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Old Aug 29th, 2008, 22:54 PM   #1
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I'm so scared.. TMI.


OH and I were just having sex and all was fine.. but then he suddenly thrust so hard soo deep that it felt like he actually went right through something!! I almost passed out from the pain and cried my eyes out from it. I'm not bleeding or anything but when I checked, I couldn't feel my cervix or anything, maybe it's gone really high up? I'm not sure, but this has never happened during sex before and it was excrutiating!! I'm now really scared of having sex incase it happens again. It hurt so much
Poor OH feels terrible that he hurt me.

I'm so scared what he hit though.
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Old Aug 29th, 2008, 23:01 PM   #2
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u need 2phone doc or family planning asap and ask if its possible 2do damage ,,,think of them pp that r in2 bondage and av alsorts up them selfs!! if u werent bleeding or out i think u shud be ok....but u defo need2speek 2 a pro,my x did somat like this2me once doin it "doggy" and i was in a lot of pain,but not as much as u sound2be pls pls get intouch with a pro n update me on it GL
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Old Aug 29th, 2008, 23:07 PM   #3
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Oh honey!

I had a similar thing with my OH and it was so sore I thought I was gonna pass out!

I think he thrust so hard he pushed my uterus and cervix up

After a bit the pain went. I didnt have bleeding either.

I would say if your sill sore in a bit it wouldnt do any harm to get checked out to put your mnd at rest. A quick examination by a doc should be all it would take.



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Old Aug 29th, 2008, 23:25 PM   #4
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Thanks girls, you've reassured me about it. It scared me so much, I'm still shaking. At the time of the pain I remember thinking 'This pain must be worse than labour' That's how bad it was
Of course, I don't know how painful labour is yet though.
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Did you two get sharp pains shooting up there afterwards? I keep getting it and it feels sore to walk. I'm so so worried.
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I did have some sharp pains for a day after on and off when I sat or stood up.

But after a day it seemed to dissapear.

My thought after this was if this is what labour is like I will be taking all the drugs I can! I seriously thought I was a gonner that day!

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Never had this experience, but you girls are now making me worried about having sex again! It sounds horrible =/

If it does still hurt tomorrow it probably couldn't hurt going to see your GP. I wouldn't recommend going to A&E as they're crap (I have a lot of friends working in the hospital) and won't do you any good anyway. That is, unless things don't get better at all then of course it can't hurt just to set your mind at ease. The NHS help line takes forever to get through most of the time, but I've found they're actually very nice and helpful on the phone and they'll probably put you through to a doctor who should be able to tell you what happened. I'd suggest giving them a ring if you're still in pain/worried.
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Old Aug 30th, 2008, 00:32 AM   #8
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Oh you poor girl.........

I am sure this has happened to most of us....... some worse then others. I bet he hit your cervix and probably bruised it or something.
Don't be embarassed to goto your Dr about this problem.
If the pain was that bad I would go for sure. Probably nothing to worry about.....but we have enough to worry about without a bruised cervix to go with it..haha

I know some sex shops sell a donut type ring to STOP deep thrusting....
when your Va-JayJay is healed I would make one for sure.
Tell him to slow it downand pay attention next time
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Old Aug 30th, 2008, 00:54 AM   #9
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Haha Too true! I think I may have to get one of those!!

Thanks all of you <3
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Lyrah HOPE UR OK 2DAY??? i knocked gary bk last night,thinking of ur experience n mine a long time ago!! he werent impressed,will tell him why 2day,thing is he NEVER asked me for BD either,n ive gone n done thathe b ok!

i did have some pain,maybe even4few days,but i'd spoke2 a doc on phone that said if i werent bleeding and the pain doesnt carry on i be fine(this was 4yr ago...wont ever4get it tho!)

u shud defo at least phone some...gp, FPC but im sure uv nothing 2woory about,keep us updated though,u be fine
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