Thank you everyone, I will still be lurking, but wont be trying this month.
And babiiblu, I'm gunna have to leave it to my mum, as she's ringing tonight, as she's in spain until the 26th, with stepdad and sister, so I'm gunna have to tell her that she's buried in the garden

my 16yr old bro had to dig the hole and he was crying as he did it.
Just so upsetting, she was obviously part of the family