Dumb computer crashed, and had to be repaired. Unfortunately, it took FOREVER.
Tested last tuesday, negative.
AF arrived, 11 days late, on friday. Lighter than normal, and i didnt get any cramps... my back was just sore.
Unsure of what this means... but me and OH are being optimistic, and we're tryin again as though this were a normal cycle
good luck and babydust to all, and thx for all the support!