Lazy Leo

It looks like my m/c has screwed my cycle after all. I was hoping everything would return to normal quickly but it hasn't. It's two weeks since my last period and I normally ovulate between day 12 and 14. But according to my temps and bloody expensive OPK's that I've been using twice a day since CD10 there's nothing.
I'm floating between:

a) incredibly brassed off
b) resigned and fed up
c) hopeful and believing that things always work out for the best in the long run

I'm just so tired of the whole thing. Part of me is questioning if I shoud just give up and accept I'm not meant to have a baby at the moment for some reason or another. It's totally out of my control so why put myself through all this?

Suzanne

Oh sweetheart I know it must be disheartening at times but dont give up! Im sure your time will come, maybe take a break from things for a little while and who knows it might just happen without you even trying!

honey08

oh nic....ive been feeling the exact same latley, n just thinking is this really all worth it!! i had a mc and had a d&c on march26/08 , my periods use to be like clockwrk, i dont think i got a proper period till 2may and when my next after that came on the 30may,i thought oh grt im exactley 28cycle,how fab!! but then my next after that wasnt till 7july!!! so i was thinking oh gost im about 9days late,doin hpt after hpt,all neg of course,theres nothing worst either,no period and a bfn!!! this mth been first mth ive charted and done opk,i got pos opk on 15-16 and ff says i O on day 15,if this is right i should get period in 2days,i tested2day bfn,so now im just thinking if my period comes on time then surley my cycles must be bk2normal!!!! i know exactley how ur feeling ,but when im feeling like this i just remember how i felt in feb08 when i got a bfp!!n its keeping me going for now try stay pos nic x x

saraendepity

aww hun dont know really what to say, just hang in there that +ve opk may be just around the corner... lots of and hope you are feeling better soon

sara

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porkpie1981

tansey

It's difficult and frustrationg all this trying - and as each month passes i just feel like giving up like you!
would you consider forking out for a CBFM? i know i'm not pg with it yet but worth every penny. xx

Rumpskin

Try not to give up Nic. I know it is difficult darling but it will happen xxx

Farie

So sorry your body is not giving you an easy time of it your m/c might have pushed O back a few days? Is is possible you'll O late this cycle .. may be nearer CD20?
sweetie, thinking of you

Logiebear

When did you have your m/c Nic? I had mine in May and my cycle and is still back to normal, I don't think I have been oving and my opks have been negative too!! It takes time for your body to recover and although some women conceive quickly it's not the case for most

miel

don't give up hon