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Aug 4th, 2008, 20:36 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I feel so selfish, but cant help it! Ok, Im probably going to sound really selfish as there are so many ladies on here trying for their first and have had more m/c's than me but I feel so frustrated! 
I think I have become unhealthily obsessed with this ttc lark and its all i think about. I already have 3 great children who'm I love dearly but I sooo want another baby.
I was gutted after the first m/c but I was totally crushed after the 2nd and still am if truth be known 
To make matters worse, i dont even think I am going to ovulate this month as I have o'd on cd 22 in the past and im now on cd 25 and have 13 bloody high readings on my cbfm so far!   EWCM since cd 11 and no sign of o!
I know I should give my body time to recover and I think I am mentally ready, although a little obsessed, lol.
Why cant I just bloody well ovulate so we can try for lucky number 3!!!    
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Aug 4th, 2008, 20:38 PM
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Aug 4th, 2008, 20:40 PM
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Aug 4th, 2008, 21:02 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Wow Jacqui you and are the same, we were trying for our fourth and have had 2 m/c this year, the last was June. I didn't think I was oving but I have had my  today so I got pregnant in June just one cycle after the m/c. Your m/c was only 3 weeks ago wasn't it hun??
Be patient and just keep doing the dtd and then if you get your af try properly next month but don't panic hun, your time will come and I understand the desire for a fourth, I am the same hun xxx
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Aug 4th, 2008, 21:03 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Awww dont feel selfish for wanting another baby  Hope that you start to feel better soon hun. |
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Originally Posted by Logiebear Wow Jacqui you and are the same, we were trying for our fourth and have had 2 m/c this year, the last was June. I didn't think I was oving but I have had my  today so I got pregnant in June just one cycle after the m/c. Your m/c was only 3 weeks ago wasn't it hun??
Be patient and just keep doing the dtd and then if you get your af try properly next month but don't panic hun, your time will come and I understand the desire for a fourth, I am the same hun xxx
Pm me if you want to chat xxx | Thanks Logie, congrats on your bfp sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
I think I am just being impatient. I'm due to go on holiday on 22nd sept and I wanted to get pg asap so I would be around 10/11 weeks when I went, but if i dont catch this month then I have to wait until I get back and I dont wanna! 
This is getting to me more! |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I was the same as logi i had my M/MC two weeks bleeding after DNC and then was pregnant 6 weeks after the DNC. I hope you get your BFP soon. I too am still upset about my mc after 4 years i cant bring my self to visit the mc section on here. Hope things get better for you soon xxx |
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