New to TTC after mc. Scared, and excited!!

shelleylu · Oct 7th, 2008, 11:17 AM

Hi Girls.

I am new to ttc, after having a MC at 10 weeks a month ago (11sept)

I had an ERPC as it was caught at a routine scan (no bleeding beforehand etc) I just wondered how long it takes to get a bfp?!

I know everyone is different - I havent had my first af since the mc yet - so I know its very naughty to try before, but we have been....

I have had some very odd symptoms the last day or so. I feel so sick sitting here writing this! I went and got 2 pg tests today but Im too scared to use one - and I think it might have been too soon to catch anyway.

Basically, there's so much information around, and so many things to read - I'd just like to talk to someone who has been through something similar. Any advice would be lovely x

Shelley x

stressederic · Oct 7th, 2008, 11:22 AM

Hi, just wanted to say know how you're feeling I too had erpc after missed miscarriage sept 4 I was 9 weeks, had previously seen a heartbeat and was devastated had AF start saturday so took 30 days now keen also to try again

Heres for our

shelleylu · Oct 7th, 2008, 11:24 AM

Fingers crossed for us!! xx

honey08 · Oct 7th, 2008, 11:34 AM

hi ya n welcome 2 bnb

i had a mc in mar08...had a d&c and got my first af 2may and we started ttc since then with still no luck...yet!
ive strangley starting aving cycles that were 30days...to cycle goin 30-38-30-38 this has how it has been since june, this is why ive had cd21 tests done, they think ive low estrogen from another test i had 4 somat eles, i think i only O everyother mth ,so praying when i get this sorted i wont be waiting 2long for my bfp,,,was this ur first bfp?

doc123 · Oct 7th, 2008, 11:38 AM

i'm joining you too!!! Am ttc cd13 today.. after 11 weeks twin loss...its all scary but you will be ok-there is no good time and there is no common thing which happens after mc.. if only it was so straight forward!!!!!!.. maybe you are pg already!!! take the test then at least you'll have some idea..yoou may have managed it again already!!!!!!!!!

good luck either way and let us know how you are getting on girl...

stressederic · Oct 7th, 2008, 11:42 AM

I have 2 kids, girl 9 and boy 8. I think also had chemical pregnancy the month before conceiving this time and having miscarried. Had implanon removed end march this year. When I had a scan at 7 weeks due to spotting there was heartbeat but also blood clot in uterus, I haven't had any follow up as yet so am unsure if miscarriage, chemical pregnancy and blood clot in any way connected. Had erpc as said so I guess this cycle starts afresh!

Desperately want to be pregnant again, can't bear the thought of due date coming around, I know this won't take away sadness of now but feel will help!

Good luck for your BFP!!!!

shelleylu · Oct 8th, 2008, 10:37 AM

I have a son who is 6, so it all feels a million miles away! I didnt ttc with him, so have never really been in this boat before.

I was gutted when I mc last month. I had a weird belly button pulling thing yesterday and had sickness for a couple of days, so done a test - but got a BFN

Have another test ready to do later in the week/month - or whenever Im feeling brave enough!!

Reading some of these posts makes me so sad sometimes. Some women try so hard, and go through terrible experiences and still stay chilled out and giggle about life. I take my hats off to them, because the last couple of months have been bloody awful..

Fingers crossed for us all this month. Please keep me posted on how you all get on!!!!!

xxx

Visqueen · Oct 8th, 2008, 10:46 AM

Im pretty much same i had a mmc at 11weeks in April then had d&c then got af 29 days later . I now have a normal cycle of 25/26 days but been ttc but having no luck this time. Got caught the 1st month back in Jan.

Good luck.

Oct 7th, 2008, 11:17 AM	#1
shelleylu Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Birmingham Posts: 882	New to TTC after mc. Scared, and excited!! Hi Girls. I am new to ttc, after having a MC at 10 weeks a month ago (11sept) I had an ERPC as it was caught at a routine scan (no bleeding beforehand etc) I just wondered how long it takes to get a bfp?! I know everyone is different - I havent had my first af since the mc yet - so I know its very naughty to try before, but we have been.... I have had some very odd symptoms the last day or so. I feel so sick sitting here writing this! I went and got 2 pg tests today but Im too scared to use one - and I think it might have been too soon to catch anyway. Basically, there's so much information around, and so many things to read - I'd just like to talk to someone who has been through something similar. Any advice would be lovely x Shelley x

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Oct 7th, 2008, 11:22 AM	#2
stressederic Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Wales, UK Posts: 85	Hi, just wanted to say know how you're feeling I too had erpc after missed miscarriage sept 4 I was 9 weeks, had previously seen a heartbeat and was devastated had AF start saturday so took 30 days now keen also to try again Heres for our

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Oct 7th, 2008, 11:24 AM	#3
shelleylu Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Birmingham Posts: 882	Fingers crossed for us!! xx

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Oct 7th, 2008, 11:34 AM	#4
honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,682	hi ya n welcome 2 bnb i had a mc in mar08...had a d&c and got my first af 2may and we started ttc since then with still no luck...yet! ive strangley starting aving cycles that were 30days...to cycle goin 30-38-30-38 this has how it has been since june, this is why ive had cd21 tests done, they think ive low estrogen from another test i had 4 somat eles, i think i only O everyother mth ,so praying when i get this sorted i wont be waiting 2long for my bfp,,,was this ur first bfp?

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Oct 7th, 2008, 11:38 AM	#5
doc123 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: london Posts: 551	i'm joining you too!!! Am ttc cd13 today.. after 11 weeks twin loss...its all scary but you will be ok-there is no good time and there is no common thing which happens after mc.. if only it was so straight forward!!!!!!.. maybe you are pg already!!! take the test then at least you'll have some idea..yoou may have managed it again already!!!!!!!!! good luck either way and let us know how you are getting on girl...

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Oct 7th, 2008, 11:42 AM	#6
stressederic Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Wales, UK Posts: 85	I have 2 kids, girl 9 and boy 8. I think also had chemical pregnancy the month before conceiving this time and having miscarried. Had implanon removed end march this year. When I had a scan at 7 weeks due to spotting there was heartbeat but also blood clot in uterus, I haven't had any follow up as yet so am unsure if miscarriage, chemical pregnancy and blood clot in any way connected. Had erpc as said so I guess this cycle starts afresh! Desperately want to be pregnant again, can't bear the thought of due date coming around, I know this won't take away sadness of now but feel will help! Good luck for your BFP!!!!

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Oct 8th, 2008, 10:37 AM	#7
shelleylu Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Birmingham Posts: 882	I have a son who is 6, so it all feels a million miles away! I didnt ttc with him, so have never really been in this boat before. I was gutted when I mc last month. I had a weird belly button pulling thing yesterday and had sickness for a couple of days, so done a test - but got a BFN Have another test ready to do later in the week/month - or whenever Im feeling brave enough!! Reading some of these posts makes me so sad sometimes. Some women try so hard, and go through terrible experiences and still stay chilled out and giggle about life. I take my hats off to them, because the last couple of months have been bloody awful.. Fingers crossed for us all this month. Please keep me posted on how you all get on!!!!! xxx

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Oct 8th, 2008, 10:46 AM	#8
Visqueen Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 707	Im pretty much same i had a mmc at 11weeks in April then had d&c then got af 29 days later . I now have a normal cycle of 25/26 days but been ttc but having no luck this time. Got caught the 1st month back in Jan. Good luck.

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