owo

Lucky you. We have been together for 6 and a half years. We are like an old married couple Christmas and Birthdays Which is probably the reason why DH is feeling more pressure to perform than usual.

please08

Get some MACCA into him, my OH has always been a one peck on the cheek oooohhh get them off lol (TMI) I'm usually the one saying ah jesus give us a break ha, but since tryin to concieve since January, I've the same outlook as himself, GET THEM OFF was so weird about 2 wk's ago now we made love an both of us looked at each other an said That was definitely a baby making session lets hope no 2mrw an we're right tis the vein's goin thru my boob's that's freaking me out an I'm like have they been there when was due before an I'm convincing myself not OHHHHHHHHHHH so frustrating I'm gonna test 2mrw me thinks oh I don't know

Greta

Hi owo, I am sorry you have had a rough time, but think if you need to stay positive and be a bit more relaxed, else it will make you and your OH miserable! I have got really upset too when OH is not up for it at the exact time. I have the added time pressure as am now 39.

But I think this ends up being negative and I realised he needs lots of affection and to keep things light otherwise we both get down and then bd will never happen.

There is so much chance involved in ttc, so I don't think an exact calculation is ever possible. I know it's really hard, but I think the best way is to enjoy life with your OH and it will happen in time. Good luck. xx.

owo

Thanks Greta i know your right. just really hard after MC as it has made me even more determind to get that

Good Luck please08 with testing.

please08

Thanks doll was just on the phone to OH asked him did he ever notice vein's on my boob's I think he's split his side from laughing but has said no, I'm here now in my pj's don't know whether to get dressed run over the road to boots an get a test or wait on the delivery man to bring the ones' I've ordered God my tummy is doin sommersaults :O

owo

please08 i was like that just before i got my I had already tested two days early at got a so was convinced it was coming off BCP that had made me late, but still i was soo nervous going to boots to get the test thinking that someone would see me and then doing the test. i was physically shaking whilst peeing (not very helpful), and then once i got my you couldn't stop me shaking for ages.
I wouldn't be able to resist. I'd be off to Boots now in your situation, but then i have no patience.
Good Luck.

please08

Right I'm gonna go, you've just given me the push I need, I don't mind anyone seeing me, I know no1 around here anyway I'm only living here 5 months originally from Ireland ONE QUESTION can I do the test now or does it have to be your first wee of the morning?????

owo

The test i did two days early for FMU but that was BFN but then i tested four days late when i got home from work and got BFP. I'd buy a two pack of one that is sensitive do one now and then you've got a spare for tomorrow morning.
I'm soo excited for you.

please08

Woohooo right I'm away shan't be long, think I'l buy a big creamy cake also just in case xxxxxxxxxxxx

owo

DH Just phoned me. First time we talked properly since i stormed out last night. I was nearly in tears at my desk (how embarising that would have been). He was planning this nice romantic evening for us this evening and then i scuppered that my saying that my family are coming round tonight to bring my birthday pressies as it's my bday tomorrow. oh well you win some you lose some.