Christina C

Iam really really happy for her !!!! But i just cant help feeling sad i have been trying for so long and she just got pregnent so easy, why is it so hard me and my husband have been trying for about three years and nothing we are going to have some tests done next week so at lest the ball is now rolling


I just want i baby

DaisyDuke

You poor thing. My husband and i have not been trying long but already it feels so tough, i can't imagine how hard it must be for you and your DH after 3 years. Some baby for you, good luck.

tansey

Life does seem unfair doesn't it! My friend is very over weight and was self medicating for depression and came off the pill and bingo twins on the way!

It's good that you are going to have some tests done -get some answers. Also a lot of women who have been trying for a while on here say to me - your tun will come and having had to wait for so long it will be all the more special and worth the wait. xx

NikiJJones

Hi Christina,
Sending you my sympathy and . I've been TTC for over a year now, and have had one MC. I am going insane over all the waiting, so I cannot imagine how awful 3 years must feel. Poor you! I'm glad you are getting the ball rolling with tests though.
Since I started TTC several of my colleagues and friends have announced their PGs or had babies, and none of them have had any trouble getting PG. it is so frustrating! Everywhere I turn, somone tells me their good news. I do feel happy for them, but it is so hard not to feel pain inside.
Thinking of you, and hoping that the docs are able to find some way to help you, or hoping that you get your before they get round to it.
xxxx

Visqueen

Im sorry I know how hard it is for you. I fell pregnant in Jan after trying and when I told my friend she told me she was too. We where both due within 6 weeks of each other but I lost my baby at 11 weeks. I meet up with my friend most weeks for lunch and its so hard, sorry if this sounds selfish I am so happy for her and pleased that everything is going well but I really feel jealous.

Millnsy

Hi Cristina,

I know how you feel! It so hard but I'm sure the hospital will give you some answers to make things happen for you. We started trying Nov 06 and since then I've lost count of the amount of people announcing babies and at least 3 of them unplanned, aaagh! Also, (having a rant and winge now), how annoying is it when people on all the soap operas get accidentally pregnant after a random one night stand?! Life isn't like that!

I'm sure things will work out for you soon...
Good luck!
Millnsy x

doc123

I know how you feel too.. friend told me she was preggo at the wedding last weekend and she didnt even seem happy about it after all the fuss shes made about not getting preggo over the last 6 months! Unbelieveable! I told her about my 2 mcs and all she said was how worried she was about her pregnancy now....

Vickie

elmaxie

I can understand how you must feel.

Although me and OH have only been trying a few months I have had a few friends come off the pill and get pregnant straight away....one is very overweight, smokes, drinks and came off the pill, comtinued on with drinking and smoking and fel straight off. I must point out she did stop smoking and drinking once she found out....but me and OH have lost weight, ate healthy, taken vits, charted temps and cm....and still awaiting a bfp that sticks....

But there isnt much we can do about life being unfair....your tests are starting so hopefully soon you will get a BFP!



Emma.xx

chefamy1122

oh honey I know what you mean. Glad you are getting tests done. I hope you get your soon!