Yvonne

Right.......
I'm getting broody again!

Good points....
I love babies
I love the experience of going into labour and the giving birth and the feelings afterwards
I know Andy wants more so i will have support

Bad points
-I suffer with SEVEAR spd when pregnant and it got worse with my 2nd pregnancy so will probably be really bad if i had a 3rd
-I have retained placenta with all pregnancies which results in infection and extra hospital trips etc
-I have problems getting babysitters now for 2 let alone 3
- and i heomerage(sp) after birth due to the retained placenta

Andy said if i really wanted to have another one then we could go private as i wouldn't trust my hospital again as far as i could throw them, which i would probably trust more

I just wondered if i am nuts for wanting another one with all the problems i have.
Please be honest

Arcanegirl

If you really want another and you feel you can cope again with the problems youve had before then go for it!
You will probably get much better care going private so things can possibly be better.

With babysitters, you will always find a way.

I dont think youre nuts :wink:

Wobbles

I think your nuts biut not because of the above

I haven't voted ... I think if you could cope with another pregnancy then yer go for it hun.

Follow your heart

Minxy

I voted no (sorry )

Only because Jack is still so little, he'll still want a lot of picking up and how would you cope with your SPD?

It's great that you've got Andy's support and I know how you feel about the pregnancy/baby thing.

Is there a reason why you can't wait another year or so? I guess what I mean is by all means extend your family but maybe wait a bit. So I should've ticked Yes not No because you didn't specify a time (Duh me)

Yvonne

minxy i won't be trying til Amy starts school next september and Jack is old enough to start playgroup,

i don't mean for this to upset or annoy anyone but with Amy and Jack i conceived straight away so i don't think i will need to give it much time before.

I just wanted people opinions before i went into costs of private care etc

weestar21

it doesnt matter what anyone thinks hun, its you who has to go through the child birth and its you who has to bring the baby up so go with your heart and makesure you enjoy every second of it :wink:

xxxxx

Yvonne

I just wanted other peoples opinions thats all, i know a few people have had problems and i wondered whether i should consider it or not.

Layla

go for it!!!

I personaly think the life time of joy will outweight the 9 months of pain



xx

Minxy

You know we're all baby mad here! You may not get an unbiased opinion :wink:

Yvonne

I was thinking i could ask for a section to stop the retained placenta and extra surgery to get rid of it afterwards, but it is a longer recovery and with 2 little ones, may not be easy!

I am undecided