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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 02:31 AM   #1
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Ok i'm going to apologize in advance for my drunkenness, I've just been out for a few drinks with my lovely fiance Kev.....no chance that we are PG at the moment!!!!

Kev's best mate found put a few weeks ago that his wife and him after 2 years of trying are 8 weeks pregnant, I was sooooo excited for them, afterall they have tried for 2 years and I thought were so happy to be having a baby after 2 long years of trying!

He just tried it with my friend, wanted to have sex with her and asked her in the lane next to the pub we were in!!!!! She obviously turned him down and this is not the first time I have seen him try it on with my mates behind his wifes back, but the first since they found out they are PG.

Sorry to rant but Im soooo annoyed, not only am I upset by his behavior but I am very upset that he made out that he was going to be a perfect dad and was so devoted and then in front of everyone he was trying it on with my mate!!!

Cant believe it, he knows kev and I are trying so how dare he be so awful to his wife after 2 years of trying and make it so clear that he doesn't give a shit about the commitment that he now has!!!


Maybe Im going to feel like I over reacted in the morning but now I just feel so angry with someone who acts like he is so happy and then go behind his wifes back only 8 weeks into the pregnancy; how dare he!!!
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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 02:35 AM   #2
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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 02:39 AM   #3
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arrrrrrrrgh. Men SUCK!
I cant believe it, he's always been a bit of a lad and kissed girls behind his wifes back but at the beginning of the night he gave me and kev a big talk about that he has changed since finding out that they are PG and cant wait etc and only 8 weeks into the pregnancy he does that!!!! Arrrrrrrgh!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 02:43 AM   #4
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I know that he is a cad, but was he pissed? Old habits die hard when stupid men get drunk....
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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 03:43 AM   #5
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What a Bast**d sorry for the harsh words but it's the one thing that I just couldn't put up with, THERE'S NO EXCUSE what so ever, Oh I was drunk BULLSHITE.....that poor girl, at home waiting for the months ahead of them and an ass like him out fooling behind her back, poor girl
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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 04:27 AM   #6
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You know what, I'm with please08...what an a$$hole.

Poor thing waiting at home for him. Somebody please restore my faith in men.

(oh you may wonder what I'm doing up at this time - OH went out with mate, came home and 2.30am, kept me awake for 2 hours and has now pi$$ed off with said mate and just left a half legible note saying he's gone again and will be back in the morning. Didn't anyone tell him 4.30am IS THE MORNING. Aargh)

Sorry to hijack your thread, but you're not the only pi$$ed off female out there tonight

for you and for your friend
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oh my god!!!! Poor girl.. hes sounds like a right rat! Some men get totally twitchy about commitment and go off the rails when they feel backed into a corner... and they never change... you have every right to be outraged..
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what a b@st@rd!!
I think there is no excuse at all for this behaviour. It makes me so mad when people behave like this.
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Old Jul 13th, 2008, 11:43 AM   #10
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What a complete b.....d ,doing that when she is so vulnerable. some men are complete idiots and cant see a good thing when they have it.
hope your mate has a happy and healthy 9 months despite him.
makes you realise how lucky you are .
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