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Sep 11th, 2008, 14:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | same here, we have had heated discussions over this, but hes says hes tired! when it used to be me who said that!!! Men for u xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 11th, 2008, 14:24 PM
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#12 | | Hoping for a first BFP Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | really....my OH hasnt been like this yet, he just wants it more and more which i have been fine with but this last week i have lost my mojo....maybe coz this cycle is dragging out and i'm stressed but i normally want it all the time  hope it doesnt carry on like this |
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Sep 11th, 2008, 14:56 PM
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#13 | | TTC#1 after mc Aug 08 Active BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | You just have to keep suprising him - DH said he was feeling the pressure to perform so much that he was putting off going to be in the hope I would fall asleep first! So I just started jumping on him at random times of the day, like as soon as were home form work or getting in the shower with him in the morning. I also found that walking around in my sexiest underwear more has meant that he is jumping on me instead.
A friend recommended that I wait until he is dozing off to sleep then wake him up - sorry for tmi but that was some of the hottest sex we've had in ages! I'll definately be trying that agin next time he says he isn't interested!! |
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Sep 11th, 2008, 15:09 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | good idea! |
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Sep 11th, 2008, 15:19 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | OMG  I just postread titled BDing Gone Wrong and its about this subject!
My dh is getting very fustrated with bding and doing it when it time. I'm ovulating today and he couldn't perform last night or this morning and after breakfast he came up to me and hugged me and said "I know your mad at me and I'm sooo very sorry"
But I'm not mad at him. Its not their fault. Sometimes it just gets hard. I seriously believe now that when its time to get pregnant you n have to try! God will grant us our wishes when it time.  |
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Sep 11th, 2008, 21:56 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Yup, DF can get a bit 'off' about it all, like I'm pestering, yet he knows we need to ....
Poor guy cannot be fun when asked to perform on demand!
Particularly when its mid week and he's manic at work so is tired at home. |
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Sep 11th, 2008, 23:05 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My hubby and I BDed from the end of AF right through every night (Sometimes more than once) but the DAY after I OV'ed.. he went MIA when it came to sex!! I was confused!! I am like, ' I want to make this fun for both of us and not just a job" but he must have thought after the egg was gone and we were in the 2ww that he was done with, Lol. | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 12th, 2008, 00:07 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hi, I also want to introduce into this chain us women. Do you all not find it hard to enjoy the BD? I read somewhere that if you can O it will help the sperm go up. Any advice?  | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 12th, 2008, 00:33 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | If I approach it as "we have to now cuz it's THAT TIME" then he feels like a monkey being told to perform. Otherwise he's "guy" enough that he's stoked to get it and I just have to be frisky/playful enough. | | | | Status: Offline
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Sep 12th, 2008, 00:46 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My OH never seems to want it and we aren't even actually trying yet, god knows how difficult it'll be when we are. I hope you don't mind my contribution, i'm just hoping i can use some of the tips off here to help him get interested. xx |
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