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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 08:53 AM   #11
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There is proabably nothing I can say that will make you feel any better at the moment but please know you will look back on this one day and think ' what the hell was I doing with him?'. I kissed (and lived with) a few toads before I ended up with my DH who is amazing. When I look back at some of my past realtionships (some who didn't treat me very nice either) I wonder what was going through my head at the time. Be kind to yourself, gather up your family and friends for a bit of support whilst you get your ju jus back. I hope you feel better soon XXX
I can only second this. In time, you will feel a whole lot better about it - its on old cliche but time does relly help. When you are ready you will move on and look back and think phew - lucky escape!

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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 09:05 AM   #12
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Sorry. You will find Mr Right and you will have a baby. I believe in the bigger picture and there's a reason why you haven't got pregnant with him and I'm sure you'll see that in the future. It doesn't help now, I'm sure, but you'll get through this.x
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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 09:41 AM   #13
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Im so sorry hun
he definatly didnt deserve u or a baby
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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 10:30 AM   #14
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so sorry hun
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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 16:28 PM   #15
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I'm so sorry sweetie

You deserve better than that and you are probably better off without him.

Things will be odd for a little while but give it time and everything will start to look up again and you will find the strength in yourself and be able to smile.

Stay strong hun

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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 16:45 PM   #16
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Hmmm... sounds like he must have been born in Edmonton. That's where all the jerks come from (just joking. can't help the old "Battle of Alberta" rivalry)
It's Karma's way of saying that there's someone else better out there for you.
Umm... I believe that all the jerks in Edmonton migrated from Calgary


Sorry to hear that your hurting hon.
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Old Aug 20th, 2008, 20:25 PM   #17
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There is proabably nothing I can say that will make you feel any better at the moment but please know you will look back on this one day and think ' what the hell was I doing with him?'. I kissed (and lived with) a few toads before I ended up with my DH who is amazing. When I look back at some of my past realtionships (some who didn't treat me very nice either) I wonder what was going through my head at the time. Be kind to yourself, gather up your family and friends for a bit of support whilst you get your ju jus back. I hope you feel better soon XXX
I can only second this. In time, you will feel a whole lot better about it - its on old cliche but time does relly help. When you are ready you will move on and look back and think phew - lucky escape!

Take care
I can only 'third' (? this- i too have had the good fortune to be able to look back and say 'thank god i escaped that one'. And having spent many a moment thinking 'why me? why arent i loveable? why am i being treated like dirt? why, why?' i stumbled across the love of my life and i cannot believe i sat crying about these tossers!

Of course this will mean nothing to you now....but i promise you it will!!

As mentioned, be kind of yourself, get a valued friend and a bottle of wine (or similar a jumbo bag of crisps/ tub of icecream and get the worst of it out of your system..you'll feel a little drained but releaved to get it off your chest. And then...slowly but surely the fog will lift.

One day at a time, chicken..one step at a time..you will make it and you will have all that your heart desires soon!!

Mahoosive , Omi xxx
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