tickledpink

Me and my OH have been together for over 9 years, we've been engaged for 8 years and in April this year, we finally decided to set a date for the wedding... 19th September 2009. Now... I don't know where it came from, but when we got up this morning the OH started to talk about our wedding. He said we seriously had to think about putting things on hold the closer we get to the wedding day. He doesn't mind me being a 'fat bride' as long as I'm pregnant... that's good of him lol. But he said knowing our luck, I'll fall pregnant, give birth on our wedding day and we'll have to cancel the honeymoon.... we've just booked and paid £2,000 upfront for two weeks in the Dom/Republic. I know he's right, but I don't want to stop trying.... what if those few months we stop trying are 'our months'??? I'm due to start acupuncture in October or November to help my cycles become regular. I'm supposed to try it for 6 to 8 weeks, but if that's the case, I'll have to cancel as we will have to stop trying from around November/December up until March/April and it just doesn't seem worth it. I know we still have a couple of chances before seriously have to stop TTC but now I'm feeling... geez i don't know how i feel anymore...

Debbie82

Aaaww tickled I really feel for you and know how you are feeling.

If I don't get my this month then I will need to put TTC on hold too.

We too are getting married next year and whilst I don't mind being pregnant I don't want to be full term so can't start TTC until December again which makes the past few months feel a waste.

Maybe the wedding will be a nice distraction from TTC and will give a rest from the stress and upset TTC can bring.

Also what I have tried to convince myself is that the months I will stop TTC won't be my months anyway and the first month I go back to TTC I will get a and will be glad of the months of not symptom spotting, waiting for etc

Try to think of your honeymoon as your last holiday as just the 2 of you before you have beautiful baby dictating where you go, when you go etc.

aflight84

i think it will be a nice break for you. enjoy planning your wedding - take your mind off ttc but don't stop completely and you never know you might just get lucky. what a wedding pressie!

Visqueen

We have just been talking about getting married to but i dont want to stop TTC either. Call me greedy but I WANT BOTH

tansey

I am on my 7th cycle since my MC and we are getting married in Feb - if i get my this month i will be nearly 6months and probably not fit in my dress but we are still going ahead. I will be sad as i love my dress but as each month passes and i don't get a i am sadder in case it never happens.

Chris77

Oh Tickled I'm sorry! But this may be a nice break for you. It goes by sooooooo quickly too! You still have a couple more chances to get your before your wedding though!

Good luck.