ktsl123

So today I got to thinking. I really had beaten myself up over all this. It felt good though lol I had to let it all out.

I just realized that whenever it happens for me it happens and getting all stressed and nutty is not going to change anything except maybe my cycles! So I need to stop myself from letting my imagination wonder and my feelings from getting out of control.
I am going to do everything as best as I could to make it happen and that is that, it's all I can do. I will allow myself to cry again every month if need be though.
I need to be positive and that is most important.

snowbrdbella8

PMA that is a good way to think of it.. just take one day at a time, and just hang in there... i'm sorry your upset, can't promise it will happen next month, just keep doing what your doing, that eggie cant hide forever

Mynxie

sending you a I'd like to be able to say that it gets easier, but if I'm honest it doesn't. I won't lie to you. Be optimistic though, it's your first month TTC, take a few month charting and stuff and hopefully a BFP will be easier to achieve

Arcanegirl

Not alot of people get bfps on the first month even if everything is perfect, my first IUI went perfectly well but no bfp, it took two goes at it.

You need to open yourself more to thinking that it could take a few months or longer. If you react like that each time you will destroy yourself.

Mynxie

I have to agree with Ag, - even if everything is fine, it's not uncommon for TTC to take upto a year (or longer) when things are perfect and there's no problems at all.

TTC is a very emotional and heart-wrenching journey - it takes alot out of you and some people really discover alot about themselves while TTC