Imi

Have a couple of months rest hun ... but have a chat with OH.
Only the two of you will know if your ready as a couple and as a family.
Good luck with everything ... only you can make this decsion and i belive there is no right or wrong answer.
xxx

Amanda

We've been actively trying for another since Charlie was born, and I am absolutely gutted that he is 6 months and I'm still not pg.

It is definitely a matter of personal choice hun. I had a 13 year gap between my first 2 , and I wanted less than a year between the next 2, but it's not worked out that way. My age is against me though, so we need to get in there quick!! I had severe SPD with Charlie, and I know it will be extremely hard when I do get pg again, and I have an awful mum-tum, which is really getting me down. But, these are tiny little things in comparison to bringing another little person into this world. Lets face it - the SPD should not kick in until about 20 weeks at least, then I will get an early section at 37 weeks, so thats only 17 weeks of agony for a lifetime of love!

When is AF due for you hun? I think for your sanity you need to know.

Tam

Hi Amanda,

I have no idea when AF is due before being pg I was due around the 25th of each month with a 28 day cycle, but obviously I have not had one since having Alfie, so I have no idea where I am?

With the last pregnancy I had hyperemesis which kicked in at week 9-10, and only disappeared within the last week, week 11 the SPD kicked in and lasted til last week, week 13 I had a threatened MC and bled for 3-4 weeks.....it was no fun on the whole, but when I felt OK, I loved being PG

I think given the fact I have been immobile for the best part of 18 months I think it really would be wise to wait a bit and enjoy my time with Jade and Alfie.....it would only take one hour of pain with the SPD and I think I would go insane it is nice feeling human again, so I think we will wait for a bit and just enjoy life as it is for now

Thank you for all of your opinions girls, they really did help as you have been with me thru out the pregnancy so you have an idea of what I have been thru!

Tam x

Wobbles

I'm so glad you are taking a break Tam tbh an all for the right reasons. Get a bit of you back first & enjoy your little family that will soon extend.

Hair down a little first huh?

ImTheDaddy

Oi Wibble!!!

Hands off my sex life!!!! (If you'll pardon the pun!!!)



I defo would prefer to wait a couple of years for the next one but TBH if she fell then so be it.

I am quite easy really! In every sense

Suz

Well I for one would like to have a drunken 3 way with Wobbles and Tam and
Tam cant do that preg. So I for one am glad you are waiting!






(heehheee) DIRTY PEOPLE...Im talking about a chat on MSN....Get your heads out of the gutters.

ImTheDaddy

Suz

Tam

you nutters!!

OK sold, I will be up for a good old drink next weekend (as this weekend I will still be on antibiotics )

Bought time I had a good old drink and a giggle with you girls late at night again......is it a date girls? x

Wobbles

Well of course Paul but if it's not too late already put his warmer on goodness sake

As for the rest of this thread I didn't get chance to read it