, 15:52 PM	#8
KX BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Livingston, Scotland Posts: 5,125	after Greece! a nice Spring 08 baby Vic!

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May 15th, 2007, 15:56 PM	#9
Trinity Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Bristol Posts: 2,274	I voted for after Greece .. i think you should have this holiday and really enjoy yourself and think about it after.

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May 16th, 2007, 05:10 AM	#10
Vic Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 394	I think that would probably be the most sensible option. I can't help feeling like I wish I was pregnant now I'm not dwelling on it but I'm gutted that I would have been about 3 1/2 months pg by now if it wasn't for the M/C. xx
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