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Jul 17th, 2008, 23:19 PM
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|  OK, I've officially had enough (time 2 join the Broken Angel Club)
I've been TTCing for 10 months, trying all sorts of crazy stunts from handstands to the Sperm Meets Egg Plan to radicalising my diet.
At lunch today, I started spotting.
I don't have any more fight left in me.  I've had enough. No more 'trying'. We'll continue not using protection but that's all now. I know when I ovulate. If it happens, it happens. I'll visit the drs again in November to get more tests done, if need be. But until then, that's it.
There's no denying that something is a bit wrong cos there are girls who fall PG within 3-6 months. No matter what anyone says, there must be something going a teensy bit wrong somewhere. I might get there eventually but let's face it, my hubby and I are angels with slightly broken wings. Not sure of the extent of the break but there's something not right.
Sorry to be depressing but it really gets to you after 10 months of trying all you can to have a baby. Anyone wanna join the Broken Angels Club? x |
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Jul 17th, 2008, 23:38 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Hey Trix, lots of us have been trying a long time, please try not to get too down for too long. I hope this low period passes quickly for you. It's so tough when its the one thing you really really want. Unfortunately it's not something we can control. I wish I knew what to say to pick you up, but I don't, so I'm sending you some  and  as well |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i should have a prime seat on your club...like VIP !!!!
please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Jul 17th, 2008, 23:45 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | to all you girls. I cant imagine the frustration ttc brings for you. But please dont give up Trixie, maybe you should take a more relaxed attitude to it all, but thats rich coming from me...I sure couldnt!
You will get yours one day hunny, that I'm sure of...  |
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Jul 18th, 2008, 00:01 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | what more can we do? - totally know where you're from! |
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| Oh ladies!
I'm not going through your pain but can relate to your frustration of  in other aspects of my own life.
Sometimes it helps not to force the issue - like Miel said earlier today - have a break and just enjoy the  Don't stress yourself about it and if you need to go see a doctor - so be it.
It WILL come - I demand it for you ladies.
Thinking of you and sending you lots and lots of
Munchy x |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | we have to wait that luck come by by us very soon...
may be we could do a spell or something ?
anyone is a witch?
WITCH WANTED !!!! AND AF WITCH JOB IS NOT FOR YOU!!! WE WANT A NICE WITCH!!! |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | sorry you're feeling so low Trixie, I was feeling much the same when AF got me this time, like I didn't have any fight yet. I was at the doctor during the week for something totally unrelated but mentioned ttc and he said it's absolutely normal to not fall pg even after 18 months and I couldnt help but think that seeing as so many people I know fell during the first 3 months of trying, there must be something wrong....
But our time will come, I'm totally sure of that!!! Huge for you! |
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Originally Posted by TrixieLox  I've been TTCing for 10 months, trying all sorts of crazy stunts from handstands to the Sperm Meets Egg Plan to radicalising my diet.
At lunch today, I started spotting.
I don't have any more fight left in me. I've had enough. No more 'trying'. We'll continue not using protection but that's all now. I know when I ovulate. If it happens, it happens. I'll visit the drs again in November to get more tests done, if need be. But until then, that's it.
There's no denying that something is a bit wrong cos there are girls who fall PG within 3-6 months. No matter what anyone says, there must be something going a teensy bit wrong somewhere. I might get there eventually but let's face it, my hubby and I are angels with slightly broken wings. Not sure of the extent of the break but there's something not right.
Sorry to be depressing but it really gets to you after 10 months of trying all you can to have a baby. Anyone wanna join the Broken Angels Club? x |
I know how you feel. I am on cycle 10 as well.  |
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