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Aug 5th, 2008, 00:48 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Poll: Would *you* wait??? Engaged to be married, just had m/c on 16 July
Hi everyone!
My situation.
37 years old.
Engaged to be married.
Meeting with priest on Saturday to find out available ceremony dates.
Thinking mid-late October.
Just suffered early m/c in mid-July.
As much as I want to TTC again right away, I am considering waiting until *after* we get married in case I m/c again.
Is my biological clock of a couple months a reason we shouldn't wait (our original reason for TTC before getting married in the 1st place)?
Would love to know what *you* would do in my shoes!
Call me Chicken Little? :/ |
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Aug 5th, 2008, 00:52 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | oooh tough one... october is not to far awayso if you did fall straight away it wouldnt be a disaster... on my wedding i couldnt eat or drink a thing anyway so getting drunk wasnt a problem.. Plus... im sure the wedding could be delayed if u wanted to.. but i'd say go for it 
Is your cycle back to normal now? |
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Aug 5th, 2008, 00:54 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | oi Chicken Little  I say go for it hun! Sorry for your loss  I think you should go ahead and book the wedding | | | | Status: Offline
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Aug 5th, 2008, 00:57 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Book the wedding girlie!!! and keep  too!!! |
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Aug 5th, 2008, 01:42 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I agree book the wedding and keep
PS I'm so sorry for your loss. |
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Aug 5th, 2008, 02:33 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I say, have your cake and eat it too!!! Worst case, you'll be 2mths pg and who says that's a bad thing.
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Aug 5th, 2008, 02:35 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i say book the wedding and too!!!
yu never know a  on your wedding day.... extra special |
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Aug 5th, 2008, 02:37 AM
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Aug 5th, 2008, 07:28 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | im getting married in october and im nearly 5 weeks pg. We fell really quickly and ill be 16 weeks by the wedding if all goes well. I decided that if im going to M/C then ill still have the wedding to focus on and if all goes well, ill be 16 weeks by the wedding, so ill have a bit of a bump but any chance of illness or mc should be well over by then.
I say go for it. Yes the worst could happen again, but at the end of the day you cant put your life on hold, especially if you feel time is passing you by.
You never know - it could all work and and 3 of you could be going on your honeymoon! x x |
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Aug 5th, 2008, 08:38 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Well I have to say I got married in April and I was 6 weeks pregnant on my wedding day, it made it so special and it was great, we lost the baby a month later but it doesn't change our memories of the day!!
I am sorry for your loss hun and good luck with the choice you make xxx |
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