Still no sign of O

Lazy Leo · Aug 2nd, 2008, 06:58 AM

It looks like my m/c has screwed my cycle after all. I was hoping everything would return to normal quickly but it hasn't. It's two weeks since my last period and I normally ovulate between day 12 and 14. But according to my temps and bloody expensive OPK's that I've been using twice a day since CD10 there's nothing.
I'm floating between:

a) incredibly brassed off
b) resigned and fed up
c) hopeful and believing that things always work out for the best in the long run

I'm just so tired of the whole thing. Part of me is questioning if I shoud just give up and accept I'm not meant to have a baby at the moment for some reason or another. It's totally out of my control so why put myself through all this?

Suzanne · Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:07 AM

Oh sweetheart I know it must be disheartening at times but dont give up! Im sure your time will come, maybe take a break from things for a little while and who knows it might just happen without you even trying!

honey08 · Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:13 AM

oh nic....ive been feeling the exact same latley, n just thinking is this really all worth it!! i had a mc and had a d&c on march26/08 , my periods use to be like clockwrk, i dont think i got a proper period till 2may and when my next after that came on the 30may,i thought oh grt im exactley 28cycle,how fab!! but then my next after that wasnt till 7july!!! so i was thinking oh gost im about 9days late,doin hpt after hpt,all neg of course,theres nothing worst either,no period and a bfn!!! this mth been first mth ive charted and done opk,i got pos opk on 15-16 and ff says i O on day 15,if this is right i should get period in 2days,i tested2day bfn,so now im just thinking if my period comes on time then surley my cycles must be bk2normal!!!! i know exactley how ur feeling ,but when im feeling like this i just remember how i felt in feb08 when i got a bfp!!n its keeping me going for now

try stay pos nic x x

saraendepity · Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:14 AM

aww hun dont know really what to say, just hang in there that +ve opk may be just around the corner... lots of

and hope you are feeling better soon

sara

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

porkpie1981 · Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:47 AM

tansey · Aug 2nd, 2008, 11:16 AM

It's difficult and frustrationg all this trying - and as each month passes i just feel like giving up like you!
would you consider forking out for a CBFM? i know i'm not pg with it yet but worth every penny. xx

Rumpskin · Aug 2nd, 2008, 11:43 AM

Try not to give up Nic. I know it is difficult darling but it will happen xxx

Farie · Aug 2nd, 2008, 14:31 PM

So sorry your body is not giving you an easy time of it

your m/c might have pushed O back a few days? Is is possible you'll O late this cycle .. may be nearer CD20?

sweetie, thinking of you

Logiebear · Aug 2nd, 2008, 14:53 PM

When did you have your m/c Nic? I had mine in May and my cycle and is still back to normal, I don't think I have been oving and my opks have been negative too!! It takes time for your body to recover and although some women conceive quickly it's not the case for most

miel · Aug 2nd, 2008, 15:03 PM

don't give up hon

Aug 2nd, 2008, 06:58 AM	#1
Lazy Leo Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: UK Posts: 4,275	Still no sign of O It looks like my m/c has screwed my cycle after all. I was hoping everything would return to normal quickly but it hasn't. It's two weeks since my last period and I normally ovulate between day 12 and 14. But according to my temps and bloody expensive OPK's that I've been using twice a day since CD10 there's nothing. I'm floating between: a) incredibly brassed off b) resigned and fed up c) hopeful and believing that things always work out for the best in the long run I'm just so tired of the whole thing. Part of me is questioning if I shoud just give up and accept I'm not meant to have a baby at the moment for some reason or another. It's totally out of my control so why put myself through all this?

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:07 AM	#2
Suzanne Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Portsmouth UK Posts: 901	Oh sweetheart I know it must be disheartening at times but dont give up! Im sure your time will come, maybe take a break from things for a little while and who knows it might just happen without you even trying!

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:13 AM	#3
honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 28,667	oh nic....ive been feeling the exact same latley, n just thinking is this really all worth it!! i had a mc and had a d&c on march26/08 , my periods use to be like clockwrk, i dont think i got a proper period till 2may and when my next after that came on the 30may,i thought oh grt im exactley 28cycle,how fab!! but then my next after that wasnt till 7july!!! so i was thinking oh gost im about 9days late,doin hpt after hpt,all neg of course,theres nothing worst either,no period and a bfn!!! this mth been first mth ive charted and done opk,i got pos opk on 15-16 and ff says i O on day 15,if this is right i should get period in 2days,i tested2day bfn,so now im just thinking if my period comes on time then surley my cycles must be bk2normal!!!! i know exactley how ur feeling ,but when im feeling like this i just remember how i felt in feb08 when i got a bfp!!n its keeping me going for now try stay pos nic x x

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:14 AM	#4
saraendepity Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Co Durham Posts: 6,500	aww hun dont know really what to say, just hang in there that +ve opk may be just around the corner... lots of and hope you are feeling better soon sara xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 07:47 AM	#5
porkpie1981 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Belfast Posts: 9,107

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 11:16 AM	#6
tansey Other BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Warwickshire Posts: 20,525	It's difficult and frustrationg all this trying - and as each month passes i just feel like giving up like you! would you consider forking out for a CBFM? i know i'm not pg with it yet but worth every penny. xx

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 11:43 AM	#7
Rumpskin Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 7,261	Try not to give up Nic. I know it is difficult darling but it will happen xxx

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 14:31 PM	#8
Farie Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Land of the long white cloud Posts: 9,552	So sorry your body is not giving you an easy time of it your m/c might have pushed O back a few days? Is is possible you'll O late this cycle .. may be nearer CD20? sweetie, thinking of you

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 14:53 PM	#9
Logiebear Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Manchester, England Posts: 3,516	When did you have your m/c Nic? I had mine in May and my cycle and is still back to normal, I don't think I have been oving and my opks have been negative too!! It takes time for your body to recover and although some women conceive quickly it's not the case for most

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Aug 2nd, 2008, 15:03 PM	#10
miel Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: San Francisco, CA USA Posts: 11,039	don't give up hon

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