BDing gone wrong!!!!!!

jaytee · Sep 11th, 2008, 09:12 AM

Yesterday out of no where I got another positive OPK. I was having cramping all day so I guess Im ovulating today.

Well last night we tried but DH wasn't very into it and got soft!

Then he was upset with himself because he knew how important is it to BD!!!

So then this morning we tried again and after 1/2 hour NOTHING!!!!!! soft again

Maybe its just not meant for us to get pregnant!

Do you think that I can still have a chance tonight and tomorrow if we BD?

My temp dropped today so today should be O day right?

Pux · Sep 11th, 2008, 09:18 AM

Looking at the chart with the temps, it looks like o-day was tuesday, which also looks like you did enough bding to catch it there.

I can relate to the "soft" story, I had that happen last week. But we fixed it. I mean there's nothing wrong with watching a little porn at 6am (if my neighbours can hear, they must think we're mad!!!)

littlemansmum · Sep 11th, 2008, 09:20 AM

Awww honey, i'm sorry i can offer nothing more than hugs, but huge hugs for you, and i am sure that you will get your BFP, i don't think it's that it's not meant to happen for you. Maybe he just feels a bit pressured, my DH suffers with back trouble and he can be well up for it, but nothin happens or we can be bding and just before the crucial moment, his back goes and it's all over, so i kinda know how you feel. Try to keep your chin up, you'll get there, i'm sure of it x

jaytee · Sep 11th, 2008, 09:28 AM

Thankx girls! I also thought that ovulation was on cd 10 because of the sudden drop in temp. I'm hoping it was. The thing is that yesterdays OPK was so positive however yesterday and today my cervix is low, closed and firm. So thats defin. not ovulation sign. lol

OHHHH the madness of TTC I just can't wait to cd 28 where I can test for my

Due to me taking clomid cd 2-6 ovulation around cd10-12 would be right.

SJK · Sep 11th, 2008, 09:34 AM

hope you caught it on time xx good luck xx

honey08 · Sep 11th, 2008, 13:04 PM

dont be saying "not ment 2 get pg!" this happens 2 every1 im sure,well i know it has me a few times....wot i use 2 do id get a pos opk and say right gary c'mon bedrm..now, and its to much stress and pressure 4 them,gary cudnt either get an erection of cudnt finish...then he knew i was upset about it etc and it just goes round it a circle!
but now,i dont show him any pos opk,i bd just b4 i think im guna get one..maybe 3-4days away,then again when i get a pos opk,but i never tell him,and anyway if this did happen again in the future,i m guna do my best n be fine with it cos its so much pressure!!! also i always have a couple bd in after O just2make sure he doesnt feel like bd means baby making

(if it was up2me i wud seriously bd every day!)

jaytee · Sep 11th, 2008, 15:18 PM

I'm never going to tell him when I get a positive okp! lol Hopefully if I get my BFP this cycle then I wouldn't need to worry about it. lol

**Chris77** · Sep 11th, 2008, 15:25 PM

Jaytee - keeping my fingers crossed for ya hun! Keep up a positive attitude - attitude has a lot to do with it too!!

Sep 11th, 2008, 09:12 AM	#1
jaytee Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: South New Jersey Posts: 804	BDing gone wrong!!!!!! Yesterday out of no where I got another positive OPK. I was having cramping all day so I guess Im ovulating today. Well last night we tried but DH wasn't very into it and got soft! Then he was upset with himself because he knew how important is it to BD!!! So then this morning we tried again and after 1/2 hour NOTHING!!!!!! soft again Maybe its just not meant for us to get pregnant! Do you think that I can still have a chance tonight and tomorrow if we BD? My temp dropped today so today should be O day right?

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Sep 11th, 2008, 09:18 AM	#2
Pux Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Calgary, Canada Posts: 1,420	Looking at the chart with the temps, it looks like o-day was tuesday, which also looks like you did enough bding to catch it there. I can relate to the "soft" story, I had that happen last week. But we fixed it. I mean there's nothing wrong with watching a little porn at 6am (if my neighbours can hear, they must think we're mad!!!)

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Sep 11th, 2008, 09:20 AM	#3
littlemansmum Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,210	Awww honey, i'm sorry i can offer nothing more than hugs, but huge hugs for you, and i am sure that you will get your BFP, i don't think it's that it's not meant to happen for you. Maybe he just feels a bit pressured, my DH suffers with back trouble and he can be well up for it, but nothin happens or we can be bding and just before the crucial moment, his back goes and it's all over, so i kinda know how you feel. Try to keep your chin up, you'll get there, i'm sure of it x

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Sep 11th, 2008, 09:28 AM	#4
jaytee Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: South New Jersey Posts: 804	Thankx girls! I also thought that ovulation was on cd 10 because of the sudden drop in temp. I'm hoping it was. The thing is that yesterdays OPK was so positive however yesterday and today my cervix is low, closed and firm. So thats defin. not ovulation sign. lol OHHHH the madness of TTC I just can't wait to cd 28 where I can test for my Due to me taking clomid cd 2-6 ovulation around cd10-12 would be right.

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Sep 11th, 2008, 09:34 AM	#5
SJK Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: U.K Posts: 4,039	hope you caught it on time xx good luck xx

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honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,667	dont be saying "not ment 2 get pg!" this happens 2 every1 im sure,well i know it has me a few times....wot i use 2 do id get a pos opk and say right gary c'mon bedrm..now, and its to much stress and pressure 4 them,gary cudnt either get an erection of cudnt finish...then he knew i was upset about it etc and it just goes round it a circle! but now,i dont show him any pos opk,i bd just b4 i think im guna get one..maybe 3-4days away,then again when i get a pos opk,but i never tell him,and anyway if this did happen again in the future,i m guna do my best n be fine with it cos its so much pressure!!! also i always have a couple bd in after O just2make sure he doesnt feel like bd means baby making (if it was up2me i wud seriously bd every day!)

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Sep 11th, 2008, 15:18 PM	#7
jaytee Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: South New Jersey Posts: 804	I'm never going to tell him when I get a positive okp! lol Hopefully if I get my BFP this cycle then I wouldn't need to worry about it. lol

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Sep 11th, 2008, 15:25 PM	#8
Chris77 Trying to conceive (TTC) BabyandBump Team Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: New York, USA Posts: 40,545	Jaytee - keeping my fingers crossed for ya hun! Keep up a positive attitude - attitude has a lot to do with it too!!
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