babiiblu

I am so on the same page as Happy Mum.....in fact I posted last week or so saying that we were taking a break from trying. It is so stressful!!! Its good tho that we can laugh at ourselves about it and know how obsessive we are!

happy mum

we're gonna get a bfp cos were relaxed about it!!! some pma it'll happen. anyway its a good part mid month lots sex!!!

porkypig

That's true, it's time lol xxxx

jerseyshoregirl

I am only 1dpo and there is absolute no way I will *not* obsess this month!

Our first time TTC I got a .
Sadly, the pregnancy ended in a natural m/c at 8wk4d.
But we are back in the game and I am feeling as hopeful as ever!

I will mentally and physically record every little thing that closely resembles a symptom...I have decided just not to share with anyone else but you wonderful ladies

to everyone!!
JM

porkypig

Same here hun, we haven't told anyone we are ttc so it's only me, my dh and you girlies xxxx

TrixieLox

Yep, I am fed up with symptom-spotting and all things TTC-related. The proof of it lies in the complete lacks of posts I've made on BnB lately - I used to be a proper regular. I've kinda lost the fight and am certainly not symptom spotting this cycle, just waiting for the big ol' witch to roll on by.

I do read newbies talking with hope about their symptoms and good for them, they're still in the wonderful first throes of TTC excitement. But by the time you get to my spage - nearly a year of trying - it kinda loses its appeal ;-)

Omi

I second everything Trix says..i feel ive been there, done that tbh. Ive had every symptom under the sun, trust me on this one- even so that oh was convinced i was pg..but eff all, zippo, no bfp, lol!

I have learned the bitter and hard way- as my ticker says- there are no symptoms but a bfp. God, i wish there was Once pg, i think its much easier to see symptoms -otherwise its just cruel, cruel, cruel body playing you a trick, and the longer you're in this the more sinister the game becomes...yes ladies..if you;re anything like me...with time symptom spotting becomes ingrained and you start subconciously noticing symptoms even (!) when having a period..wtf?

So - no..i try not to read into anything..after all..any symptom you have could just be the dreaded 'p' word Grrrr

The witch must die!!!

, Omi xxx

ktsl123

It is my second month ttc but I have a journal that I had been keeping before ttc with my Af symptoms and I have 3 months of that. In which it is all so inconsistent!
Sometimes my boobs hurt right after ov sometimes only right before af and sometimes I have a lot of cervical discharge all the way until the day before af comes and sometimes I am totally dry right after ov. Sometimes my cervical position is high and soft until the day af comes and sometimes low and hard right after ov. Sometimes I have lots of cramping and sometimes almost none.

I just have to wait until at least 12dpo to test otherwise it is a waste of money.
I can't wait till I get a positive I know I will cries my eyes out because I will finally feel like I am lucky enough to have my own child. I am sick and tired of watching everyone else get to be Mom. Sometimes I get mad inside toward my husband because he wouldn't let us try earlier. Sometimes I just get plain mad because my husband failed to get me pregnant.

I wish I wish I wish I got pregnant on accident because I hate hate hate TTC !!!!it totally sux! I consider those people that ttc on accident lucky!!!

shoeshopper

i managed my last 2ww without doing any sympton spotting, probably beacuse i have convinced myself that i will never get pregnent so why look for the signs!! and actually the 2ww went quicker not thinking about it so its worth a try!