wishingonastar

Hey girlies,
just wondered how many others out there are excited, but a little scared at TTC... I've spent so long telling myself that I have to wait to start a family that now my OH and I are TTC it feels quite surreal, but obviously in a good way!

We had been planning it for two years time, but my maternal instincts have been so strong that I asked how he'd feel about trying now instead and although the thought of becoming a dad is something he wants, it scares the life out of him so I was amazed he agreed to try now!

It feels so wierd to be planning a pregnancy rather than simply 'letting it happen' and its strange to find myself buying baby bits and talking about when i'm pregnant or when the baby gets here even before I have a baby in me!!

When I read up about conceiving it scared the life out of me too when I found out it can be such an uphill struggle!

This whole thing is a scary but hugely exciting process! Have already bought ten tests off ebay and wasted one 'trying it out' even though i knew it wouldn't be a Can't believe how obsessive babies make you!

Here's some babydust for all of us who are TTC

celine

Welcome wishingonastar
Yea the thought of really planning from a to b as opposed to let it happen au naturale is odd, but you get to meets loads of crazies like us along the way and get to share so much, sometimes i think my hubbs doesnt REALLY wanna know about my cervical mucous but the ladies here are also exited about that kinda stuff

nellis10

Somehow I think you are going to fit in really well here.....

I love the early POAS action already!!! Welcome to the club of mad TTCers!!!

wishingonastar

ha ha thanks guys!!! discovered this site yesterday and have to say i'm liking the openess cos you're right...my bloke definately does not want to know about my CM!!! lol

i remember the other day he got a little concerned that i was only gonna pounce on him when i was ovulating so i had to reassure him it would be a steady supply of BD through the month! lol

nellis10

LOL you say that NOW...wait till you really get into this obsession and you only wnat his spermals when its the right time....just in case you use them all up!!! You will be surprised at how obsessive we all become...lol

wishingonastar

lol!!!

Hansie

Hi and welcome I am also excited about TTC and am also pleased I have someone to discuss cm with lol My hubby said if I montioned it again there would be no BD.......ever again Lots of luck TTC xxx

wishingonastar

ha ha hansie! i noticed i had cm the other day after i had tried to jump my OH's bones, then when i told him later that day i had noticed the CM he got all huffy and said he felt used! i shall not make the mistake of mentioning body signals to him again for fear of him taking away BD as punishment! lol

kaygeebee

welcome wishingonastar!

Glad you're feeling positive about the journey - I keep having to tell myself it's supposed to be FUN!!